Posted: Feb 26, 2008, 8:27 PM CST
The OP is way too vague to comment much,
But will say this much,,,
Fantasy is on thing, reality another. BOTH need to know where that line is... Fantasy can really heat things up.. but crossing the line can cause a lot of damage.
Everybody views sex a bit different.
There is no one answer for all.
With that said.
I don't think sex is the main point to a relationship.
some here have said leave if you don't both agree about the sex life.
Bullshit.... bad way of looking at it ,, talk it out and find some compromises and common ground.
Seriously.. look at the entire relationship-is the rest of the relationship ok or good??
if it is.. its worth working it out..
But if ALL of the relationship is crap........ the sex is not the problem issue.
That would be a lack of being able to handle any of the relationship.
if all else is shit,, how can the sex really be so good!
That would be a mental problem!
Sorry so blunt, I don't do sugar coating very well.
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