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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

18 hours ago : If someone wants to move in

In response to: You have met someone online, you eventaully meet in person and like him/her enough to continue dating. Now without your permission, a month later that person sells their house, quits their job and beginns to move in with you. What would you do?

1) Welcome the move.

2) Become a stunned dear, and allow the move to happen.

3) Put the brakes on, saying I want to take the time to get to you better, than and only than can you move in.

4) Run for the hills, and end the relationship immediately.

I am asking this, because a recent experiance, I have had this happen to me. And I became the stunned dear. Even helped her to move in. I didn't know her well, and didn't know if I would learn to love her. Eventaully, after taking 5 months I decided that that this person was not for me. And noticed that there was no love for this person developing in me. At this point I told her she had to leave. And she has.

I have learned a valuable lesson.

I would be interested, in others experiances in this matter.

I am going to say what comes naturally. She was moving too fast because she knew you didn't have much experience. She was going to control you and keep you on a short leash, which in the mean time your life would become a living hell and then you move out of your own home. I don't think I would like someone doing that to me either. So learn from this but don't let it scare you away from well intentioned people.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat Dec 5, 2009 9:22 PM CST : Is he a racist or just sarcastic

sexydiva70: I recently started communicating with this man. I find him very attractive and funny. We have spoke a few times on the telephone. Tonight, he referred to black men as animals, called them illiterate, bad dressers(clothing don't fit properly) and he said, he really didn't like the species. Then, he referred to me, as a different species than them.... I am black too...

The man is bad news, period. He has no respect for you, and will have no respect for your black brothers , father, stepfather, uncle, grandfather. Do not cover for him, by thinking he loves you. You are not a different species. He is the only one that is an alien from Mars. Run, not walk to the nearest exit and dump him immediately!

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:52 PM CST : Why would a female member on this site bother to email me ....

BluesTraveller: to query my age, question my motives, generally poke her nose in my business and moralise about my preferences in a partner?

I had just that in a private message I received in the past 3 days.

I think she may believes you look older, she doesn't believe you are genuine. But look at the bright side it is getting you more attention now!
Not many people look sexy in Jeans, but that is your preference, if you had said sexy in bathing suits lots more would have e-mail you...l

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:25 PM CST : I do not get this...

I understand your concern. If Chuck told her about the trait, then she knows, if he didn't then that is a different kettle of fish. Girl I can just imagine how it feels to be uninvited at wedding, and I think that the problem starts, way before then. Don't worry , the baby will be fine. Just don't get upset,it will soar your blood pressure.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:14 AM CST : Frustrated

hunter30: I dont need any1 to look after my kids I do fine on my own. just want some1 to be happy with thats all I dont like to be alone and not share good times with

Are there any singles group get together in your area? Say once a week they meet up for some event. I find that when one introduces the kids too early in a dating situation, the other partner feels overwhelm. Don't worry, eventually you will find that special someone, who loves you for you!

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:56 PM CST : Have you ever felt true unconditional love?

I have to lol

caring1: The only person I have ever felt true unconditional love from has been my son. I've had unconditional friendships and a taste of it when I was young (in a short relationship) before I understood relationships. I've felt unconditional love from most of my dogs, though my present one definitely sets the conditions.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:40 PM CST : Frustrated

In response to: I was in a long relationship and it has been a year it seems impossible to find someone to be with. Im not a bad person just have 4 kids that live with me and it is just frustrating hope it gets better

Well, I commend you for looking after the kids.Some women would be intimidated by all this. They are not sure if you are looking for a partner or someone to look after the kids. Am I correct?

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:32 PM CST : When You Have been cheated on, is it truly possible to forgive?

OUTRAGEOUS: I was told that I could forgive, but I didn't necessarily have to forget. Then it turns into a vicious circle, if I can't forget, I won't be able to let it go... it will always lurk there...

I haven't forgotten, and it still hurts a little, and leaves me short of breath... I can't forget, so I will always know the signs of cheating... I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...

Sounds familiar? Tell us about it.

If you are willing to forgive, you may also forget the whole thing. If you were to rehash the situation , it would be eating away at your self esteem, the good life, good things you were/are to be enjoying.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Thu Aug 27, 2009 9:26 PM CST : When You Have been cheated on, is it truly possible to forgive?

HJFinAZ: You do not have to forgive... You can hold on to that resentment and the pain that goes with it for as long as you choose.

Or, you can let it go, realize it had nothing to do with you and you can choose to be happy and go live YOUR life..

I agree with you. . let go and live your life.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Jun 14, 2009 8:16 PM CST : How do you know if the man\woman is serious in an online relationship?

In response to: Hello everyone...

Im just curious here and pls lets share each other's ideas about this topic please...?

Yes, how do you know if he or she is being serious with you in an online relationship?...In your case, would you ask for proofs from him or her so to make sure he or she is really sincere and serious with you?.....

