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I would not even date a woman without kids (anymore).

Lived with one, dated some and found that they simply do not understand the, lets say, two types of love, you have. One, deep emotional binding to your kid(s) and the love you can feel for your partner.

And that this leeds to priorities that are not (or not easily) understandable for "un-kidded" partners. If something is seriously wrong with the kid(s) the partner comes (temporarily) second. This is my understanding of my parental commitment and constitutes itself in all the big and little sacrifices that belong to being a parent.

In my experience people without kids see them as "a person" while parents see them as part of themselfs and act differently.

The reaction of the "new" kids in a new partnership can be as mixed as it comes. After a lot of emotional support for my two step-daughters (with a dying grandma in the house and her death) the result after the divorce is that one step-daughter does not even send a "Thank you" email for the X-mas presents while the other one can not wait to come over and visit.

CU Ph.


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Looks like I have to learn more dance steps than just the horizontal Lambada....

CU Ph.
C. my lips are sealed, I will not tell mmbmhf, mb mnvjfhvukfv, cmvn


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I know some of these relationships. The point is always, that the friend is gay. Woman - gay man and vice versa.

My daughter had a friend when we lived in Israel and the biggest sort of fun they had was sittigg at the beach and checking out men togther....

Otherwise it is also possible (own experience) between straight men and women. I have a friend for more than 15 years and we worked and lived togther for some time without ever touching each other.

CU Ph.
"If you can think it - it exists"


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Sounds like a great idea to me. I am in, no doubt.

They even have shoes my size over there, 48, also called _mini boats_


Hey, but this time I would come with a backpack and a sleeping bag.
Just in case my castle is locked again by my near dead like sleeping daughter...

Great day all

CU Ph.


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Nice description of Canadian traffic so far :-). But one exception I have not seen here in Malta: You drive a 2 lane road with one! car in front of you and no other car around. Then this adventures car breaks down to a halt - in front of a green traffic light --- every green traffic light.

Or, you try to cross a street as pedestrian at a coner where the cars do right turns at red. Thanks to my jumping abilities I survived.

Well, when thinking about it, live of a pedestrian is much more in danger here. Just try to cross the street at the roundabout from regional street to Paceville.


CU Ph.


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Thanks for the warm fuzzies you all. But no extra sleeping today. A friend is leaving Malat and goes back to the UK, so I offered to coock a special lunch. Off to the supermarket on shoemakers horses

CU Ph.


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Absolutely right, big time great time. Didn't have fun like this for a while. And thank you to both of Jacko and Cherscic to help me get a ride to the hotel that is right in front of my nose.

So, but now to let you all know: I made it home from the Fuego (2 mins walk) but could not get into my house. My lovely daughter locked the door with 2 locks and I had a key for one So I had a nice sleep on the chairs in the garden and a few more visits to the Fuego But you great guys and gals were all gone.

Finally around 7 i could wake her up ynd get into my bed. So all is fine I am back in the harbor

Would love to meet you all again

CU Phaidros (Elmar)


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Oh dear, if I would have only known you when I lived in Mississauga!
But mainly it is based on the cultural background your society comes from, Victorian and Puritans. If you have not already dig deeper into the idea of the Puritans and sex and you will find something that echoes until today through the North American society.

Being from Europe I was shocked to see all these beeps and blind spots on TV and even more when they told me I have to say shoot instead of shit. All for the sake of the children. All these words and many more I learned then riding on the bus in the afternoon when the kids drove home from school. The one's that are supposed to be protected can teach their parents quite a few new words....

Strangely enough, in countries where women have no prob to be top less in public parks and swimming pools and shit is named shit, the rate of criminality is less than in Canada and especially in USA.

So, the answer for you: you just don't fit the social norm in that particular society of a decent female that has to accept sex because it belongs to the process of having children.

In other societies they would see you as an open minded, modern woman. As would I do.



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Hi brother
dont be afraid
you are not alone

MEPIS and Kunbuntu here and windoze only for work - no other option :-(


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You'r talking about that safty belt your holding, aren't you?


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Arabella, I will tell Marvin about you - that may get him out of his depression. Right now he is talking to the ship computer and on the way to make him cry


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Douglas Adams is a genious for me in that


And - 21 is only half the answer


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Hey Alex, I didn't know you can write Maltese nice one, or as they say in Canada: beauty


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whatever they are named I love them with bacon and cucumber and mostard inside - and I die for the sauce my mother made....


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Dear HeinzCurryKetchup the actual translation for Rinder-Roulade is beef-roll-over, or was it roll over beefhoven?


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Hi guys,
this is just to tell you that I am still in the kitchen sweating to prepare the food. Will be back and with you soon with pork tender loin, cut in round slices, wrapped with bacon, herbes de provence on top, and put in the oven for 45 mins. On the stove there are the swiss rösti and green beans in butter and garlic.
Drinks? ehm yes, an italian Amarone, but sorry I have to hurry back downstairs to the kitchen it smells a bit strange ...


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