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Thank Pete but thats what life dished me up, I took the opposite approch a didnt want to dish that up to me kids. I discipline believe me, and the proof is in the pudding so to speak.

Sorry I disagree I had a mum that beat the shit out of me and have no farkin respect for her whatsover.

A man who eats pussy...

I just bought a steamer!! I have resolved to try and better my diet! I will eat more steamed veggies, I already use a Foreman grill for meats and fish.

BUT I SHALL CONTINUE TO DRINK, DO DRUGS, AND SMOKE!!

Pete this is such an in depth topic, yes we do the reasons for this vary. Is it the fact that lack of parenting is a cop out and we blame our teachers, sorry doesnt work with me. With my kids I knew what they were struggling with and tried my best to help and made the teachers aware. As far as schooling I believe to many parents are expecting the school system to raise their kids.

I just bought a steamer!! I have resolved to try and better my diet! I will eat more steamed veggies, I already use a Foreman grill for meats and fish.

BUT I SHALL CONTINUE TO DRINK, DO DRUGS, AND SMOKE!!

I am here and I am nice.

A yard of what?

On second thought don't answer that.

Yes this is not an easy question to pinpoint. I would say it is a numbers game. X amount of men want to hold on to their manhood while they are commited, X amount of men do want to loyally commit, and X amount of men are players. I would say the majority want a relationship, but still hold on to their masculinity and independence.

To answer the first part of your question...It means that this age group is afraid of losing their manhood, and they believe that this is what commitment implies. They fight for independence and what to have the liberty to do as they please, hang out with buddies, and not get locked into promises and agendas.
A majority of them are looking for the "perfect" woman...a ready made relationship based on silly expectations their picture of how a relationship should be. When something goes wrong with a woman, it seems easier to leave her and start over with someone new. These men want the relationship to work out, but they also want their freedom. Something a woman has a hard time dealing with, cause most women want to eagerly connect. A good deal of these men who want to hold on to their manhood while in a relationship, will resort to cheating in order to maintain their masculinity and to feel some freedom.

There is a small group of men who do want to loyally commit as well.

Then there are the players who are just looking to rack up the numbers to elevate their coolness.

I would say the majority of men in their mid 30's really do begin to look for a lasting relationship. They want to connect cerebrally/spiritually and settle down. They are past the "playing the field game" as they are looking for a woman to fill certain roles, like wife and mother.

This has been very educational, I think by reading the guys response's they are not that different then women. I know women that just want to go out and have a good time, or go into a relationship thinking they want long term so they do everything to be what that person wants them to be only to find out a few months down the road that by loosing their self they are not happy and turn and blame the guy for it (which guys do this too) like they are the one who was not honest. Then there is that old saying...opposites attack ....good guy's want bad girls...good girls want bad guys (challenge??) who knows ....boggles the mind.....

I know. My daughter and a friend had a cop tell them that they couldn't pull a little kid in a wagon down the street. It's unbelievable!

Yes I would have to agree.

hey we got some gator on the grill want some

What the fuck kind of response was that? Unfuckingbelievable! Pianolover, do whatever you feel comfortable doing. Never mind what others have to say.

The ignorance displayed by some members on this site is atrocious and should be disregarded.