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Hi Pompey, i wont ask you how you re as your posts are speaking volumes about your feelings.
I don't know when you split from your ex but if it was recently, i can only make a small suggestion. Don't be looking for someone yet, give yourself time to heal.
There is someone for everyone as you know.

Don't cry fella,you'll be fine,you're not the only one who's been in that state trust me

hi welcome to forum , i've been there and i know it's not jus women it's men to and i av a beautiful son too , it's took me 3 years to get my life bak on track ,took time out though by choice but time heals babe ,i'll be 40 next sunday and i'm hoping to start enjoying my life now my boy is growing up his 12 and his doing his own thing within reason so u'll get there but it may take time .

You sound like you are hurting and I am so sorry for you - but its just the pattern of life you know. Some men are b....ds and some women are lousy too. And sometimes relationships go wrong for lots of different reasons - dont want to get too heavy cos its Sunday but its not always about a partner cheating. We change and evolve as we get older and we want different things. Its just life my friend. The secret though is not to be bitter and not to take all the anger and hurt and mistrust into a new relationship. Look back on what happened and count it as experience and move on - it just wasnt meant to be. You are lucky if you have children out of the relationship and if you still see them - lots of people dont - no doubt on the board people will tell you that. Make life good for your kids and concentrate on them for a while and I bet when you arent looking the right person will sneak up on you. Good luck and join us on the board - its a fun place to be when you are feeling down and the crowd on here are all really nice and friendly and most of us have gone through some heartache too so we know how you are feeling.