Posted: Feb 16, 2008, 12:17 PM CST
sxynite69 wrote:We've been together for 14 months. She and he have "talked" for about 15 months. She told me I was a fool to stay with him. Maybe I am, but I know on a daily basis who he is{Thought you knew him-When in fact all you knew was the front he was putting up for you}, not just "virtually".
We've actually "talked" more in the past week than ever. {This is common sense-He has a lot of talking to do to win you back- all part of the playres game}I believe he's sorry for everything.{He couldn't deny, he was cought.sure he is sorry, that he got caught-not that he did it} When I found out, he never denied anything. He said it had been over, and was angry she hurt me by contacting ME first.
I have read all of the replies but chose this one to respond to.
I think you might want to reread them.
It is very clear that you care deeply for him and equally as clear that this guy is a boy, by the things you have quoted him as saying.. He sounds like the typical player, That what he wants comes first.
I would be willing to bet that she is not the only other that he is playing with..
is this guy really sorry?
Easy way to tell.
Don't give him a warning ahead of time.. tell him that you want him to take you to the site he was chatting with her on,,on his computer.
look at his contact list and emails.
If he has nothing to hide and is as serious as you want to think.. he will let you.
An honest man has nothing to hide.
I know many will not agree with me.....But I am upfront anf tell it likeI see it.
You deserve better!!!
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