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Nina3
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:45 PM CST
Sommerauer71 wrote:
I think, I meant to say 100% success rate.

(Note to oneself, to tick myself off)

I agree with you, relationships are part of life, I have sat back and reflected and learned from mine, all two of them, a marriage and a relationship with a lovely man, but they broke down and I certainly played my part in those breakdowns.

Having been single for a year, loneliness does creep in sometimes, but then I look at how I can utilise my time, I set up my own message board, I moved countries, I learnt a new language.

So, yes, I cry sometimes, but just because I am a believer in having a sob and a sleep.



Ah - now that makes more sense! laugh As long as you learn something from your experiences - even less successful ones - you are bound to benefit and grow from it.

And yes - getting busy is a very good way of beating loneliness, and getting your mind to focus on other things. Take it from me - I'm busy, busy, busy at the moment! Changing countries is also a very good way of combatting down-feelings! grin

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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:39 PM CST
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:36 PM CST
Galwayman2008 wrote:
This is a very sophisticated Thread, but in the end of it the desire to being a a member of a small "tribe" will always be in conflict to being part of something bigger. Every country has faced that challenge (it wasn't until 1000 AD that there was a King of Ireland accepted by all the tribes). Go watch an inter-county football game and you'll see that tribalism hasn't gone very far away.

The forum may have changed (ie being part of a European Union) but human behaviour hasn't.

GM


Yes, human behaviour is to seek to be part of something - a couple, a family, a group, a clan, a society, etc. Already here we can see different layers. Then add bigger entities: a village, a town, a city, a region, a country, a state, a group of countries with close co-operation, a continent...

Being part of these bigger entities does not necessarily cause conflict with the smaller, closer ones. I think humans identify with different groups in different ways, and often some of the groups are encapsulated in the bigger ones.

For example, an Englishman would most likely not have a conflict with the fact that he is also a Brit (someone try to tell him that he's Welsh - that's another story!...).

In this part of the world we have called ourselves Europeans for a very long time (well - the Brits have tended to forget that they are part of Europe, but that's another story too grin ) - and it probably has not had that much meaning to us, until the EU came along.

Over the past years, as the EU has expanded, the borders practically taken away within, more and more things becoming easier to do between countries of the EU, a new sense of belonging is shaping - and this is what will be very interesting to see how far it can go. Being European now means a different thing than 50 years ago.

From what I've seen it has not taken away anything from the national identities within the EU - on the contrary, it has often raised the national identity to the forefront.

The fascinating thing is that all these different feelings of and views on identity and belonging can exist side by side - and even flourish because of it.


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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:18 PM CST
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:16 PM CST
EnSilencio wrote:
Hw did I miss this one

A foot note from the local scene (this is real life):

An Englishman and a Norwegian sits down at the bar and talks about what they had to do to get leave for visiting the bar. The Norwegian said he helped with the dishes and I don’t know what other evil task the Englishman had had to do.

Now, that is plain said.

If I have a partner I would most likely go down to the bar WITH her. Regarding the dishes, I do them, I don't use nail polish. If I refuse doing them, then we get a dish washer. Applicable in all of our home and life.

Often heard comment on “good” husband: "He is so good helping at home". Helping ???

Spot on forever!!



FINALLY!!! Someone who gets it!!! applause cheering applause

I go though the same jaw-dropping motion whenever someone says something like 'Oh my husband is great with the kids, he helps with them sometimes at home, and helps take them to school sometimes.'

'Helps'??!!?

dropping jaw


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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:12 PM CST
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:10 PM CST
ghost007 wrote:
What do you do when you are feeling lonely?

Well either try an dbusy myself in something ..work...gym..tv..a book ..orif not possible and you really crave human company pone or visit a firend and chat ..i think that immediately makes you feel better....eveyrone feel lonely sometime or other


Very true! And friends and just contact with other people makes all the difference!

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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:09 PM CST
Lagoona22 wrote:
Yes it is.....if you're going to do something, at least do it well...100% success-rate is full-marks in my book...maybe we can excel at being single?...can you be successful being single??...Is there a point to being single, or is the success of your life dependent on the presence of someone else being there?...



Successful at being single? Of course!

Especially if you have never had a relationship yet... I recently needed to get an extract from the tax authorities in order to prove civil status, etc, and my son (who is under 15) was also on this piece of important bureaucracy paper - and he was noted as being 'single'!

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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 3:04 PM CST
Sommerauer71 wrote:
I cry....

Then I crash open a bottle of wine, sit, reflect and learn about my relationships.

Do you know that all single people have a 100% track record of failure.

Good statistic that I think.

Hi all...



Hi Sommerauer!

Not sure what you mean by 100% track record of failure - do you mean past relationships?


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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 2:42 PM CST
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 8:13 AM CST
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Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 8:04 AM CST
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Posted: Jul 25, 2008, 5:45 AM CST
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Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 5:29 PM CST
Conrad73 wrote:
You see,everytime I hear about a "Strong" Central Government,I get extremely suspicious.
Look what unwieldy Monstrosity the Austrian-Hungarian Empire Bureaucracy was..That's why I wonder sometimes,whether a Political Union in Europe was the best way to go.



I agree with strong central goverment being worrysome. The political union in the EU is however not that, nor similar to the Austrian-Hungarian empire, in that its power lies with the member states - nothing can be made into EU laws without all member states agreeing, or in some cases a majority of them.

It is very easy to start saying that 'Brussels does this' and 'Brussels decides that' - what we need to remember is that the people in Brussels making the final decisions on all this are the representatives from all the EU governments. Thus the EU is not governed by a central body in the traditional sense.

The European Union is in fact unique in the world, in the way it is organized - simultaneously an inter-national and supra-national entity.




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Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 5:04 PM CST
cristina wrote:
Globalization cannot coexist with nationalism...

If the countries are to work as corporations, it's good for the market to have a representation from where the goods or components come from. It's marketing.Answer the question

Yes, nationalism can coexist with European identity, meaning, no federation, let it be this way it's much more fun this way. If federation comes, then nationalism won't coexist with it... or even "better" there is no issue...

Whatever


It already does... conversing


A federalized EU would not entirely exclude national identity, nor the possibility of nationalism - it is not as simple as black and white.



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Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 4:59 PM CST
Conrad73 wrote:
The Europeans are going to do that quite well on their own!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!You have an Illness called "AMERIPHOBIA"!
It's TERMINAL I have been told.


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And it's quite wide-spread within certain parts of Europe... uh oh! sigh


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Posted: Jul 24, 2008, 4:41 PM CST
smoky wrote:
Now I see why and how these arguments here start. This entire Thread has been hilarious and then for some reason degenerated into personal mud-slinging and insults, which I find highly amusing.

So I made what I thought was an attempt at weak humour, referring to a long ago member who lasted on CS for about 24 hours and caused much hilarity with "her" writings and how the guys responded......

Most obviously my timing was out ...... I did not expect a vitipurous reply to my posting.

SweetCherryCreamPie got the MEN on the site excited. "She" only made me laugh, and being no longer a member of CS, tis not possible to write to "her" even if I wanted to.

The essence of any form of correspondence is to try your best to not invalidate other people, or accuse them of things you have no knowledge of, or to use derogatory name calling - This I address to all the above respondents in this Thread.... Otherwise this lovely thread will simply be anhialated by the moderators of the site.

Also to remember is the fact that no-one here knows by how thin a thread other peoples lives hang, and one can very innocently be the instrument of their misery, or worse. Words are easy to write, or to say, but their vibrations continue for a long time, in the minds they are adressed to.



Very true... wine


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