Posted: Jul 13, 2008, 1:44 AM CST
riyablossom wrote:Its always suprised me how males think so much differently than females on many issues esp. emotional . Its like you go all sad and touchy on issues they can be outright cold about or rather find you totally incomprehensible to have that reaction even.
As women .. i guess most women like men to be prompt in staying in touch , displaying affection ,calling , speaking ..... just being there.
I guess men might expect the same of women .. not sure.
I was talking to a friend this morning and we sort a concluded we must be doing the man's share of thinking and feeling too
I am not generalizing but my observation and experience so far.
And Guys .. do you find a lot of women emotionally a bit too over sensitive or say .. difficult to understand ?
So ... people what do you think ? any experiences to share ?
Men and women if mature - compliment each others qualities.
Each having different qualities adding up to a complete, in the ideal environment.
Women are usually better with the tender moments and tender needs and Men are usually better dealing with the tougher situations.
Many times when a female gets overly emotional she becomes somewhat irrational...*such as if you hit a deer with the car.. a woman will cry and carry on when a man will usually put the deer out of its suffering*. Just an example.
But what you have said above sounds more like you and your friend have just been involved with the same type of men.
This is not the sum of all men..... just the ones that you have come across.
But to say that women do the men's share of the thinking is pretty insulting.
all men are not the same.. just as not all women are the same...
Heck.. I cried at my Daughters wedding,
When I was married, I was the one who wanted to sit and discuss problems.. while all she wanted to do was scream.
So....... where is the womens gentle side in this kind of situation?
The trick is just in finding the one that can bring out the best in each other.
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