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Even when someome asks advice of a loved one,they usually arn't going to listen and it can come back on you.If it's his1st heartbreak,we all go through it and hopefully come out better for it in time.At least she's being honest with himIf she's confused,she has a right to take her time,better than if you told us this and they were married!

Found this on a site:

"To dream in black and white, suggests that you need to be more objective in formulating your decisions. You may be a little too unyielding in your thought process and thus need to find some sort of balance between two opposing views. Consider the views and opinions of others. Alternatively, black and white dreams is a sign of depression or sadness. You may feel that there is not enough excitement in your life. "and also:

"Research shows that the majority of our dreams are in color. In the sleep lab, Robert Van de Castle, Ph.D. reports that when awoken from the REM state, distinct color was reported in 70% of the cases and vague color in another 13%. The reason most people perceive dreams as colorless appears to be a matter of recall. Spontaneous non-laboratory dream reports (normal daily dream recall) indicate that only about 25% (Van De Castle) to 29% (Hall) of dreamers recall color (partial or full color). Color recall may have to do with the nature of our consciousness in dreams, as observed by the vivid colors usually associated with Lucid dreams. Another important aspect of color recall may be the emotional intensity of the dream or the colored imagery. People have a tendency to recall the most emotionally impacting or stimulating parts of a dream, and not so much the rest. Perhaps there is emotional significance to the specific dream colors we recall. This may explain why our brain assigns certain color to dream objects particularly when the color can be optional, for example dreaming of a red car versus a blue car."

actually i have been in simular situation ... it took me 5 moths to understand that I do want to be with my (recent boyfriend). He proved his Love by being persistent but not clingy... he gave me plenty of personal space. Well .. we were staying in Friends with benefits type of relationship for 5 month.

I do not know ... but i feel that it would be a not bad idea for your brother ...

1 To have an honest, open conversation with a girl about whys? and Whats?
2 To leave her alone to ... to give her time to sort her feelings out.

and btw if he will have guts to leave her alone for some time ... it will enhance her desire to be him. Women and some men are a strange creatures ... The less we love the more we get Loved

not to sound contrite....but he is old enough to handle his own problems!! Butt out!...JMO

Just be there, and listen to him. Dont go down the road of offering advice or talking badly about her. If they do sort it out and get back together you would end up the bad guy.

I've read that people who dream in color ... have some sort of mental disturbances. It doesn't mean they are mentaly ill or stuff ... It's just there is something that lays a heavy weight on their mind (personal troubles or ........ ummm World's political life may affect it too )

Like personaly i do not dream at all ... or maybe i do .. i just do not remember a thing in a morning.

I had read that we can't dream in color.Shoots tha theory.I rememberthat a wedding meant a death coming,snakes were fear of penis or intimacy,but same book so Interesting subject though.

How old is your brother and how old is a girl?