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I am in one now..Me in Canada and him in North Carolina..I will be moving there in a month or so...

Distance is tough...I have met him a few times...he drove 1500 miles to see me a few times....

We Miss each other like crazy..but not letting it affect us..We stay strong and talk everyday...

We wont let anything or anyone stand in our way...

Okay. To get back to the topic of the thread. I believe attraction works on several different, and sometimes unconscious levels. People are always talking about chemistry when they actually meet in person. But chemistry can't possibly be a factor over the net, unless its mental and emotional chemistry. Some people rub each other the wrong way in this department, but when they actually meet, the physical chemistry is overwhelming. Is this going to lead to a LTR? I doubt it, because attraction, as I said, depends on so many other levels than the physical...

I think you have worded the question in such a way that I am allowing you, by not being offended

Dio mentioned having a problem with poor hygiene, down there.

Unfortunately, It does take a lot of time to heal.
This is just my opinion but heres goes.

You have got to get yourself under control!
By not being on stable ground before getting involved with this guy, you only set yourself up for such a hard crash.
While still alone, use this time to heal and fix yourself first!! it is not that you aren't worthy, it is that you weren't really ready.

You must be happy with yourself before you can contribute to a relationship! otherwise you are just putting the entire load on the other person.

"They all seem to let me go.." why? maybe because..
sounds like a pattern that you keep following.
ask yourself,, what do these guys have in common? What were the differences?
how fast are you giving your heart over? how soon do you have intimate relations? and how sound are your decision making abilities?

Someone else can only add to your happiness.. they can not make you a happy person.
If the other person is happy, but most of what they hear from you is sorrow.. they have to fight to stay happy.

You have answered your own question,
You were not happy before you met him, you only had electronic communication with him and met him only once, you had doubts about his age (and I'm sure doubts about other aspects as well, if you take a deeper look) listen to what your mind is telling you.

This would be a great time to write in a journal! just so you will have it to read back thru , so you don't forget..

write in detail about differences and similarities of men from the past.. stay away from those traits in men and look for something different.
also write your feelings and actions with men! think of how you can fix yourself first.

Instead of being so down.. Use this time to be productive and learn from the past.

In closing I must add,
I do in a way agree with mbcasey! it was just worded badly.
When depressed, it often helps to look at others that really have it rough,, injury, cancer, accidents or worse yet they continue to fight to survive, many when there really is little hope.

watch people in worse conditions, maybe even talk to them. learn from them.

either way. you Seriously need to find the ways to be happy with yourself first!

how do u make it stop, i cant seem to. i am crying off and on, and i keep going over it again and again. i dont understand the why!!

he really hurt me, i dont know how u can do that to someone. not even call them to say it, make u feel like u are nothing to them. i am in so much pain, it has to stop

how does a person say they love u over and over and want to be with u, have ur children, then text u to not contact them anymore and say they cant be with u the arent ready to settle down! texting u this!!!??? it tears me to shreds

hi i am 18 and a virgin. i am looking for someone to take it. im not a shallow guy and age is not a factor as i like older women.

i am lonely and wish i had someone. age does not matter to me and neither does looks. if interested look at my profile and send me a message.

i have been using this site for a while now and i have gotten one flower and o messages. is there anyone out there for me. i am starting to doubt it but who knows. so take a look at my profile im not shallow and age does not matter to me. im just very lonely and bored and just because i like the color pink does not mean im gay.

Thanks so much. Unfortunately, she's not well. She has pneumonia & is partially sedated. They put the ventilator back on her. I'd like to see her, but I'm sure the less people carrying germs in & out & the less people bothering her when she should be resting, the better she'll be. I just pray she makes it through this. Her poor mother is devaitated. Her father hasn't left her side, which isn't exactly the best thing for her because she needs her rest & each time he leaves & comes back, he's bringing more germs in the room. Besides, he hadn't been there for her while she was growing up, but doesn't want to leave now. Yes, obviously he cares. But he's not really doing her all that much good, when you think about it.

has anybody ever had sex in a religous place ?

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