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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 8:23 PM CST
Sparky55 wrote:
Hello All,

I usually don't write too many serious threads but this one is about a problem I'm having with the sale of one of my houses.

I bought a house in S. Caroline 6 years ago. Right after I bought it Uncle SAM moved me and I have been overseas since. Not a problem as I have been renting it since that time and it pays for itself so I've kept it as an investment. However, as I approach retirement this winter I decided to put the house up for sale. Surprisingly, it sold very quick despite the current housing slump but then right before the closing the lawyer for the buyer found a problem with the title. In short, the title is not clear and wasn't when I bought it. This means I can't sell it and I just lost the sell of the house plus lost the renter I had due to the pending sell. I am pretty much screwed (I think) Anyone out there ever experianced anything like this? The problem is made worse because I am stuck overseas and it's really difficult to handle. Any advice is welcome.


I would suggest getting a real estate lawyer pronto. If the title wasn't clear when you bought it then there are very serious consciences that have occurred and depending on the real estate laws in SC it could possibly mean a law suit.

I suggest on demanding from whom ever preformed the tittle work a copy and why they are saying it isn't clear. Where are the clouds coming from? It could be as simple as a construction lien which could easily be corrected. It could be a serious cloud that may take some time to clear. With you being active duty you will need some professional help.

Yes I've seen many clouds on many titles before and I've worked with my clients to get them cleared. I'm a licensed mortgage broker here in FL and I always advise my clients to use a real estate attorney to close the loan. I personally will never purchase or sell a home with out one!
professor

Good luck to you!

wine


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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 11, 2008, 7:44 PM CST
Hey Dana put me on the list too!

How's your back? Hope you are better!

wine


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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:39 PM CST
desmond wrote:
Is it ok to come and sneak out of your house



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Momma is here and always watching! wink

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:34 PM CST
desmond wrote:
Hi sweetie good to see you


Hi honey good to be back. And good to see you too! cheers

Sorry you have to get up so early in the morning. I know it's hell sneaking out of your girlfriends mothers house before she knows you're there! devil

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:29 PM CST
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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:16 PM CST
A friend is someone that will come and bail you out of jail. professor

A true friend is sitting next to you in jail saying "damn that was fun when can we do it again?" dancing



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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 9:00 PM CST
dcj22 wrote:
He came by looking for her a while ago. She had left before the police got here. And I think he said he waspressing charges. There were 4 of us there as witness to what happened and she'd assaulted 3 of us.


My fingers are crossed for you hon! I pray he does go ahead and arrest her since he has physical evidence and 4 witnesses!

Then your statement and follow through will only put the nail in her coffin so to speak! You go girl! grin


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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 8:50 PM CST
dcj22 wrote:
I have a question about my situation that happened today. Most of you are aware of it.

The police officer suggested that I press charges for assault for me and Emily and I'm going to talk to Brandons father when he gets home to suggest the same in his case.

The officer also said that he was filing a report and or/ filing charges.

So I'm a bit confused about this issue.

My question is... Will she be arrested before we go file our charges just on the police charges?Thanks everybody!!


Probably not. The officer has to document the call with a report. If he were going to arrest her he would have done it then. Your pressing charges now is what may get the arrest warrant. For now it's mostly a she says/ she says ordeal. Even if you press charges the arrest may not happen. You will have to stay on top of it and you may have to force the issue.

Sorry dear, I do hope the police do better in your case then I have seen them do here in FL.

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 10, 2008, 8:02 PM CST
Dana,

I'm so glad you, Em and the boys are OK. It's a crazy world out there and you have every right to defend your children and yourself. I would suggest not to think about it as being violent, it's more of holding her accountable for her actions ( even if it takes physical action)!

Do go and get checked out to make sure your back didn't sustain more injuries. It's not really about the evidence that you can take to court (even though it will look better) it's more about taking care of yourself so you can take care of those kids.

I hope she leaves you alone now. However if she is into drugs real bad she may find ways of making your life and Em's life hell. You may want to look into getting a restraining order to start with in case this escalates further. Then you may down the road be able to have the stalking charges come into play. It's just a suggestion for you my friend. And yes every time from here on that she messes with Em or Brandon or even you or your property I would call the police and push it.

