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I've just been wondering. whe you are out on a date with a man, is it becoming less common for the man to open doors for you, allow you to enter a room first (ala the old saying, Ladies first) and basically show good, clean, kind manners?

Im not posting no more LOL

Lol - I agree .... because I thought that you were saying that being celibate and not dating was shallow !! (wanna wrestle???) lol

Come on into celibacy and not into dating-- hard to belive (and shallow) LOL do people really belive some of the crap they write?

He prepared breakfast for them both and read the paper,as he gazed longingly at his new friend thinking...

She love's you ya,ya,ya.

Well contrary to Mech's opinion I actually see nothing wrong with MsVoltri's thoughts because in the Victorian days it was considered courting and society's standards were strictly upheld ...... and I think that couples despite lack of physical contact could and did fall in love.

How often now in our society does lust rule over common sense ?? Probably more often then most of us would care to admit.

yes, but I am talking about girls who put themselves out on the market, they say that they're not sure what they are looking for.....so why are they in the relationship section of the isle.....it just defeats the purpose. Everyone is allowed to have dreams and fantasies, I have my own, but really, girls and men should not be putting themselves in a catagory if they don't know what they want. I know what I want, just read my profile. lol. If the girl is putting herself out there, she should be ready for guys who are looking for the same instead of just misleading them and wasting time. and only to let them know the truth later, wouldn't you say?

-Mike

I've been married for ten years, now im going through a divorce. The Emotions flat lined years ago on both sides of the fence.
So I come here hoping to find a soul mate, which I thought years ago I had. As luck has it I found some one I would like to care about. Problem is she lives ump teen million miles away. Almost to the point for emotion's sake she may as well live in china. We've talked a good deal on the phone, and emailed numerous of times. there a trip planed for me to drive up and see her in a week or so's time.
My problem is I cant stop thinking about her, and the depressed frustration level that I don't live close enough to her to be able to spend any type of quality time and truly get to know her. In place of the vast distance I spend a great deal thinking of this woman, almost to the point its emotionally unhealthy. I say unhealthy because for me its been a LONG time since I've been able to show affection towards some one with out their smart remark, a snide comment or a simple "I hate you" attached' Thus I come out seeming overly sweet and over caring. Emotionally unbalanced is the word at this point. It almost scares me that I come off that way, as I don't want to scare her away. But at the same time to avoid running her off I try to tame the feelings and keep distant (as if the miles aren't enough) by limited my phone calls to her, and the emails, etc..
I suppose im hopeless in that my good sense tells me to run from these feelings, to leave her be, she'd be better off with some one closer to "home" etc..etc.. Generally I'd need no advice but im at a stalemate at this point, do I turn left, turn right, go go strait, or simply turn around and walk away whistling as if I never knew her?

I should be charging for this.

Way back when...there were hunters and gatherers Men hunted and women gatherered. Women want a hunter.
Now don't get me wrong. A women could be president but the First Man would be a hunter...

Hey there peoples,

Just tryin not to pull my hair out about how to find and understand that 1 special girl.

I've just found that every time I meet a girl who I'd like to pursue a relationship with seems to be sooooooo affraid to commit and hyper-sensative to the fact that a nice guy like myself, who has a lot to offer, get's the bum end of the deal. I don't believe nice guys finish last, but I mean I give girls what they want in a guy and it doesn't seem to do the trick. Is it the fact that once they get what they want they no longer find it a thrill anymore?

Now, keep in mind that this is a point of view thread, I'm speaking from my own experiences.

But seriously, why is it soooo hard to find a girl that will just settle down and accept what's out there, rather than having these ridiculous standards that they will never find other than in their mind.

There really is something to be said about being realistic.

-Mike

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Let's say something positivea bout the men here on the CS forums.this aint about their looks or how good they fill out the front part of their underwear this is about personality traits..


i feel the men we currently have on here are funny,respectful and are very intelligent to boot.Love ya guys !!