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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008, 4:27 AM CST
Hi .... am doing good, Thankyou wave

Actually the point where defence can become offence fascinated me.

Cos just as the one offending thinks he/she has valid reasons ... to defend would be valid too .. very much the cause of most issues and war ..

so was wondering ...

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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008, 4:15 AM CST
While i was talking to Bnatural sometime , at a point in the discussion we came to the difference between offence and defence.
I agree .. a defence without abuse or namecalling can yet be louder than action thro mere words ( or gestures ?? )

Some food for thought ...

What do you think is the difference bwn Defence and Offence ..

Are we right in defending ourselves when we are offended or is defence another form of offence ??

Morally or ethically .. what will be your stand ?

And if someone can enlighten me .. legally is defence a punishable offence ?






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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008, 3:57 AM CST
Daniel4021 wrote:
Then you have seen something I haven't riya.. It hasn't been that way in my case, at least for the most part..


Thats been my experience Daniel.. NOT that i would WANT to be friends with all of them.Some of them are gone for good.

But in some cases where we were very good friends and the person grows fond of you , that kind of situation.

I do know someone who said i can keep my feelings of love separate from the friendship we share, but i didnt seem to believe it cos the intensity makes you wonder time and again.

dunno


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Posted: Jan 24, 2008, 3:54 AM CST
I am beginning to wonder Ray if it is Buddhism that hads influenced you ..

If i may add .. Buddhism and Jainism are 2 religions which have an indepth scrutiny of act and intention as you have mentioned. And there is no bigger truth to good/not than the intention with which the act was committed .

Precisely a selfless act redeems you of association while elevating you in goodness.I believe so.


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008, 3:23 AM CST
I have seen men usually find it dificult to be friends with someone they have been in love with. Usually women seem fine with the idea. Thats what i have observed. I wonder why though.

But i do think it is possible.


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:29 PM CST
seeya later .. kissme and claayer .. wave


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:25 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Yes sometimes he can be a nut..but a wonderful and caring person who puts others needs b4 his


He is a very sweet guy .. hug


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:18 PM CST
Fallingman wrote:
Mental note - remind Riya to read what I wrote again and remind her that I like red roses.


giggle hug


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:12 PM CST
BnaturAl wrote:
the tomotoe part is allegorical, metaphor ... just because you are loveable and beautiful, does not mean you will be loved by all or even by one for that matter ..


hmmm ... blues


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:11 PM CST
cristina wrote:
on the other hand i think men love some shaking, sort of drama to get excitted!And the end, they are boring, not us! ...ok, i made my bad choices

freaky me!


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:10 PM CST
Fallingman wrote:
Apart from ALL of the above I agree with this!


mental note : never send him a flower


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:09 PM CST
kissmedeeply wrote:
Hi Riya..i can only speak for myself...Eric shows and tells me everyday that i am wonderful..loving..giving..honest..and that he appreciates all that i am...he writes on here to tell me how he feels..and calls me and tells me every day what i mean to him...if anything i dont know how he puts up with me sometimes....i can be difficult at times..but he is there for me in bad..sick...jealously...upset..pissed...he is such a wonderful man..very kind...understanding..honest...caring...and his words always put me up in a cloud for days..I thank God everyday for him..i have never met anyone who takes others to heart...He does really care for everyone...will even reach out for a stranger to help...I love him with everything...


crying so cooll ..

Am soo happy for the two of you .. he is a nut no doubt laugh
but very caring indeed.

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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:07 PM CST
thumbs up Thanks diogenes !!


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:06 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Yes it is...Im just saying the act itself doesn't mean love or commitment...Love and commitment both take time and come from the heart...NOT from sex!!!!!!!!!


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 1:05 PM CST
Getting intimate .... It can be a natural thing to happen or else cos you both decided or else cos you are commited ..

But has got nothing to do with being in love (as mentioned by people already) .. as in true love you can wait till you both feel the commitment and the desire to be together or else even till you get married.

Makes me wonder .. when we all know that its human to have needs and human yet to live a moment of passion , why we treat someone who is honest about it different form someone who claims otherwise.dunno

Not that i am justifying the action but in todays times when divorce rates are high , marriage is but a paper certification or contract to a few and finding the right one is in itself as tedious as ever .. are people prepared to wait to till they find that someone ... whenever that would happen ...confused




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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 12:46 PM CST
cristina wrote:
yes dear, you are so right!

And i find myself in love with men of 80 something years old...
Why is it that they only get to that perfect point when they are dying!


Older men do seem more sorted out .. thumbs up

ahh freaks are we ... ?? laugh hug


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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 12:44 PM CST
prncss4someone wrote:
and by high maintenance, I mean the : "what are you thinking", "where are you going", where have you been" what are you doing blah blah blah did you think about me? do you think about others? etc etc....you can't do this, you can't do that....

I'm old enough to have stopped most of that, but I find that now, guys do it to me... just as friggin irritating!!!


laugh I get it ..


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 12:42 PM CST
fireliter wrote:
Admirably yet sadly I commend Karen on doing just that she does not generalize... and that is the crux of her pain and hurt.

that too is a generalization,


ohh no .. it wasnt to karen. I was replying to claayer on the most women considering sex equivalent to commitment post.
Nothing to Karen at all in this one.

And yes i should have mentioned most for women too .. cant generalize.

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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 12:35 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
Men, simply have NO "feelings. Men do not like to be told or shown they are loved and appreciated. Men do not like flowers. A man would never want his partner to rub his back. A man would never want a woman to say "you take care of you, I will be ok". Do away with us, it is that simple..


uh oh! sad flower


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riyablossom
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Posted: Jan 23, 2008, 12:33 PM CST
BnaturAl wrote:
seems far fetched but does a tomatoe ask this question. It just grows from beauty of life, yet not everyone loves them. Some love all tomatoes and once they have one they want another and another and another. Is it the tomatoe's fault? hardly.

another question ... why don't we love others they way 'they' want to be loved? because we only know our own love, what we feel love is. (which may be totally screwed up)


wave the tomato part is confusing ..sigh

The second part " brilliant " !!!hug


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