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does size of penis really matter?? and if so what is too large,small,etc.??: click here to read the entire thread »

Quoted for truth:)


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It has been my experience that it can matter, and matter both ways, being too large, and too small. But it is just one factor out of hundreds.

If you are too small to reach certain spots:), or too large that it is uncomfortable, but the other 99 factors in a relationship work, then I'm sure each of you would be able to come up with ways to stimulate each other.

Woman and men need to be honest about this issue. If a woman went to buy a dildo, she'd pick a certain size. Would a super small dildo work? Well yes. But it might take some more movement in the right areas. Would a super large one work? Well yes. But it might require some care.

The one thing that has always kinda amused me is that there is such debate about the man's size sometimes, but never the other way:)

Why don't we ever see adds from men saying "looking for very short skinny girl so I'm guaranteed to fill you up!". heh.

Also, men need to remember that some woman manage to be happy sexually with NO penises at all! Ever wonder how lesbian couples stay happy?

You can be zero inches and be happy if you use some imagination:)


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The general rule I've always heard is half your age plus 7. 37/2=18.5 18.5+7 = 22 yrs old or 23 years old. Anything younger than that, and it better be purely sexual, because I really doubt a relationship would last.

Is there a slight chance it would work? Yes. But the chances are super low.

The girl probably just has fantasies that she wants fulfilled. Maybe had an insecure childhood and is looking for a father figure. Either way, I'm guessing you'll have some serious issues to deal with.

And if you did pursue a NSA/FWB type relationship with her, I really doubt that she'd be able to keep love and sex separate. So again, you'd end up in a relationship that might be physically stimulating for a week or so, but you, and her, would quickly loose interest in each other.

There is probably like a 1% chance that she's truly a mature mind who would click with you. I happen to know one of those 1% girls. She's 24, and dating a 40 year old man. She is surprisingly mature for her age. Deals with social work, mainly hospice work (comforting a family and leading them through the death of a loved one). In some ways, she's more mature than a 40 year old man:) hehe.

Ok, so long story short. I bet she has issues.


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It has been my experience that if I'm not interested in someone, there is like some stupid part of my brain that makes calling them or seeing them, feel like too much effort.

My polite upbringing can override that, but I suspect that some men give in to it.

If a guy has not contacted you in a week, after having been out with you a few times the prior week, call it off. I'll guarantee he isn't interested in you. And if he was, would you like that type of "interest" to begin with?

And sometimes, a person is just empathetic enough to continue seeing someone, even if they don't feel that it is right. Chalk that up to being lonely, or being too caring. So even a nice guy can make that mistake.

But actions speak louder than words when men are concerned. I'd vote move on.


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Maybe it happens through reincarnation?

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A couple made a deal that whoever died first would come back & inform the other of the "after life" since the woman's biggest fear was that their was no heaven.

Many years later, the husband was first to go and true to his word he made contact.

"MARY....MARY!!!!"

"Is that you FRED?"

"Yes I have come back like we agreed...."

"What is it like?"

"Well, I get up in the morning, I have sex. I have breakfast....I have sex. I bathe in the sun then I have sex twice. I have lunch then I have sex pretty much all afternoon....then supper then sex till late at night, sleep then start all over again!"

"Oh FRED... You surely must be in heaven!"

"HELL NO ... I'M A RABBIT IN KANSAS!"


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Well thats the odd thing. I've been in 3 long term relationships and a smattering of shorter ones, and I can't say that any of them actually had a true "first date". It seemed like all of them evolved naturally. Like working with the person, or going to school together.

This "first date" thing is all new to me:) Should be fun though.


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I'm curious to hear any perspectives of what it was like having a date after not being involved with someone for a year+ for anyone in the same boat as myself.

Anything that you wished you had done differently after it was over?
Anything you felt was helpful to you? Either before, during, or after?

I *think* I'm getting close to having a date (another site, but I value this forum over any other:), and I have to admit, I'm a bit nervous.







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Whats your name?


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Well, its more than one thing, but probably number one would be emotionally unguarded:) Of course, that is pretty much impossible to find, so I settle for affectionate and honest:)


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I was curious about this subject, so I looked up an article at
http://www.mcmanweb.com/love_lust.htm

"As well as high dopamine and norepinephrine, she said, romantic love is characterized by low serotonin."

Seems true. I didn't know that:)

I have a couple relatives that have been depressed for a while, and have tried various drugs and therapy. I would still say that the benefits of the drugs outweigh the risk of not being able to fall in love quickly.

The drugs when combined with therapy can permanently increased energy, happiness, and reset the balance of your brain chemistry eventually. So you can stop taking them after a while if your life patterns have changed enough to allow you to produce a natural state of well being.

I'd say that most folks would be better off working on curing their depression while meeting new people and continuing to find joy in life, and after that, fall deeper in love.



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Hypochondria
Deceit / not being direct
Reserved / not affectionate


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Portland:

I love the green, the trees, the alternative / liberal atmosphere, and the plethora of good micro brews.


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Yep.

And when I do, I know its time to go out and have some fun:) Usually try to call some friends or family to chat or go out for the evening.


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Well, ideally he would say, "You know, I'm really glad we decided to meet, I'm very attracted to you" :)

Biologically, watch his eyes. If his pupils dialate, he's attracted to you:)

After that, there are so many factors involved that it can be hard to tell. Actions will speak louder than words.


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Two keyboards now....


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Marco?
Polo
Marco?
Polo

hehe




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I've never understood how you couldn't tell. There's a physical reaction downstairs. You can visibly see it.

Then again, I may have dated REALLY talented actresses.


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I used to think my list of "will do's" was larger than my list of "won't do's".

The internet quickly changed that ratio:)


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Is it like having Tea while praying?


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