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Though I gotta say I haven't had much luck finding a date on this site, the people here are so awesome and they give such good friendly advice. Though I don't know any of you i just want to thank everyone who's posted back on my stuff and wish you all a happy hunting ;-)

Oh and remember, we all share this mudball, let's just realize those blue skies aren't only for your eyes.
Much love to my brothers and sisters of earth :-P


Wow, the people here are awesome :-): click here to read the entire thread »

Hey, give the guy a break, he's doing alot more actually trying to help people then you are right now. Pessimism is the death of the weary, and ignorance is disdainful bliss.
Try taking his advice and stop relying on others to keep you happy.


-- Everyday Wisdom: click here to read the entire thread »

Hey man, thanks for the dose of wisdom. Sometimes I like to think about things like this and share that comfort of heart with others. I think it's really awesome what you're doing here. Keep it up man, lord knows we all need to hear it.


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Hey man, listen. I know how you feel. I once dated a girl for 2 years and her father killed her. The funny thing was i really respected this guy too. Anyway long story short man, they make websites like this for guys like me and you. Sometimes i like to think that god is testing us, (my personal beliefs are complicated, but) don't let that get you down, man. I still get attatched to girls but not quite so much, im always thinking oh shit is this girl gonna die on me too? But hey, life happens. Just know that you're not the only cat out there who's lost someone precious, it happens every day to lots of people. Im sure if your wife loved you she would want you to be happy, so if taking a break from dating makes you happier then yes do that, but there's no reason you can't make just friends with girls or even date them if you please, it's a real booster for the confidence. And, don't get me wrong, im a cynical ass-bastard, but its alot better then if she just left you or whatever you know?? she still loves you and wants you to keep living. If anything her spirit will be there to guide you and keep you safe.

Worse case scenario, i'd say speak to a therapist. I didn't do that, so i had to cope with my loss on my own, i had no friends to turn to that really cared that much and so i let myself go sour. Don't make the same mistake I did man, just get out there, hang out with friends. Do something achieving, you'll feel alot better if you start fixing your life up. Me and you, we're like brothers in pain- so if you ever wanna message me just to say whats up go right ahead man talk to me. I know what you're going through, and remember- it's not over till the fat lady sings!!!


Death of a Spouse: click here to read the entire thread »

Because I've waisted my teen years away crying over every girl that didn't ever think i was good enough. I've been cheated on, lied to, stolen from, begged for thousands of second chances (to all of which i said no, i don't give second chances, i did for one girl and that was a huge mistake and also the reason i won't shed a tear ever again)
and because we don't front about everything we do. We refuse to show weakness because then the girl's going to think oh man how do i fix this or oh man how can i make it worse either way its just not good for a guy to cry because he always winds up getting fucked over for it. pardon the language. Why cry when most of the time we cause ourselves our own problems? Man is the reason for war, poverty, hatred between races and religions. Ignorance is the advent and rising of man. The less we care about the more efficient we are as people in our current situations. But in the same respect we often are too narrow minded to think of the long run, and we wind up invariably in these situations where we have to hide our tears so that others don't feel the need to take pitty on us.


why are men so afraid of showing their tears?: click here to read the entire thread »

Hey, I've never been married, and at this rate i don't think i should hold my breathe but... I've had a few long-term relationships that have lasted a couple years but they were for the most part on and off.
All I have to say is that no matter how old you are, or how long you've been with someone, feelings change. Alot of people don't get that, and they do exactly what I did to myself for 2 and a half years with this one girl, I just kept telling myself there's no one out there who's better for me or who'd like me as much as she did and I gotta tell ya, I wound up dumping her because she just didn't respect me the same way she did before. So anyway, long story short here, my advice is maybe sometimes you have to just let go, remember the good old days when y'all were in highschool flirting with every person that walked by. Sure those days may be gone but who says you can't hit a bar and meet someone who's just as sad as you??? course, don't start going after the stoned drunk ones either, just look for someone who looks like they need someone to talk to. It's not too hard, just keep your head up and remember; Life's too short to be worried about what people think of you, because... not to sound pessimistic, but everyone will forget you someday, i mean, people grow old and fade away, you know? If the whole dating shtick doesn't work out, try doing something good for yourself for a change, take a risk that you never would have taken with a wife constantly nagging you for your safety, live it up!!! That way you can say I had the balls to do THIS and you will DEFINATELY have a huge self-esteem boost, and well, ladies notice self-esteem, i think?? lol

Much love to the people of the world, cuz remember, we are all stuck on the same mudball. love ya brothers and sisters of earth.


Has anybody that got back with there ex wife/husband stayed together: click here to read the entire thread »

Okay, so I know sometimes I can act immature, but isn't that sometimes a good thing? Take it from this angle- when I'm old and gray, I'm gonna be that crazy old coot down the street who just loves to have fun and make people laugh/smile. Now, My point here is not that at all though, my point is that a beautiful girl who's got maybe 3 or 4 years on me says I'm too young. "But you're adorable, so don't take it the wrong way" Am I really "Too young" to be flirting with girls in their twenties?! what is socially acceptable for an age difference?! I mean don't get me wrong i wouldn't date someone over 26 unless they REALLY had something goin' on, but.. You know?!

anyway I talk too much. Tell me what you think. Share stories .


How can I be "too young"?: click here to read the entire thread »

It's like my old friend, ugly ass bastard, dated the most beautiful intelligent women ever, the whole reason was because he was very full of himself. Though he was with them, it never lasted long because of it. It's the attitude; all about how you think of yourself.


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