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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 10:26 PM CST
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 10:15 PM CST
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The people enter in our life, for a reason, a period of time or an entire life. When we know the reason, we'll know what to do with each person. When somebody is in our life for a reason is, generally, to supply a necessity that we demonstrated. They come to assist in a difficulty, to supply support and orientation, to help physicaly, emotionaly spiritualy. They will seem a gift, and they are! They are there for the reason who we needed them. Then, without no wrong attitude of our part or in no inconvenient hour, this person goes to say or to make something to bring that relation to an end. Sometimes, these people die. Sometimes, they simply leave. Sometimes, they act and force us taking a position. What we must understand is that our necessities had been taken care of, our desires filled and their work done. When the people enter in our lives for a period of time, are because our turn to share, to grow and to learn. They bring us an experience of peace, to make us laugh. They teach us something we never did. They, generally, give us enormous amount of pleasure. Believe me! It is real! But only for a period of time. Relationships of an entire life teach us lessons for all our life. Things that we must construct to have a solid emotional formation. Our task is to accept the lesson, to love the person and to place what we learn in use, in all the other relationships and areas of our life. It is said that love is blind, but the friendship is psychic. It is only necessary one minute to enjoy being with somebody, one hour to like somebody, one day to want that person to be happy, but an entire life is necessary so we can forget her. We know people by chance, but he is not by chance that they remain in our lives.

Think about it
I will answer your thread, it seems to me that so many complain about interesting threads. We answer the silly ones like Is the person above or below good looking, yet when someone pours their thoughts out to something that makes perfect sense to me btw. He gets attacked laughed at and his thread highjacked! Come we are all adults can't we respond to the topic, if not perhaps we should not post in the ones we don't like. I stay out of ones that do not interest me. I agree with what you said it makes perfect sense to me, I thank you for posting this. I am sorry you had to put up with ridicule, I personally do not care who likes what I had to say. I stand up for what I feel is fair and who is right IMO.
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 2:19 PM CST
Hi and welcome to Cs. wave handshake I agree give it time, it will happen when the time is right. cheers


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 2:16 PM CST
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 2:14 PM CST
Absolute Love:

Stood resolute against many . . .
Searching for a complete love.
Left me falling in disrepute, an
Angel with broken wings.
Took time to mend them, there
Intentions to descend my dignity.
My indignity obsolete felt so
incomplete, morals and values
couldn't be depleted.


God's design of love so Devine.
Defined as five ways must be
combined, each is assigned to
make love yours and mine.
If one should decline the others
will follow fast, a recipe for a
Love that will last.
Blessings will be many, alone a
memory of past.

Epithumia - a strong desire( will
keep the fire burning higher.)
Eros - romance, passion and
sentimental. (Gentle and true,
all of this I give to you.)
Storge - natural affection, and
a sense of belonging. (Strive for
perfection produces, resurrection
of hope.)
Philo - Affection tender, cherishes
friendship. (As long as I live until I
perish.)
Agape - unselfish love that gives and
never expects anything in return.
(All of this needs to be our main
concern.)

I yearn for a love like this, I know all
this yet plenty to learn.
I turn to you and say, I vow to display
all of this each and every day.
Never betray love or it will dismay and
go away, succeed the example and love
will stay!
We all have the hunger that we need.
Now we must plant the seed.

Patti 01-05-07
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 1:53 PM CST
I have four daughters that I have raised on my own for the last 12 years. All but one is grown and gone, my youngest is 17 the man I am interested in has no kids. But if he did that would be all right with me, I will miss my youngest when she's gone. As I do the ones who already left, I will always be there for them yet I am looking forward to my future as well. I have found it hard over the years to date seems like a lot of men did not want a self-made family. It's all good though I accept all that comes my way.
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 15, 2007, 10:05 AM CST
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 11:10 PM CST
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Hello, i am curious ,,,,If you and your new loved one (just pretend in case you dont have one) want to settle down ,,,which country and or province or state would you choose?? also just assume for this scenario the your loved one is leaving descion up to you and no issues with visa etc..blah blah blah,,,,So....where will it be?????...Oh!! I am still thinking my answer,,LOL
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I would prefer somewhere warm with a long growing season, I love growing a garden. Nothing like homegrown. I would want to discuss where our options would be. He wants a farm but wants to wait until he retires, so for now I would move to him and when the time comes we could decide. To me it is not where you live or go, it is being with the object of your heart that counts! smitten kiss yay


