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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 4, 2008, 12:04 PM CST

My sister is 100% in love with this guy. in the past, people have tried to warn her about him but she wouldn't hear any of if.

What I want to do is hire someone to get pics of him with the other women. That may be the only way to get her to see reality.

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 4, 2008, 11:57 AM CST

Manyfeathers wrote:

Have you told her yet????????????

If I was the one who saw him with the other girl, I would have told her weeks ago.

If I jump the gun and say somethine it's going to look like I'm making things up because I WASN'T THERE.

My other sister had a heated discussion about it this past weekend...It's in her hands not mine. My other sister really hates this guy, so I'm not sure why she didn't say anything when this happened.

I'm very close to my sisters and I hate seeing this conflict.

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 1:09 PM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

........ That's if they were lucky (being sarcky) because if they weren't, they were forced to go somewhere where some backstreet abortiobist would butcher them. The guys in those days would always got away scott free!!! There is no way of knowing how many people are walking around who had to experience such stuff because it was never spoken about........

This happened to my aunt Norma. She almost died and she was never able to have children of her own.

however, being that she never had her own kids, did a pretty good job of raising her step daughters in Miami.

So maybe there isnt some kind of mommy magic you get with having kids

What I'm saying Flower, I maybe young and childless, but it's not like I fell off the tomato truck just yesterday.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 12:59 PM CST

Sommerauer71 wrote:

Not all teenage mothers suffer, those that are uneducated, live a vicious circle, because they did not have parents that were tooled yes, they will suffer, but rather than slate these people, is it not time as a developed soceity to support our youngsters?

I don't see how telling todays youth, "don't worry if you get pregnant, it's ok, we'll support you",

Is going to make the situation better.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 12:50 PM CST

You have never lived off the state?

you got me there, Sommer,

This is the first time in my short little life I've lived off the state. I was laid off in in Dec. 07 because my company moved to Brazil.

So now, the State of Michigan is paying me unemployment benefits until I finsh my degree in Dec. 08

I'm the first one in my family (mom, dad, sisters, brother) to accept government money.

As far as generalizing about teenage mother here in the U.S. being on welfare.....

There may be a few lucky ones ... but most of them do end up on welfare.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 12:40 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

You're right princess over-all it isn't a good idea...but the reality is that is happens and as a parent there is isn't a lot you can do except guide your children in the right direction instilling in them all the good moral values etc that you want them to have and hope they make good decisions....sometimes they do and sometimes they don't....sometimes they make mistakes and have sex early on because they think they are in love and sometimes they are stupid and don't use protection....and to berate after the fact does not help what is already done...I think I would have a lot less respect for a mother who abandoned her daughter and disowned her in her time of need than I have for a woman standing beside her!!!!!

I've seen this happen. girl in my grade (jennifer) got pregnant at16. Her parents waited for the baby to be born and sent her to Detroit. They told her they never wanted to see her again. They paid for a 2 bedroom apartment until she turned 18.

She was one of only 4 girls in a graduating class of 370 that had children before graduation.

Believe me, in my community,it WAS the worst thing your daughter could do.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 12:31 PM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

OMG!! More informed opinion on how to raise children from someoone who has none!!!

Soooooooooooooooo on top of the kids trauma for having burned the house down or other catastrophic results you would hit them?

take a chill pill, Flower

are you realllllly going to say you never, ever, ever, ever swatted your kids bum?

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 12:25 PM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

Agree with a lot in this post.

BUT

Just because you have never brought up kids DOES MEAN that you are even less in a position to pass judgement on others parenting skills and even less in a position to tell others to get real!! Because theory and reality don't always match up!!

Also, about the age when someone should be having sex ... the law in many places puts the age of consent for sex at 16.

Maybe I'm judgemental about this because the majority of teenage mothers are in the welfare system. Maybe it's because No one has the balls to say it's wrong for teenage children to have children.

Maybe it is the way I was raised myself.

When I was growing up, getting pregnant before you graduated high school was one of the WORST things you could do. It was disgraceful and showed a lack of morals.

It seems now, the standards people have for their children have plummeted

Teenage mothers suffer greatly for their mistake and I can fully understand why their families (if they have one) rush to their defense in their time of need.

I'll never say I'm charming or nice but I'm not going to lie and say it's ok for teenage girls to have kids.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:57 AM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

You know what? I am real!! That is why I wouldn't presume to judge the parenting skills of others from the mistakes that their children make!

You on the other hand are talking about something you know nothing about. You have not had children and have not brought children up.

You are the one who needs to get real in the real world ... and it doesn't always match what we would like it to be ...

Just because I don't have children, doesn't mean I can't see that a 17 y/o girl shouldn't be having sex.

just because you do have children, doesn't mean your an expert at rasing them.

Just because teenage sex has become the accepted norm, doesn't mean it's moral behavior.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:51 AM CST

Sommerauer71 wrote:

No, that is wrong Princess.

Getting pregnant before you finish high school is wrong.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:37 AM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

And of course you know this because you have brought up several kids and know exactely how to be responsible for every single thing that your children have done while they were out with their friends? Am i right?

Oh get real!

It doesn't take a rocket scientist or a mother of 20 to know what common sense is.

i guess some people have common sense and some people don't.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:35 AM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

Are you saying NOBODY should have sex before they graduate?

Yes! Duh!!!

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:34 AM CST

FlowerOfTheSun wrote:

Excuse me Princess!!! A girl gets pregnant and that makes her a slut?

In your eyes, would she still be a slut if she hadn't got pregnant?

why is it ok for teenage girls to get pregnant??????

Why do you want to celebrate this behavior???

Is it because it gives you a reason to have another baby shower? Or to spend thousands of dollars on pampers with Winnie-the- Pooh on the front?

I don't get it. I thought it was important to get your daughters through high school BEFORE they got pregnant!!!!

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:28 AM CST

vonney wrote:

Ah come on hun just because the girl got pregnant doesnt make her a slut. In my experience the sluts are the ones who know how to avoid getting pregnant.

getting knocked up before graduation = slut

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:27 AM CST

Don216 wrote:

TV, movies, music, etc.

what the hell kind of TV, Movies, Music are they watching?

I don't buy that excuse.....Parents can try to wash they're hands of responsibility for the teenagers f**k-ups, but it's not going to work. The parents ARE responsible.

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:18 AM CST

fireliter wrote:

should the actions of ones children be a basis on which to judge the character/moral fiber of the parent?

Who did she learn that slutty behavior from?

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:10 AM CST

greenoctober wrote:

Spank or time out? Which do you prefer, why or why not.

If they burned the house down or some other catastrophic f**k up......spanking

anything else....time out, heart-to-heart talk, extra chores, etc......

To use spanking all the time is silly and ignorant. I think it shows a lack of self control of the parents.

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princess49503
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008, 11:03 AM CST

Wow, I thought Americans would be at the top of the list.

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 1, 2008, 6:23 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

As soon as you forget how to string a sentence together....

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princess49503
grand rapids, Michigan USA

Posted: Sep 1, 2008, 5:48 PM CST

Indyfella wrote:

Well, if you had Gore, you'd be cruising around on a battery powered cycle Robert....for starters.I don't think he's that "evil" person that you all think he is. I don't think we've had a truly evil president.
We've had bad ones.

Also, I'm not sure how a social idiot could be out two so called "scholars"......doesn't say much for those "scholars", does it?

There's that side of me that hopes we do get Obama for 4 years though...cuz it'll take 20 more years before the country will want another one...

I'm not saying Dubya is evil....I would never say that about him!

I'm just saying he's a complete F****g moron!!!!!!!!

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