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If you back track, anyone interested might find the post I did about some friends of mine. She is about 11 yrs old than he is and they have been married a long time.Older women, younger men....... women hit their prime (sexually) After 30 yrs old. Men... lose their prime after 20 yrs old. Now you know why younger men can sometimes be better...... because a woman needs some one able to keep up with them.

Younger, older, what's the difference. So long as you get along, like and respect each other what does it really matter.

Since when don't you learn something from your partner irrespective of age. If you stop learning from and about each other, you may have a problem anyway.

I've found for some reason I relate to women older than myself better than I do to women closer to my own age or younger, but not always. I have met a few younger women that are quite interesting as well.

In the end, who cares, so long as you're comfortable with whatever it is you're doing.

He says as he is trying to claw his way out of the very deep hole he dug himself into....

Oh my gosh, what have I gotten myself into?

Yes, us men of our age have some of the the same problems that older women have. I have noticed a difference however - if truth be told - that men the same age of women looks much younger. Why?

Of course we are going to be dead before they are, so I was told. So if we choose a woman who is older than us by seven years, we will both die at the same time and no one would be left behind.

I know of several men who have out lived their wife. In my family my great grandfather out lived his first wife. He got married again, this time to an old girlfriend. He outlived her too. He than outlived world war II and a town wide cellibration was held for his 105th birthday.

My uncle is 85 and outlived his exwife. And he is more healthy and fit than many 10-15 years younger.

Like many said above every one is differant and we don't know how long we get to live.

Oh my gosh, what have I gotten myself into?

Yes, us men of our age have some of the the same problems that older women have. I have noticed a difference however - if truth be told - that men the same age of women looks much younger. Why?

Of course we are going to be dead before they are, so I was told. So if we choose a woman who is older than us by seven years, we will both die at the same time and no one would be left behind.

In closing,some people know how to make heads roll........

Sounds like this could be a new sport, bowling pins duct taped on the bottom in front of the bus and the driver hits the brakes..You get the picture.

It burned my ...too..I will soon be 71 but let me asure you I am far from dead yet.
A lot of men are done in their 50-60th and when 70? forget it.
But here again NOT all men!
These things are indeed induvidual.

I can tell you without a doubt I'd not sit there and watch someone whack someone to death. If nothing else, I'd figure I could be next. Why wait~ In the tight confines of a bus, it wouldn't be that hard to take someone down w/the assistance of 2 or 3 people. I would say JMO......but I'll say that's a fact.

Actually, I am 50/50:

PRO:
Younger women are more into-
-Fun
-Kids
-Marriage

Older women are:
-More settled/know what they want out of life
-Are more likely actually 'want' a real relationship

Con:
Younger women are more into-
-Playing the field
-More concerned with their looks

Older women are:
-Going through menopause, which really mess things up a bit.

This is an amazing website. Free emails, free IM, free flowers, free wine, free chocolates........

Intelligent and caring people to chat with, etc. etc.

However, most people on the site will never meet in person. We may end up chatting with many individuals because we like their post, profile, etc. I am not sure if there are any rules about how many individuals we can communicate with at any one time. IF we find someone we really care for and who cares for us: Good Luck.

- Does using this site means we are cheaters? I do not think so.
- Is being honest about other relationships cheating? I do not think so.
- Do we need to tell other users about every other person we communicate with on this website? I do not think so.

What do you think?

Do you believe it's possible to be alone and yet, not lonely?

Can you be lonely and in a relationship?

The fad seems to be today for a lot of women to want boy toys.
Well I think this is totally nuts.

I have had mostly guys in their 30-50 and younger, email me.
They all "soo love" older women.
They can teach us. Oh really? well guys I am still learning myself.

What can you have in common with kids so young, you can't spent all your time in bed.
Besides If he could be my son, age wise, I could never go there.

