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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 10:59 AM CST

Sorry about the typos...
my fingers haven't woke up yet.

<-------- coffee

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 10:52 AM CST

scorpiosiren wrote:

ok so u hid ur true identity the only damage done is emotional u cant sue for that well not here anyway,not sure bout the states,and im sure everything u told him was true apart from ur pic n name, try n talk to him again explain why u did it u obviously were lackin in confidence at that stage,u didnt lie about ur feelings for him,n if he did develop feelings 4 u it was the real u not this fake pic r name,tell him ur sorry,lots of people hide there identity on datin sites dont worry bout it.......i liked this guy from a site turns out his pic was from a magazine but it wasnt his looks i liked it was the fact he made me laugh i still speak to him on a reg basis,i was gutted he didnt look anythin like hs pic n i didnt go out with him but i made a new friend

are you kidding???

many people are so desperate for affection..That they lie, cheat or whatever it takes to have someone in their life. sooo sad.

but.. if it is based on lies from the start........you really don't know the person at all.

and wonder why life is so screwed up.. RIGHT.

are there the same lame asses that marry a man in prison that they just met by a friend giving the the address of an inmate?
Sure... a guy in prison will tell you anything to have a place to stay when they are paroled.

as Forrest Gump's Mom said........ STUPID IS AS STUPID DOES!

I believe in Karma.
screw someone over.. hope you get what you deserve.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 2:06 AM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

Yes...that's the only way...involving money or a signed contract...but saying she caused him emotional damage...makes me think there wasn't...otherwise it would be pretty straightforward...

Hell, my EX caused me a lot of emotional distress........ I ended up paying her!

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 1:58 AM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

Anger yes...lawsuit no...there is no case....and yes e-mails can be used as evidence...but only where there is a case to be made...and this isn't it...based on the info given anyway...

Something tells me that we only got a fraction of one side of the story here.
I could be wrong.. but a suit could be brought if money was exchanged under false pretenses.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 1:42 AM CST

Who are we looking at?
the real you or another fake photo????

I can't blame him at all for being angry.

as for getting sued...
only if you got some kind of material or financial gain from him.

as for emails.. makes no difference what name you use.. your IP address is on every email.
even if you use an online email service... your account can be tracked by the info contained in the email properties.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 4, 2008, 8:41 AM CST

I feel so bad for Tara Banks........ she just lost her job.........nice going C.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 4, 2008, 8:37 AM CST

somechick wrote:

It's only a pipe dream anyhow.

You mean Brad Pitt is a member here?????

No wonder the rest of us guys are still single

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 8:23 PM CST

Leana76 wrote:

Maybe a coffee bar or coffee shop?

Maybe a video store or something?

Maybe at a community function (like an annual carnival, an annual race, or something like that)?

I don't know, man.

Laundry mat seems to work sometimes..........and if observant... ya get to know how she dresses before a date

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 6:10 PM CST

trish123 wrote:

maybe somebody somewhere sometime will finally want a woman with her own mind who drinks and smokes dope - dont worry, Im not holding my breath......

I am somewhat confused,
has her own mind is fantastic!!! I love an intelligent woman.

but how much is her own mind if altered by alcohol and drugs?
reality and perceptions altered?

As I said, to each their own,
I once picked up a gal for a date, she was so wasted when I picked her up, went to pizza hut dine in, she was so drunk that she peed her pant,
when she stood up I pointed it out to her- because she had no clue...
she argued that she hadn't- even though her pants were soaked.

never saw her again!!!

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 5:51 PM CST

mbcasey wrote:

I do not drink myself.

Just asking Ras, why are you looking for someone who doesn't drink?

I personally would not mind dating a woman who has a couple of drinks now and then. But if she drinks excessively and does not admit there is a problem, I would walk away.

Dating a gal that drinks once in a while would be fine, but I wouldn't let it go ant further.
Since I do not drink, I don't want to be around it at all, especially not living with it in my home.

Been there, done that... not doing it again.

Just like many people don't want to date a crack head. or a meth addict.
Alcohol is still a drug.. albeit a lesser drug.

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 5:33 PM CST

riyablossom wrote:

I dont and dont want to either.

Got that right,
Just my luck, would have to travel to India to find a hot gal that don't drink!!!

Might be worth it in your case

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:40 PM CST

Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:

Join a commune....you can have all the women you want there and none of them probably drink...

I must admit,
back in my drinking days........ there were a lot more cute women

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:32 PM CST

AudrysSis wrote:

I believe they're everywhere. I don't drink but most of my friends do (and have a hard time protecting me at parties when everyone is wanting to pour me a drink, LOL)

I really think there is not one place, except an advanced AA meeting? (not that I know what goes on there, thank goodness)

Oh crap,
A date would really be going badly if the first thing she does is to stand up in a crowd and say............
"Hi, my name is __________________ and I'm an alcoholic."

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:28 PM CST

mylifewithu wrote:

Hmmmm how about a coffee shop, library or monestary for a nun

I'm already getting nun!

Is really hard to find a woman my age that don't have 2-5 small kids at home.
that alone is enough to make a woman drink!! Especially when they become teenagers!

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:24 PM CST

roseofsharon wrote:

No.... I never touch a drop either!!

A drop wouldn't do ya much good anyway

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:23 PM CST

livinglarge wrote:

On CS

You mean there are some here that don't drink??

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:16 PM CST

jbibiza wrote:

Church

I hear that is where ya meet the GOOD Bad girlz

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 3, 2008, 1:13 PM CST

I have not drank in many years, well... since was about 23 or so.

maybe one margarita on my birthday.
I don't like being around drunks so I will not go into a bar for any reason.

so, my question is..........
Where is a good place to meet women of like mindset?

( no offense to drinkers intended- to each his/her own)

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Oct 2, 2008, 11:29 PM CST

If I sneak around and read the threads but don't reply, does that make me a peeping tom and can I get busted for it

Quick ladies......... pull the shades...........never mind kissez..... already seen the tat on your bum!

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rasgumby
Moberly, Missouri USA

Posted: Sep 30, 2008, 9:36 AM CST

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Ship and healthyliving!

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