Posted: Sep 23, 2008, 10:36 AM CST
JimNastics wrote:OK, this is a serious question. And since I am very new here, I am quite hesitant to ask this. But...
About 2 hours ago, on another site a young lady initiated contact with me. In checking out her profile, she is VERY pretty and like me, in terrific shape and a non-smoker. We seem to share a lot of common interests. She lives only about 20 minutes from me.
Sounds great so far, right ?
Here's the issue. She's younger, than the age range I set for ideal.
My question is this; I am 43 and will be 44 in December.
What do YOU think is the youngest woman a man of my age should date ? Don't get gross. I assure you she is an adult.
Since I love humor, you can feel free to joke if you like, but I am also interested in your honest opinion. I mean the ultimate decision is mine, but I am at least open to advice. I did reply to her, as I do with ALL people who initiate contact (except obvious scammers).
I personally think it is rude not to respond.
Regardless, what do you think is the lowest age of a woman a 43 /44 year old guy should date ?
Really it depends on what you're comfortable with. Take things really slow and pay close attention to how well you really get along on the emotional/mental level. Keep in mind too that the younger you go the more you're going to want to tear your hair out. I'm only 32 and I've never dated anyone more than 9 years younger than me and I've found that more than 5 years my junior ever really works. There's just nothing in common and not enough stimulating conversation outside the bedroom.
Just take things slow and see how you feel about it after you have a chance to get to know the person. Give yourself the time to know them.
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