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What do u see in Obama that makes him a potentially good leader.. what are his objectives for your country... does have he particular policies.. .social or fiscal which appeal?

Educate me.. cause so far.. all I have heard about this man (who appears to have come from nowhere) is that he is Black and he 'may' be Muslim...

Genuinely curious

I'm sorry Oso, have to disagree with you on this one, getting a BJ in the office doesn't bother me in the least compared to completely destroying the entire economy of the largest economy in the world, or destroying the 7th largest economy in the world (Calilf) by not stepping in and regulating the energy commission (which Clinton did do) when some poor decisions were made at a State level... or spreading fear in order to revoke personal freedom, and then there's the war... No, the BJ doesn't bother me at all.

spreading fear in order to revoke personal freedom

The only way things will change in this country is to quit letting $$$$ be the deciding factor...but that will never happen. It takes too much money and connections with big money to even get on a ballot.

I think that there should be a fund that allows ppl an equal footing before elections. It would be a tough thing to pull off...but it would help. That, and term limits for the Senate and House. 2 terms. period. That would help to get rid of the old boys network, and things might actually get accomplished that HELP our country.

So many things that the masses should be hounding their senators and congressmen about!

I can't believe it either..

"All" Clinton did was "not have sex with that woman"...

I know that he is old enough and everything.It is just being protective I guess.Our older brother already said he was going to hit him in the head.LOL

Theres the Dr.Ras I know,you said it,and said it with tact,dang does this mean we owe you a hat with a tassle?

I will try to tell him that but we will see what he does.I guess I am just the type of brother that hates to see my brother in pain.I hate it when someone does not understand what is going on.

But she says that she is not screwing him just doing other things.I know what I want to tell him but I do not know if he will listen.A part of me agrees with you and wants me to tell him something like you said, but I do not know if he would listen to me after that.I guess we will know what is going on in the days to come.

Egadds Dr. Ras,don't pull any punches or hold anything back ok? I will just bet you are a contradicting person,maybe not,maybe though or is that me!!

This happened to my brother.A girl that he had been dating for 3 months told him the other night that she thinks that they should just be friends again.He did not know why because they told each other they loved each other and fell head over heels with each other despite the fact they lived 8 hrs from each other.She did not talk to him at all yesterday then finally did and told him that she messed around with another guy.There was no sex but they did mess around.It was in the guys cry and it was this weekend.Well she did then stop talking to my brother until late last night.He asked some questions.He found out that it was more then once.He does not know if more then once that weekend or what.He did not ask that.She does not know if she still loves my brother or wants to be with him still or wants to be with the other guy.She says that she is confused.She only talks to him right now through text messages because shes not in the mood to talk on the phone.Whatever that means.She said that she has been blank all day yesterday too.She is really confused about things.

I am trying to give my brother advice on this but I do not know anymore what to do say.He is heart broken and hurting.I have never seen him ever cry as much as he has yesterday.Can some of you please give your thoughts on this?

Thank you.

While it's a great idea... it won't work. Why? Because social security considers drug addiction and alcoholism to be diseases and they would continue to receive benefits under disability. Sucks doesn't it?

Sure, but where would you take me, Ras? God, I hope not to the Road Kill Bar and Kill down the street - that's where all the local ruffians always take me.

hmm.. so Is flirting healthy ?

ohh , firstly .. what do u categorise as flirting ? and healthy flirting ?

Is healthy flirting permissible .. if yes ..

Is it permissible when in a relationship also ?

Where do we draw the lines to flirting ?

What the heck... this thing mixed up my words when it posted

Hey Ms Ambrose, shave that face and I might consider taking ya out.

is what I had written

Hey MShave that face and I might consider taking ya out!s Ambrose........

I saw the "flirting" and missed the "healthy" part... I thought I'd finally found a home here...