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person( actually there's nothing about person except NAMA- RUPA) brings many talents,habbits and practices (with KUSAL & AKUSAL) . in this case, a living being brings many practices according to his previous soul (sorry about the word ''soul''). so in his previous life if he was a man and in this life(soul) if he is a woman he may have so many attitudes and abilities like a man bcos of his recent souls.

it's very hard to explain my pretty girl from such a little forum. so try to understand it.....

Personally, Flirting is something that kind of gives me goosebumps when beyond limits. I feel married or not people could be taking it seriously and would cause undue hurt and pain. The last thing i am looking forward to giving.

So, if married and they clearly say they are and want to flirt in a healthy way or otherwise , its their choice absolutely.

But i wouldnt be a part of it.

good question Eupho, i get tired of the "word association" & "truth or dare" threads. while i'm sure many enjoy them(otherwise they would'nt go on so long) they're not for me.

that's why i ask the question i ask. it's just to get different view points or have a healthy debate & stir up the old "grey matter"

It is concerning that this does happen but then again in the real world it is the same thing as well. People taking off their wedding rings etc. The truth does prevail.

I think another point springs to mind at this point with all this talk of corporations and business agreements.

If we find ourselves becomming afraid and fearful of the commitment that marriage demands, then perhaps we're not ready, or need to take another look at ourselves?

Yes it's sobering...it's momentous. And yes we should be awed at the seriousness of the commitment.

But fearful? Afraid? Worried?

Perhaps in modest doses it's natural...but hell, if I'm ever lucky enough to get married, I'm going to be so delighted at the prospect of sharing my life with the woman of my dreams, those negative emotions aren't going to be anywhere near my heart and mind!

Just an idealists views.

There was a lot of fresh air in that post!

Texas!

I hope YOU didn’t make then feel that way!!!

goodmorning riya....miss u

It is far too complicated of an issue to be a simply yes/no answer. There are many many people who fall into the homosexual lifestyle from exposure and the fact that it has been presented to them not only as acceptable behavior but also as desirable behavior and some even have been persuaded to feel guilty if they do not participate in homosexual activity. I've seen this among young guys I knew growing up. I think people simply search for an identity and if they don't have successful heterosexual relationships then they are vulnerable to fill the sexuality in their lives whether it be with the same sex or even an animal. It is deviant behavior simply because it deviates from the natural design of the human body. Sure, some are born with their wires crossed and are fully and naturally homosexual and do not have a choice, never did. But, there are others who simply found social acceptance and identity by being included or invited or even persuaded into the culture. Personally, I am seriously offended by being called a homophobe...that indicates that I'm afraid of homosexuals...not at all the case. I treat them as fair and honestly as anyone but I do not accept that culture as being something I want to be associated with. It is a matter of choice as well as strength of personal convictions. Right or wrong, if it's what a person wants then I'm not going to be able to stop him/her or to change their mind. Many justify their choices with trite expressions such as "I was trapped in the wrong body"... however, there are some who actually were and we simply can not perform a test to see if they are right or wrong...too, there is certainly a sliding scale as to one's inclination to be bi- or homo-sexual or heterosexual the same as there is a sliding scale of skin tones from lily white to coal black. We're all still humans and tend to group ourselves according to our interests, similarities, and desires....as well as where we are accepted and where we fit in socially. I think the current method of popularizing "gayness" is very wrong because it pushes people to accept gayness by encouraging them to feel guilty if they do not accept or participate in homosexual behavior. If I happen not to be politically correct then I guess I'm just an old fart stuck in the 1950's ...but I totally expect anyone who wants respect from me to give me respect as well and respect my right to have the opinion(s) that I do....which by the way..is just that. It's only an opinion.

Marriage is a corporation/business/partnership, (this analogy would not include LLC.) If we gave up on a true business as quickly as we give up on a marriage then we would all be living off the government, not driving cars, eating pickled beets and potatoes cause that's what we can grow or afford.

Marriage is not supposed to be easy, it's not always a great year, we have asset gains, liability gains, and bankruptcy. If we are level headed about it we roll with the tides, deal with the competition, speculate the futures, and stay in the market. We don't jump at the first site to sell or close the doors cause it doesn't feel right. I wouldn't give up on my dream business and I sure enough wouldn't give up on a marriage.

At the same time, we don't jump into a business head first on the first day of the idea. Opportunity cost is high to start a business, higher still for marriage. We spend our time and efforts/money to research to make sure we can be successful. You don't go into business to fail and you don't get married to get divorced.

It’s a New Years Resolution. To be more of a people person.

The cause is most likely willful conformity to women to the detriment of individuality and pandering to the feminine whiles to the detriment of same.

Er . . . and being in touch with the feminine . . . wossname? The thing. Dingus? I’ve already got a marriage proposal, see?

The things is, in truth, women who marry make one man miserable for the rest of his already addled and dismal days instead of remain willfully unaffiliated and make hundreds of men happy for a week, a few days or even an evening.

Like John Wayne said in ‘North to Alaska’: ‘these women don’t get MY vote!’

The marital leg-iron can turn a joyous man into a miserable wretch who not only wishes that he had never been married but that he had actually never been BORN; and not ONLY this: but that the sun had never shone, that life had never sprung forth on the earth [even in the form of amebas]; that the planets had never come into alignment, that the stars themselves had never twinkled, that the galaxies and the universe had never existed . . . and that God was dead.

You have this support thread Riya...that is why I will bump it up everyday. I have been through this many times and will try to help if i can.