Love ya honey!

Marrie

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 10:43 AM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
1. Everyday, for the next thirty days only. Look into the mirror, say these words to the person looking back at you. "I love you"..

2. Get and read a book titled God on a Harley by Joan Brady..Any takers on my challenge?


I do this everyday and the book I've had for years and read it at least 2 times a year. I'll get it out and read it again. The book is awesome!

Thank you!

rose

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 7:53 AM CST
dcj22 wrote:
What do you look for in a partner. Not the usual things, such as physical attraction and a sense of humor. But what kind of character traits do you look for in a mate?


Confidence not arrogance



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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 9:16 PM CST
Claayer wrote:
Okaaay...

Brow lift?

Face lift?

Liposuction?

Bigger/smaller bum?

Pecs?

Ears pinned back? Botox? Oh... well that's not surgery is it.

Bigger/smaller lips?

would you get yout teeth done?

straightened? whitened?

Something? anything?


Plastic Surgery is for more than just wanting it to improve yourself. When I was 17 I was thrown out of a windshield and had to have my face reconstructed. I had an extremely fantastic surgeon and no one can tell except for me. I'm the only one who knows where the scars are and can see them.
Now that I'm older I would love to have a breast reduction and lift, have my throat and jowls done as well. I haven't had that done yet however I am researching the Dr's in my area.

rose


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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 6, 2008, 6:15 PM CST
OUTRAGEOUS wrote:
I was told that I could forgive, but I didn't necessarily have to forget. Then it turns into a vicious circle, if I can't forget, I won't be able to let it go... it will always lurk there...

I haven't forgotten, and it still hurts a little, and leaves me short of breath... I can't forget, so I will always know the signs of cheating... I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...

Sounds familiar? Tell us about it.


And so the cycle begins over and over again and the neon sign on your forehead flashes "Cheat on Me"

For me, forgiving someone of their actions is different than holding them accountable. What I see in others that I use to see in myself is that I didn't know the difference. While I can and have forgiven the action I still hold that person accountable by stopping the action from happening with that person again. What I mean by this is yes, I dearly love a man that was never faithful to me, it hurt a great deal, I am saddened by his actions, he is not a horrible person, I wish him the best and I am still friends with him. How did I stop the action from happening again? I am no longer in a romantic relationship, even though I am in love with him. It can never be. I deserve a man that will be faithful, honest, and will create open communication. I will always know the signs of cheating and that still doesn't mean "I can't trust" again. For me it's my personal power inside that I know if I see the signs I will leave the relationship period. I have the trust within myself that I will take care of me. I have my 100% responsibility in the relationship and the other person has their 100% responsibility.

For me, the "I can't trust, because I'll be cheated on again...." is playing the victim and asking for people to be a part of a pity party. I choose not to be a victim and I chose to move on with my life. If that includes a man in the future I am open to it. If not then I can take care of myself. When I say the word "I" it comes from personal power not victimization.

rose


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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 10:16 PM CST
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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 10:10 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
Yes it would only stand to reason....Here we have what they call "band membership" which means a member of the First Nation....so mine would be....The Mohawks of the Bay of Quinte...so membershi is with the Nation...not the reserve itself!!!!!!!!!!Yes there are quite a few who are in mixed marriages...and I can't say I blame them when I see the choices here!!!!!!!!!!!


I know what you mean! laugh Here we are members of tribes not members of reservations.

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Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 10:03 PM CST
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Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 9:59 PM CST
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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 9:58 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
I'm sure the membership requirements a bit more stringent than that...Don't forget the people you see that live on the reserves near you...may not be Native...but spouses of Native people....That doesn't make them members....they are merely allowed to reside there because the have a Native spouse!!!!!


Genealogy and proving the blood line are quite a bit more stringent. It's not about "membership". You are so right on Hugs about people who live on the reservations. Some chose to marry out of the tribe and are still living on the reservation.

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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 9:48 PM CST
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sexielady
Hudson, Florida USA
Posted: Jun 2, 2008, 9:44 PM CST
mastic55 wrote:
You don't look Afro American either...




Isn't ignorance bliss? D'oh!


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