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I 100% agree with you Eric..

Also.. it reminded me of years ago when I worked with someone (a man).. whose wife used to beat the stuffings out of him.. with a pan.. wood from by the fire.. anything.. she was always clouting him with something, and he always had bruises.

I remember him saying that when he has tried to his friends about it.. they had just laughed.. *You get beaten up by your WIFE??* HA HA HA HA.


He said.. If I was woman saying this.. people would believe me.



Extra big hug for BEB by the way...

Oo Good girl Riya.. I wasn't going to ask that..
maybe he has to go off and be KING or something.

I tell you this from my heart and do not care if Men do not agree... it is my hearts Opinion.

A Man who can not just walk away with out hitting a female is a coward...

I do not care if he has to walk out of thier life... he needs to walk away.

i do not believe there is any reason to hit a female (short of just defending ones own life)

i have in my life thought woman if you were a man i would knock you out...

I have seen several women who beat the pants of thier men regularly.

She just like any man should be left... and be gone from... let them live alone they deserve nothing but themselves...self center pieces of crap (either male or female) and worthless to have anyone in thier life...

Bad boys are one thing... we all like to have a little of that in our life.
But a physical abuser or someone who feels a snocker to the nose is the answer to settle everything...
Hmm that is a breed I wish not to be tallied in.

JMO Just Don't...

Think about it how can thier ever be love where so much pain resides.

Absolutely.

For the record, an '05 Suzuki Bandit 1200 and a '74 BMW R75. Fast, and not-so-fast...

I have a harley. Sorry Robert, gotta use whatever tools I have at my disposal.

hahaha bad girl


Oh!.... he Harley!

Is a Harley a prerequisite? Interesting. You'd have two bikes to choose from...

I should have added...I have never owned a Harley. I like them, and have ridden them...maybe one day.

I could say the what i feel but everyone on here be in tears so i keep it to myself .

-Golf is against my religion.

-Most immigrants I know here, legal or otherwise, seem like genuine, hardworking and nice folks. I would much rather see mass deportation of entitled, never-worked-a-real-day-in-their-life, tax-loophole-seeking, self-centered twits.

-I sleep with a fan on. I like the white noise.

-I will wear a backwards baseball hat. Weekends only. And yes, I did shower.

-I'd rather attempt to fix something than just go and buy a new one.

-I have awards for drawing.

-I took a college-level writing course in high school. I aced it both semesters.

-I don't know how to drive a car with an automatic transmission.

-I started riding street motorcycles in 1984.

-I don't like spending a lot of time on the phone.

-I am a Detroit Lions fan. There. I said it.

*kisses Riya on cheek * you can sit here long as you like till what you are looking for finds you.. I can wait my turn.

Been standing under the mistletoe since November still nothing

Nice thread Riya...

i am also a survivor!!!

My abuse started when i turned 11 with emotional abuse from my step dad, then turned into forms of sexual abuse when i turned 16, lasted til i was 18 yrs old. The hardest part of that, is my mom stayed married to the man, so he is still in my life somewhat...but i took the power from him, my life is now mine.

Then I married at 22 and suffered extreme physical and mental abuse for 12 years. The abuse i suffered from my ex was what you hear in movies...I found out a few years later he was abused by his father and rather then seeking help and ending the vicious cycle he carried it forward. Having been his victim for so many years, it wasnt enough to just hurt me he carried it to our son. It only took once to hurt my child and we were gone. The cycle of abuse ends with me, it will no longer be passed forward to damage and harm my children's future. Our future is a gift and I treasure the second chance everyday!

Hugs to everyone who suffered pain from anothers hand and for being brave enough to let it go and share your stories.



Life is as good as you make it...one cant see themselves as a victim, but as a suvivor!!!

includes virtual rite ?

i have had it all! ....every abuse and the uninvented ones too .... life can be wicked ...'cos the worst ones were from loved ones like .... will keep that to myself.....

Roll call!