Posted: Mar 31, 2008, 12:03 AM CST
I feel a need to summarize here,
this is based on what I have read above and in the other woman thread.
Most of the women that go after married men are just game players, wanting to take a happiness that they see in another couple, or easy pickins, or just for the ego boost knowing that she can take another woman's man.
further.. if a woman's man is fooling around with another woman, he is a useless dog that has hurt her so badly, but in many cases everyone accepts it as good and moral if this same woman goes out and sleeps with another married man as long as we have an excuse. hell.. in some cases the only excuse needed is that she just wanted to. and this woman still gets kudos by some. WTF.
But if a man cheats for an reason what so ever- he is a useless dog. this point come out by so many women bitching and moaning about their ex being a cheater and how useless he was.
This is not the consensus of all of the women here,
and if you are dating a man and really honestly don't know he is married... that does not apply here. if you don't know, it is not your fault.
but I have heard a few saying how bad it hurt that their man was cheating, but then turn around and say in another sentence that they have dated a married man or patting another woman on the back for cheating. and saying "I knew the wife couldn't find out" is crap.. there is always a way she can find out! and I'm sure she will hurt just as bad as you did when you were cheated on. so you then become the cause of the same pain that you have been thru.
all of what I just wrote sounds outrageous doesn't it!
But I DID NOT say it..... it is exactly the answers that all of you have given. so after reading all of that, How many are shaking your heads?
Ok, next. another thing that keeps coming up over and over here is..." I don't judge others or/ it is wrong to judge others". That is a nice thought when you don't want to be judged isn't it. but it is also totally bull___t. everyone judges, they just judge what is handy for them to judge at the moment!
or you judge one person for it but not another!
This thread was start because I got so angry when I was married and her so called friends constantly hit on me, then now... I come here as a single and the Married women hit on me. which also pisses me off!!!
I have always said.. If you don't want to know the answer - don't ask the question. well.. got a lot more in this than I expected. almost wish I hadn't ask., to be honest, I Have learned here that most people are so damn cold hearted and really just don't care about anyone but themselves. as long as they get what they want in the end.
There are some pretty cool people here and some not cool at all. now you know why most of the time I just tell stupid jokes and play around, don't let myself get too attached to people here online. then a few of you tell me that I don't vocalize enough or at some times when I should. or people telling me that My way of living is f*^$ed when your life is totally out of control. At least I am honest with both Myself and others. so how the hell can you be honest to anyone if you cant be honest to yourself??!! This rant is not at everyone! but those of you that are offended by it... it is most likely meant for you.
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