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 11:01 PM CST
I believe you can develope deep feelings with someone you never met after extended conversations and web cams. Hours and days of talking on the phone. I also feel it's falling in love with that person without being in love. As love takes time and seeing how they treat others and you under stress, and or during tough times. Along with their habits and so forth. You know when that person is all you can think about, your heart races with just a thought of them. It is great flying here on the wings of love, each day brings us closer to being together. smitten hug kiss


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 9:42 PM CST
I know how you feel my love is 400 miles from me, it's hard and time seems to drag while we are missing them. But as we all know, they are always in our hearts as well as our thoughts. It would be until October until I can relocate, I try to keep busy and I always feel better once we have at least talked. Thank God for phones and computers, but most of all for the love he designed for us to give!
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 5:34 PM CST
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your were lucky, thank god
Yes Deborah thank God is right! I thank you for your kind words, and I pray for God to bless and comfort you in your sickness. hug angel comfort


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 5:23 PM CST
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Do you put off, thinking that you will get better with without going, do you wait and if no progress you go or do you go right away? Do you suffer the pain until it is no long bearble or do you run to the doctor?
I have learned my lesson, I was told 5 years ago I had an ulcer went to ER after fighting with my kids that I would be fine. They gave me an IV and sent me home. I kept getting attacks through the years on and off, never went to the doctors because I figured it would pass. Back in June I got so sick during what I thought was another ulcer attack, I could not keep anything down. After 4 days of this my two sisters came and picked me and took me in, turned out I had diverticulitis had to have surgery because it had blocked my bowel. I wore a Colostomy bag for four months before they could reverse it. My surgeon told me two more days I would of been dead, a lesson well learned I am thankful to be alive! applause rolling eyes dancing


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 5:00 PM CST
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 1:08 PM CST
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If you beat and if you cheat,
Tonight she'll kick you to the street,
If you lie and try to be bright,
See you on the street tonight,
For if you do and thats your way,
Thats where you belong,
And thats where you'll stay,

I need info is it good or what.
Yes it's good yet short, I also write poetry I have one in my profile that reflects how I feel. I also have over 100 poems on my computer thinking about writing a book of poetry one day. I was both beat and cheated on by my ex husband, I know not all men are like that. It also is not a gender thing as women do it too, not this one. As I believe in treating others as I want to be treated. And that is with love, compassion, and kindness! professor peace thumbs up


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 14, 2007, 12:56 PM CST
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2007, 9:49 AM CST
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It is a very small town, but the outskirts of it is mostly country land and roads, making it much harder to find someone. Sometimes it is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

As for credit - I do not recieve much credit. I do not do it for the credit either.

We need to protect our children at all costs. And I don't even have any!
I agree that we have to protect the children at all costs. You are indeed a good person to help the cause. May God bless you and guide you with his light! angel thumbs up hug


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 12, 2007, 8:59 AM CST
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Well it was fun but I'm going to hang up the search, good luck everyone!!!!!!!
Sorry to hear your giving up, take care and come back when your ready! handshake


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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 11:55 PM CST
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I have seen many Christians take bankruptcy instead of managing and paying as they should. They could have paid, but it was easier to take bankruptcy. They see nothing wrong with it.

All I am trying to point out is to people that it is not right, just because you can by law.

I have seen one young man that because of his Christian beleif, he did not take bankruptcy. He worked hard, managed his money, Tightened his belt and paid all he owed. He was in about as bad as a person could get....but he paid it all.

Many abuse it and see nothing wrong. I wonder what God's opion is. This is the urpose of this thread to provoke thinking and hopefully Bible searching to be doing the right thing. That's all.
I am Christian and I owe the creditors. I never intended this nor did I want it. After being in an abusive marriage I wanted to build up my credit, he ruined ours. I was hard working and had the money to pay them off. The fiancé Hit me one day and I already promised me I would never live that life again. I left and had Four daughters to raise, besides the bills and putting food on the table. There never seemed to be enough left to pay anything else. Bottom line is I think it depends on intentions while doing it, in order for God to understand and forgive us.
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Sadeyes044
Tonawanda, New York USA
Posted: Jan 11, 2007, 10:03 AM CST
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