Posted: Jan 29, 2008, 9:46 PM CST
ConnecticutQTee wrote:I think that sometimes when dating people close to our age, others have already raised their kids & look forward to their freedom. Lets face it, as lovable as kids are , you don't have as much freedom as one living alone. I have kids at home too, but once they leave - lol - I'm done! So I get it when people shy away from me because honestly, I'll likely do the same when the tables are turned
Hi QTee, I understand the mentality of not dating someone who has kids. It makes spontaneity difficult. As a dad who absolutely loves his son, I think that there can be room for both. Kids and a personal relationship. I have my son with me several nights a week. His mom has moved on with her life long ago and I have yet to find the woman I'd like to have in my life. But if I did, I'd ask his mom to step up so that I could have more time to let a personal relationship grow. People close their minds to those of us with kids. They could be missing out on something really good due to that.
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