At least in other countries, the blacks don’t even try to veil their hatred toward other cultures. In current times, they are still practicing slavery, mostly of whites, but want to continue to ONLY address the slavery they committed in the past, and then go so far as to pretend that “whites” were the ones responsible for it, when it was their own that sold them in the first place (and keep in mind, only about 5% ever came to the US, the rest were sold to many other countries, who sure don’t get the flack over it that we do.
In the following article we see more of the same old same old. They just want to pick and choose which parts of an era suit them, and disregard the rest.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25739056/
“COLUMBIA, S.C. - The Confederate flag that flutters 30 feet above one of this city's busiest streets still draws a mix of head shakes and shrugs from South Carolina residents.
Some are upset the banner was removed from atop the statehouse dome eight years ago. Some say they like it in its current spot beside a memorial to Confederate soldiers. And some echo a recent call by the NAACP for the banner to be removed from state property altogether.
"I used to have to crane my neck to see it," said Hester Ellerbee, a black woman from Cheraw who visits the city three times a month. "Now it's right there in front of you."
I say, if you want to deny southerners the right to remember and be proud of their heritage, and especially that era, then only fair for them to STFU about ALL of it. Deal with the fact the confederacy IS a part of American culture and heritage, or we don’t have to listen to anything more about slavery either. Can’t complain about something that we are all supposed to pretend never happened? And I do believe that the NAACP lost a hell of a lot of those tiny shreds of respect it had left, when it started that harassment of Jena, LA.

But I did get a good laugh out of these greedy fat cats finally showing themselves to be carbon copies of daddy.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/25752382/
“But a lawsuit over how their father's estate is being run has left a rift in one of the world's most famous families. And it may now be up to a judge to get the King children in the same room.”
They, like their father, could only hold up that fake front for so long. Maybe that MLK is being shown to be the liar and thief he truly was is making it so they know the myths will all be undone soon, so no reason to pretend any longer.

I noticed that it is only women who are replying to this tread. Is it because men didn't notice this. Is it because the men who did take notice of this are still happily married?

Because I never married I can only make observations of others.

My sister (the 3rd child) was one, who didn't take no for an answer very easlily. When my parents said no the rest of my siblings would accept the their answer more readily. She was more strong willed and tended to do thing her way, and not listen to advice. Well guess you got married and devorsed twice. Now she is having the same problems with her 3rd child (a daugther).

The other story is:
A few years ago I went to another cattle ranch to looks at bulls, as I needed a new herd bull. They had a daughter that I was interested in and she is a hard worker. I was invited in for the evening meal. Yes the bread was a bit stale. The daughter, in her late 20's or early 30's,sat down and made complaining motions about the bread (much like a child). Well I noticed this, and I got to say my interest in her got turned off real quick. (She wasn't interested in me anyway).

Now a question comes to mind. How are your relationships with your kids going? We are setting up their future relationships with their partners in life. Are you teaching them how live on their own at some point.

Now a question comes to mind. How are your relationships with your kids going? We are setting up their future relationships with their partners in life. Are you teaching them how live on their own at some point.Okay, I think you are fishing, so I will bite! Morning :) I think that the "how did we/them treat our parents relate to present relationships does have weight,but you have to remember that so many things have changed and take into conderation the dynamics of every family, good and bad..IMHO, I beleive it all comes down to choices, we treat others as we choose to and they allow us to as they choose to.
Kids, well my kids ahave been getting some big doses of reality, because I am changing my role in the "family unit"; with the support and encouragment of others, a few of my precious ones, are not sure how to respond to a mom that is holding her own, growing a spine, saying no. As hard as it is, allowing them to manipulate me and emotionally blackmail me is not happening. There behaviour and my reactions are results of environment and dynamics - but all that can change, it is a conscience choice. But breaking the cycle and patterns is part of moving on! How they all react is owned by them, I don't own their behavious and choices.
As a mom, I became embroiled in the caretaker role because of certain issues...and put the role of mom ahead of being a person. All changes are hard, but the end result will be worth it and we will have healthier, respectful relationships because of it. Oh, my daughter Brit is getting married soon, and her and I are good.

really i want to know i was married 22 years and i thought he was faithful but i was wrong. can you have a longterm relationship without a wandering eye?

I am in one now..Me in Canada and him in North Carolina..I will be moving there in a month or so...

Distance is tough...I have met him a few times...he drove 1500 miles to see me a few times....

We Miss each other like crazy..but not letting it affect us..We stay strong and talk everyday...

We wont let anything or anyone stand in our way...