Posted: May 13, 2008, 10:40 PM CST
mbcasey wrote:I thought I met the love of my life, but it didn't work out. People have told me she wasn't the one for you.
They also said "it will happen for you" I have even dispensed that advice myself to others who have been looking and had no success.
Do you believe there is someone for everyone? Do you think it "will happen" for everyone who is looking for love? Maybe there are some people on this Earth who are destined to be alone all their life, even though they do not want to be. Do you believe that could be true?
I believe that there are many people that we are compatible with and go well with. It sucks when relationships are over, but each one teaches us something. Each experience inriches our lives in some way or another. Some people will probably stay alone. Most likely though most people who want/need somebody will find them. There are so many people out there looking for someone else the odds are in their favor.
We all come into this life with a different set of lessons. I think the people who come into our lives are all apart of that. So maybe some of us are meant to spend life with one person for a very long time while others are meant to spend shorter spans of time with several people. Some people also need the challenge of standing on their own two feet, but I would suspect that if you're not happy on your own then most likely your not one of those people and most likely you won't end up alone forever.
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