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I believe one day i will be happy, till then there's crisps cider and my mountain bike!

Thank you riya..alex...and blue

Trust is so important that once it's broken, is so hard to be fixed. I made excuses for a long time, not because he cheated but due to other reasons. If I were in a situation where he cheated, I would have to walk away, not because I wouldnt want to give it another chance. I'm sure I would, but I dont know how I could live daily wondering if it would happen again or whats he doing or where he is, or who hes with. It wouldnt work, because I think he would always have to be on defense with me and that wouldnt be good for either of us. Trust has to be earned not given...jmo

I belive God has a plan for each of us. I also belive sometimes he keeps it secret.

Yes that too can be very tough...

Yeah i dated an older woman once, she was nice, bright and was a self starter with her own opinions and didnt need me to provide all the emotional support and economic support.

Now i'm easy to please, all they have to be is honest, smile and be breathing

Great minds...i think is the saying...either that or neither of us could be arsed to read the thread!

I confess that was my case

Whats next, a post about an arse?

all of us here deserve the BEST .......

would you forgive him / her and give them one more chance?


Noo wayyyy



I did that PLENTY in my marriage..

You wouldn't see me for the DUST if that ever happened to me again.

I wouldn't even BE prepared to listen to the 'excuses'

That would be the end of that.

:: dusts hands:::

Oh no it wasn't terrible on her at all.. she went from loving me to hating me almost over night, but it's over now and I am happy with that.. I have a lot ot offer the right lady when she comes around.. and I believe I will find her someday when the time is right..

ahh the idea that true love is an easy task is a misnomer.
it involves a commitment, every minute, hour of the day.
True love is not a trophy you strive to acquire then place upon a mantle. Just as time and seasons change, so too does an individual and couple. Our needs and wants change. True love requires being ever vigilant. to each others needs and wants.

Regardless how much we say "What we have, it'll never change" is a wish A line from a fairy tale we have all seen and read many times..


"When the legend is greater than the truth. Print the legend.."


a line from the movie
the man who shot Liberty Valance


call me cynical , call me callous.... its my thoughts just the same

Hey Fallin'..........

How are you today hun?

I have joined Facebook, and yes it's very confusing.......

:wavehi babe



yes but if you forgive them...well guess it depends on the person,you can put the deciet to the back of your mind.....but hun I wish id never forgiven him now

I couldn't understand it either.. I wasn't myself after my mom died because she was my world, and I needed time to get back to normal, not saying i was mean but I was a little more quick tempered.. until you lose a parent a person just can't really understand I guess.. but what I learned from that is her love for me wasn't strong enough and she wasn't willing enough to help me through that time.. all she did was make things worse..

hey babe ive been through lots of heartache since then ......guess i picked the wrong guys , but i was always faithful lola and good to them ,thats why im a bit hesitant to get involved again.....love ya too babe xx

I forgave my husband once and he did it again, what does anyone think ....tell little babsie ......

Yes I understand, I don't consider her a loss anymore adn I hardly ever think about her now except when these kind of threads come up, and it's form that and other experiences that I have had that gives me the ability to try to help others..

I know I am a good man, and I have a kind heart and I hate to see anyone in pain... if anything it is her loss for letting me go.. what goes around comes around and I take comfort in knowing that.. I don't have to be there to know, I just know.. what you do to others good or bad will always come back to you..