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I went out to see it.


solar eclipse.........: click here to read the entire thread »

I know what you mean, I left everyone I knew in NY when I moved here with my wife, I didn't think I needed to make new friends as long as I had her and my old friends could visit on the weekends, but she left for a jerk at work and my friends stopped visiting when my schedule changed, Alone sucks.



:( I hate when s* happens: click here to read the entire thread »

I'm with you, I'm single for the first time after 13 years with my wife and I'm a bit (actually alot) scared of what I may be getting into when I meet a woman.

One statistic is that 1 out of 4 18 to 35 year olds have an STD, I don't plan on adding to those stats.


Birth Control?: click here to read the entire thread »

I don't know about the rest of you but I don't see a point to getting too friendly with too many people on singles sites.

As soon as I'm no longer single, I'll no longer be on these websites. So why bother with "virtual drama"?


For the guys... : click here to read the entire thread »

At your service.


blonde,brunnet,red,black................what kind of hair colour is more attractive?: click here to read the entire thread »

Blondes catch my eye, but beautiful is beautiful no matter what her hair color is, I love a pretty face.


blonde,brunnet,red,black................what kind of hair colour is more attractive?: click here to read the entire thread »

If they don't go, I don't go.


Do Animals Go To Heaven: click here to read the entire thread »

Thanks, I've been told it's insensative but I wasn't the one who had the affair.

My conscience is clean.


Advice ..... relationship drama, true love or blind love: click here to read the entire thread »

Everyon's different. I have a one strike you're out policy. My wife and I were together for 13 years, but she destroyed a level of trust that can never be regained, so as much as it hurts, it's over, we'll never have that back again.

If another man can get past that, more power to him.


Advice ..... relationship drama, true love or blind love: click here to read the entire thread »

Huntington's disease runs in my ex-wife's family, SOmetimes the end can justify the means, I wouldn't mind living in a world where we no longer have to watch loved ones suffer slowly and die young.

A world where there's enough food and resources to go around doesn't sound that bad either.

From an alternative view, if you believe in the possibility of reincarnation, there would be the possibility of experiencing a world with all the bumps smoothed out generations from now.

Then again a perfect world would most likely be boring.

To sum up.. I'm more concerned with paying my mortgage than I am about eugenics, just wanted to throw my 2 cents in.




Eugenics-The Future of Humans?: click here to read the entire thread »

It's wrong. Relationships shouldn't overlap, not if anyone ever expects to trust anyone, and without trust they can't have love. Not to mention "what goes around comes around"

Maybe his karma will be a nice STD or at least to have the same done to him by someone he starts to love.




IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY "IN A RELATIONSHIP" - You have no business looking till you clean up the mess.: click here to read the entire thread »

"on"


What is a turn-off on a first date?: click here to read the entire thread »

You guys get to go no dates? Man, I suck...


What is a turn-off on a first date?: click here to read the entire thread »

"they got a pepper bar"


What'd ya have for dinner?: click here to read the entire thread »

cheese quesedias (sp?) and guiness


What'd ya have for dinner?: click here to read the entire thread »

I'm still pissed about losing Carnivale.


Deadwood??: click here to read the entire thread »

I emptied my 401k into a multifamily home here in CT while living in NY w/ my ex wife.

I worked 7 days a week for a year, ripping the place apart and putting it back together (m-f NY 2 hr drive to work on the house on the weekends)

I thought I found the perfect tenants, A mom, dad and 1 kid, perfect for a 2 bedroom apartment, dad worked full time mom was home with disability income and she could keep an eye on the kid.

Perfect, right?

They paid 1 month rent and 1 month security and stopped paying altogether.

My wife and I rented in NY so we were forced to carry our rent in NY and the mortgage in CT, at that point there was no money for both.

It took 3 months to evict them and when I finally got inside they had destroyed the place.

I don't know how many additional people they moved in but I removed 9 full sized matressess and months of collected, rotting garbage.

They kicked through doors and walls, I even had to clean food off the ceilings.

Needless to say, it was emotionally and financially devastating. We couldn't afford to put all that work back into the place and it was unrentable, so we scrambled for work in CT and moved in to fix the place while we lived in it.

After 13 years together, she left me for an asshole she worked with for a few months.

I have a judgement against the tenants for the $11,000 for the damages they left behind, but even if I ever collect on that, I'll never regain my true losses from the nightmare they caused.


HAS ANYBODY EVER RIPPED YOU OFF ?...TELL US THE STORY !: click here to read the entire thread »

Don't you think he'd rather be with you than boot camp? Do the right thing and delete your profile.


I really need someone to talk to: click here to read the entire thread »

Robert Moses field 5, long Island, NY.

Every summer.




Nudist beach....would you?....have you?: click here to read the entire thread »

I'm not religious but, Funny thing about atheism, there are no atheists on death beds.


The Atheist Professor: click here to read the entire thread »