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When you believe you take a risk so also when you love ..

But we all have a certain " i wont do " or " this is not possible " make us insecure kind of things which we wouldnt be willing to risk let happen.

It can be anykind and to any extent but with everything there is the chance of being hurt in return. Thats the biggest risk we face all the time with everyone.

Hence the open ended question of " Risk " !!!!!!!


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Sometimes the people we get to know are truly fascinating

while someother times they make you wonder " Didnt i mention like mindedness and sane behaviour are a criterion."




So people , How much of a risk are you willing to take in a prospective or ongoing relationship ?


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My friend would say , most of the communication is non verbal !! I agree with that.

Over here as many have already mentioned , assuming we can or will get past the lies and dishonesty , the inside being is the glimpse one can get. Very vital for truly understanding someone.

But goes without saying , no one is entirely honest !!! Its a fair attempt to be true.

Another side of the coin is certain details of your life are best saved to share with that someone special cos its personal and hence special.
So, the element of surprise is bound to exist.

The " physical attraction " part is also true !! Very true in fact. Obviously no one would go for someone they cant like atleast by picture .. if that makes sense really.

Further in the OP i have mentioned about our " Imagined Image " about the person. As we graduate from forums to chat or phone or cam .. its still pieces of a puzzle we are gathering. So its our imagination at play to diff extents dep. on how mature the person involved is.

Ultimately , this is a great starting point !!! Then on you ought to have your feet firmly on the ground and head on your shoulders if you want to find the real deal..

My personal opinion.


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no ways !!! Though i did think one of my college teachers was realllyyy handsome. My friend and me both thought so actually.

But thats it . No more thought to it.


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Helloo .. hope all is well with you ..

hmm.. we should ask them to introduce a chocklate emoticon ..


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I do believe in it. Yes Samsara !!

Its easiest to say true.. but terrible to experience it and learn !!



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Yes .. those too !!!


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Viruses are easy with zip files cos i believe they cant be scanned. You can ask them to share it over yahoo mail instead . so you scan and download.

" foreign women?" . The other side could be " you are foreign to them as well " so they find this convenient unless they are really sending a virus as you say.


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no clue really. But do believe in the possibility that there is something out there.


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I feel Ray knows and has deliberately put it up in the jokes section.

I would interpret it personally " as a joke played by God on mankind !! Where he leaves his own creation to suffer on one side while another section of the same enjoy .. " and also that " Suffering is what brings the highest of knowledge and realization !! "




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Hi

Ermmm .. we can look at it that way but fact is when parents have an addiction the children are genetically prone to have the same. thats what i meant.




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Th evideos is what i dont enjoy really. Pictures here and there is great. New emoticons is great ! The quote option was better previously.

So mixed feelings and yes , overall , not enjoying it much.


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I have read the definition academically for it to be a disease.

But, it is actually primarily an addiction. And yes one can be genetically predisposed.


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True it applies to women too.

False hope .. i dont know what to say .. sometimes people do take time to consider. But then again , if you know its no ways going to happen, easier to politely say no than let the anticipation build and go crashing.


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hmm..

If i land up figuring out the guy is actually playing hard to get , i would gradually lose interest.

I guess some guys just enjoy the chase for whatever reasons (maybe they think they kind of deserve it )




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If every skilled or even educated personnel would take it as a personal responsibility in terms of atleast the gratitude we owe to the no. of people who have aided in making our present happier therein to help another who might need it , there would be more of humanity and kindness around.


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Having read till here and what Cristina said, I quite agree this kind of hunger leading to severe malnutrition ( kwashiorkar) is more so in somalia , ethiopia and certain parts of Africa.

It is distressing and sad the economic disparity and yes !! i agree the excuse of God is sad to not contribute. Or on the other hand contribute again using religious funding as excuse. I think we could do with humanitarian aid ( as mentioned recyclable goods , junk etc too ) purely for humanitarian grounds ( no motives behind )

I feel there is no Real single solution. Its a multi dimensional approach that would be needed as what these people need is not only an acute relief solution but a way to rehabilitate in to a decent life.

In addition to what has been mentioned , we could have groups of voluntary life skill workers to teach them many other basic skills.

And goes without saying , Money in the name of Aid is a terrible publicity and bank gimmick.




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They are not the same thing .

But friendships can mature in to a commited relationship. And more often they do.


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hmm... I would call that kind of worry unnecessary paranoia.

Independence of the sort " my life , my choice , me and more me " is what i DONT believe is healthy.

Well .. ex: I have my own likes and dislikes , i have my own personality , temperment and attitudes.
Further in a relationship : The two people " we " would have a life together with shared interests , love and would raise children together.

But we still stay as individual people with our own views and ideas , hence independent minds who are in a interdependent relationship which we nurture with concern and understanding .

JMO !!




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Sorry i was just clarifying. Please quote my post no issues. I get what you are saying .


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