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No what has happened here is that your FRIENDSHIP was abused. you were doing the right thing where he was doing the wrong thing. Should you let guys stay at your home that are wasted. To be honest its probably not a great idea. But its their problem not yours. Be careful and stay safe. Alcohol changes people.

I really do not feel sorry for her at all, she missed important meetings with her legal team, who have in fact asked to be released from acting for her.
It says a lot when a client who would be paying them big bucks will drop you.
I am of the opinion that most parents would walk over hot coals to get custody of their children. What is so important that she missed appointments and meetings where her childrens welfare is at risk?
I wonder how full her social calendar is that she something else to do.
OK People/Parents make mistakes ... But don't they learn by them?


1. April 2006, Sean Preston falls out of high chair and hits his head. The babysitter is blamed.
2. April 2006, Britney drives with 8 month old Sean Preston on her lap.
3. April 2006, Britney is alleged to worry that Sean Preston has suffered brain damage from the 2 or 3 times he fell out of her bed while he was sleeping with her.
4. May 2006, Britney is spotted driving with Sean Preston in a forward-facing carseat. Not illegal under CA law, but ill-advised.
5. May 2006, Britney stumbles outside a NY hotel while carrying SeanPreston, nearly dropping him.
6. December 2006, Britney begins spending alot of time with Paris Hilton, partying. Paris defends her saying “partying has not come in the way of her parenting.”
7. July 2007, Britney and her kids squat at a Pacific Palisades CA home they toured as part of a real estate deal; a home on the market for $6.5 million. They eat tacos and mess up the furnishings, Britney’s bodyguards even going to her home to retrieve some of her belongings and bringing them back to the home.
8. July2007, Britney takes her kids for a boat ride in Marina del Rey; the children do not wear life jackets.
9. July 2007, it is reported that Britney has her sons fetch her cigarettes from around the house, calling them “Mama’s lollipops.”
10. August 2007, DCFS investigates allegations of poor dental hygiene, eating and sleeping habits of Britney’s children. It is alleged that Britney tried to get a LA dentist to whiten Sean Preston’s teeth, rotting from Baby Bottle Syndrome.

Sadly, that carries over to future relationships, I do believe.... (baggage) People think they can put things in the past, but we are a sum of our life experiences.

I'm pretty certain trust can be re-established dude...total trust as well.

An open mind helps...the ability to reason through the multitude of negative emotions.

Most importantly, it's the attitude of the offender...their sorrow and contrition.

Sometimes it's very difficult to forget. Unfortunately, it's almost impossible to "try" and forget something as the act itself reminds you of the situation. It's a quandry~

Missed you last night Riya...

Nope.

That can lead to the poisoning of the relationship.

If you can't put these errors to the back of your mind and allow yourself to move in within the relationship, then move on without the relationship.

I thought the saying was, whatever DOESN'T kill you.

I don't know about "makes you stronger." I've found "whatever doesn't kill you leaves you scarred for life" to be far more true.

Often we see people forgive but continue to complaint about the person. Gossip and spout venom .

Is that forgiveness then ?

I know.. Im not usually that bothered by that crap myself either.. its just when it comes to this particular girl I feel really sorry for her.. cause she just seem soooo lost... and at the end of the day I do believe she loves those kids.... can't be good for the kids either.. kids don't understand court orders.. they are just gonna think she doesn't want to see them..

Most important... not to do anything that would require forgiveness.

Oo that's a tuffy

I think forgiveness is the most important.. BUT... if you can't 'Forget' ... then your relationship is damaged.

Hiya Riya

How romantic are you?

1. Are u swept off your feet when u meet the right person?

2. Do u believe love conquers all?

3. or do think there is no room in your life for anything romantic?

But surely, we only fail when we give up on love?

By virtue of the fact we are dealing with other people, there is always the possibility of problems...ups and downs etc.

But the true test of love is in the ability to keep wanting to give purely...with selfless motivations.

Idealistic I know, but ideals can be quite useful.