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I don't know, brother. The last time it happened to me was 13 years ago, and I never got over it. Pathetic, isn't it?

The fact is that most people get over this kind of mindfuck a lot sooner. You're young. You'll probably be okay. Find another woman as soon as you can, even if you don't love her.

you should come to ireland ah no seriously u will move on in time and she will be just a memory to u at the moment it looks as if u wont move on but lets face it the first thing u need to do is take a major look at urself in a mirror oh my god ur FINE!!! any girl would love to be with u so u have the pick of the bunch u will meet someone new and believe me she will be just as amazing and then ur x will realize what she lost and as for being friends yeah of course that can happen but she has to want that 2 im best friends with my x and if i can do that anyone can as not only is he my x but we were to get married!! so put that smile back on ur face!!!!

I think Robert has the right idea. Something to do while your mind wanders and figures things out. It is very therapeutic. Robert does bikes, I do needlework and crochet. Just something to do with the hands. JMO

dana

its hurt alot.. Ive been there. I cried alone with nobody to turn on to.. especially at night when a friend of mine is having lunch and busy because we have different time. Im not ashamed of this fact. Now I date men and Im glad to know that I can be that attractive to date guys locally.... and my self-esteem is dong quite okay.

It does get easier everyday, you just may not see it....they tend to run together in sorts. but there be a time when a things dont seem so blurry and painful, a memory or thought of her wont be so raw..you will feel lightened in a sense. but until then...stay busy, hang out with friends, workout, go to the movies...but stay away from things that remind you of her if possible..i know its not easy, but nothing worthwhile is and there will be others who will take the empty place..my best to you...

*awww... shucks...

That'll get you a big...

*squooooosh!


*giggle...

I've been hurt in this site with a person I trusted most but I still talk to him and watch his photo with his latest girl so I will feel hurt no more.. it sounds crazy but it just made me realize that we are not meant for eachother and he chose not it to be. thought it hurts but it helps me lot.... jmo

yeah.. with unselfish love....

As much as possible I want to face problems bravely even if it means hurting myself. So in the long run its easier for me to move on and let go of things that are not meant for me. JMO

Oh and being honest with yourself after you have sorted through all your emotions helps too!!!!!!!!