Thank you....

Len

It is impossible to tell online who is really sincere, because there are lots of smooth operators around. Trust your instinct at all times.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Jun 14, 2009 7:52 PM CST : SHOLUD I APPEAR COMPLETELY NAKED ON CONNECTING SINGLES.COM AND BECOME AN INTERNATIONAL SEX SYMBOL ?

In response to: TELL THE TRUTH NOW !

Are you clearly out of your mind?

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Jun 14, 2009 7:50 PM CST : ROBBING THE CRADLE

phoenixrising1: HE IS MID 50S,, SHE MID 30S ...SHE WANTS TO HAVE HIS BABY!!!.. THEY MAY BE IN LOVE BUT IS THIS LOVE ROBBING THE CRADLE...OF A FATHER.. MANY WOMAN DO NOT STAY WITH THE FATHER TOO LONG ANY WAY,,CAN YOU PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR FEEDBACK?

I have heard of relationship like that, but it's the woman who has a agenda. At first it seems like
she was interested in the man, but after she got her kids, including the house he paid for, she then dump him. As the saying goes "what go around will come around", and she will get her karma too.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Jun 14, 2009 7:42 AM CST : do people like im?

I agree with you. There's no hi how are you would you like to im. It interferes with everything online. While you are typing, it should at least says the name of the person who is sending im in the pop up..

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun Jun 7, 2009 9:11 AM CST : people not into you

How many people here find that others are not into you?
You hear glossy speech, nothing behind it

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun May 31, 2009 8:30 PM CST : What irritates you?

people who think you are after them for what they have, and people who think you have to be one of them

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sat May 30, 2009 8:56 PM CST : how long after divorse ..WHAT NEEDS TO HAPPEN???

phoenixrising1: WE HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF HOW LONG I SHOULD WAIT....AT LEAST A YEAR IS THE FEELING OF THE CS FRIENDS....

WHAT ARE THE THINGS THAT MUST HAPPEN BEFORE I SHOULD FEEL WHOLE SO AS NOT TO BRING TOO MANY EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS INTO THE NEXT WITH ME... (BAGGAGE)..WHAT ABOUT THE HUGE HOLE AND THE LONELY NIGHTS...WHY DO I NEED TO WAIT NOW WHEN I NEED HER MOST NOW?

1 LETTING GO AND FORGIVING

2 GIVING UP ALL OUR HOPES AND DREAMS....LETTING GO

3?

4?

5?
WHAT IS THE PROCESS....TO PREPARE FOR A NEW LOVING RELATIONSHIP??

THANK YOU
KDS

You need to believe in yourself first inorder for anything to happen. You have to let go and let God!

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Mon May 25, 2009 10:49 PM CST : Dreams interpreted

ImInMishawaka: Dear mychelle,
I have the same dream almost every night. It involves some garlic powder, a bat (the flying type), a lug nut, a dirigible, 3 pints of power steering fluid, a poisonous sea snake, 2 lumps of coal, 16 bars of 99.999% pure gold, a seethrough smiley, clouds that are all shaped like Ann Margaret, an industrial sized drum of whipped cream, the windshield of a Ferrari and a stoplight that stays stuck on yellow,,,

What does this mean?

What have you been doing? Are you well rested? Caution need to be applied.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Mon May 25, 2009 9:02 PM CST : Dreams interpreted

DonDon67: michelle,my dreams always have a dragon or a snake appear in them,never bad ones[the dreams]but they always appear.is this a sign or warning?

I would say that there is some changes, some quick thinking required, you have to outwit that individual who is trying to deceive you.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Mon May 25, 2009 8:26 PM CST : Dreams interpreted

anoriginal: I had a dream in which I was in a restaurant or some location with many people around. I was looking for something/one and as I walked across the room I came across a vivid in color blue/green cor/line/rope with a frayed end that was moving across my path. I continued into the next room and saw my ex there she said something to me and then walked over to a table by the wall and spoke to the waman seated there.

Some things are at a loose end, and you are not making headway with whatever it is you need to do. Clear the clutter, the obstacles will go away.

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mychelle Toronto, Ontario Canada

Sun May 24, 2009 10:49 PM CST : Dreams interpreted

lonelygirl53: i have recurring dreams, everyone i have ever known, dead or alive is in them, not doing much, just there and i am observing, i wake up real scared and dont know why. i also have had a dream, same one over and over of my getting lost, cant find my way home or cant find my car. and this last dream came true last month, i got lost going to a drs office that i had been to many times then couldnt find my way home. after i quit screaming and beating my hands on steering wheel i looked up and their was my exit. god must have taken me home.

Your dreams are mirroring real life. It shows that you need to pay attention to something. Memory loss signals some other underlying condition. I think the diagnosis that the doctor has for you frightens you. Get second opinion on anything you don't really understand.

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