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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 11:04 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Thanks, I think I am going to bed, it has been a long day. Will have to wait and see what tomorrow brings but she is fading.. You, keep doing what you have been doing..


xx





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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 11:04 PM CST
if you dont mind my askin mylife how old was she?

yes i definitely believe sometimes we are divinely inspiredthumbs up


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 11:01 PM CST
thewall2 wrote:
Makes sense to me.


sweetie its not when you talk to yourself that we worry
its when you answer...



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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 11:00 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Touch & go, it is what it is............


trade?

i already did

wow that is prolly the only thing ive ever done before you


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:59 PM CST
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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:58 PM CST
thewall2 wrote:
I THINK I'll do a gratitude list tonight.


theres a short version running here

ill pull it up
i need it too


oooh arent we pitiful?


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:53 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
TODAY??????????????????


geez

pleez dont start on me


D'oh!







grin

ive done wored mysef out





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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:51 PM CST
haha

2 or more gathered

shall we convene then?


personally i had an appallling day


something in my life id like to change

well crap



my level of acceptance i spose


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:48 PM CST
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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:39 PM CST
kitty01 wrote:
Is there a time when it is all you can do to turn your back on your daughter for the way she is behaving. My youngest is in the hospital again, took all her medication and put a toaster in the tub with her.

She was in a mental hospital for 2 months and got kicked out last week for coming back from day passes at 5 a.m. drunk, not the first time.

Went got admitted to another hospital who made arrangements for her to go into a drug and alcholic centre, which she only stayed for 3 days and left. She had only been back at her home for 2 days when she did this.

This has been going on a regular basis. I think it is for attention. The doctor at the mental hospital told me there is nothing they can do for her unless she wants the help.

I am tired of getting phone calls all the time from the hospitals.


i suggest you go to meetings

uh oh!

then take your name off the call list

when the hospital calls you say im sorry i am not her emergency contact any more and then she will come to some sort of conclusion...super hard for a mom but sometimes we are whats the last thing standing between them and soberin up


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:37 PM CST
IMmeURyou wrote:
wow that thread i started is full, cool i feel accomplished



youre welcome!



they get to about 40 pages i just start itchin

dunno


then i came and almost burned GBs thread here

sorry again

sometimes i get this crazy idea it can be dragged into the light and be done away with-that whole 'situation'

i dunno

im an optimist

sorry GBsigh


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:31 PM CST
harmonynowell wrote:
I didn't expect such a wonderful and caring response from you all. It helps alot to have all your input cause i was feeling alone and backed into a corner and felt like the bad guy. But now I know that I am not in the wrong to be worried


no one is the bad guy

but dont police the situation either

all you can do is get out of the way
and hope
and wait

((ps-it sooo rocks to see you in here morethumbs up ))


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:29 PM CST
harmonynowell wrote:
I have a very dear family friend who I care for very very much. They have been sober for a while and have recently mentioned that they miss drinking and the taste of beer. They swear that they will not go back to there old ways of being drunk all the time. And that they are not like all the other alcoholics and can stop at one beer and only drink on "special occasions"(which to some people may be everynight !! ) and they totally have control over their addiction. From my experience w/ having other family members in that situation I know that is not what is gonna happen. Am I just blowing things out of proportion or do I have a right to be concerned. I really don't know how to make this person understand. Anyone have any advice???


i just read this again...

you know whats what

you laid it all out here
this guy is gonna drink

and its not for you to blow anything out of proportion or a right? sure you have a right to be concerned
just dont let it take rob you or yours of peace-
and not knowing how to make this person understand??

honey you cant make anyone understand anything. ever.

i know you know this stuff.

the great obsession of every alcoholic is to drink like a normal man

thats from the book

dont ask me what the normal man is or what he drinks like

i havent a clue

but i do believe alcoholism is an allergy of the body,
centered in the mind (obsession)




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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:24 PM CST
harmonynowell wrote:
I appreciate your "novel" Tater and thank you. I am asking everyones opinion. Habit and addiction are two different things in a way.


willpower is great but if you find you are a jerk
and have no peace from white knuckling it

we will be there

and cigs? the craving does pass its the mental obsession that lingers

hi tater

wave







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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:22 PM CST
harmonynowell wrote:
Thanks MF and you are so right. And I hope that all hope isn't lost


never lose hope lovey
but get outta the way and let people hit their bottom

sorry you have this -
it is painful to watch and feeling helpless feels like crap

but you are blessing them by tying your hands



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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 10:05 PM CST
ragskuttle wrote:
There is NO such thing as an occasional drink for a recovering alcoholic. Be very concerned and try to help your friend. My mother was an alcoholic and died from it. If you are an addict you must NEVER touch it again be it alcohol, drugs or cigarettes. If they had any form of control they would never have become an addict.


you cannot help your friend

the most therapeutic treatment as yet discovered is one drunk (sober) talking to another.

some will relapse
some will die or go to a jail as a result

some will just realize they really were better off sober and then,
one day at a time, get back on the wagon intending to stay on.

no one can save an addict but the addict and even then there are other clean addicts around

if somebody wants to drink
if they havent 'made a decision'...they arent done

comfort

doesnt mean all hope is lost


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Posted: Nov 12, 2008, 9:54 PM CST
mylifewithu wrote:
Good luck with that one



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<<<zipped lips


(((good job mylife)))


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