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Hello Claire, Hello Tater

Tell me more...sounds interesting riya....

Selective vision is helpful for the people who are simply annoying. I think that if everyone made an effort to report those who are outright following others around the forums and attacking them - hopefully it would get them eliminated.

I've seen many a post complaining about the forums - well maybe its time to step up and do something.

Sometimes it's just better to ignore posts

Helloo Alex

Rules are rules.. wherever you are and whatever they are for.. they are there for a reason.

In some situations rules are strictly adhered to.. (or more strictly punished)

In other situations.. sometimes people are able to bend the rules a little more.. Like driving faster than the speed limit, it is a risk they take to 'bend' .. or break the rules.

The internet dating sites are no different.. some people stick to the rules.. some people bend them.. and some people break them.. and some people get punished for doing so.

It's just people.. and how they respond to rules.. that's all.
Everyone is different.

Like you and me.. You are good at abiding by the rules.. and I often bend them..

life have send me to so many places
each one with his own rules and laws
i have been to free countries and the not free countries
i have been to democracies (not a synonim of free)
i have been to dictatorship countries too

althought this huge diference i could manage myself well

i even survived being in a dictatorship country too

all what i did was easy and simple

i readed the laws and rukes of the country i was heading
and i folowed them there

i never questiones any of the laws and rules althought some of them sounded dumb to me

untill i landed in the internet dating world

whenever i consider to join a internet dating site, i read the laws and rules that the site has
if i dont agree i dont join it, and if i agree to folow them i join the site

then i find that most people get mad at me for folowing the laws and rules of the site
i am being asked to light up and have fun
it is hard for me to undertand that concept
why having fun should mean to give up on me folowing the rules

is any one wiling to give me some light on the topic
for some reazon things that i have been doing in my whole life do not work in the last few month

i can undertand some people could get agraveted by my actions, but this is always in real life
as for example, here in florida people drive over the speed limit, i do not
the ones that are behind me, seems to be mad i drive slow (excactly at the speed limit), but till now i have a clean driving record, and no cop asked me to drive faster
here in florida, people will go to the mid of the intersection to turn left when they got the yelow light so they can run a red light later
i dont do thatm and for the gestures od the drivers behind me, they are mad at me too

why the interned dating sites have rules to be bend?

please dont undertand me wrong
i am not complainig about the site
i am not complaining about the mods
i do not complain about other members
i want to undertand

well of course I would, me love Riya

yeah.. only if we are going to a teashop.. the ones with the big layered trollies of cakes

yes

yu have no clue what means to be mentally chalenged

i go to a harware store, and i as for a rod 72 inches and always the sales man try to convince me to use two rodes of 36 inches each

it is frustrating because before going to the store i alweays call to check if the actually carry it

and when i arrive they try to convince me that i dont need a 72 inceas rod

this is only an example, but those kind of things happens almost all the time

i will not date herno, not my therapist, as i have nothing but mentally chalenged

i have no traumas
i do not see any phantoms

i meant my tutor
the one that check on what i am doing and she is patient enought as to explain me things several times untill i am able to undertand
she is the one reading my post (not always as she says i have to learn how to be on my own too) and correct them

she is the one going with me to the stores to explain what i am looking when no one undertand me

she also ask the store emplyes to be patient with me because i am mentally chalenged

yep.. but now standing on my feet!

actually.. it might be me standing on yours..

Hey Alex.. I was just thinking.. maybe we can fix your tutor up with a date on CS.. has she seen anyone she likes yet? hellooo Ms Tutor

Stop Analising ..............Picking deeper thoughts here on the net.O so its your PH ....hahah ......Go girl.............

I saw a woman wearing a t-shirt today that said,
''DROP THE BOX OF CHOCOLATES......AND NOBODY GETS HURT.''