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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 18, 2007, 9:34 PM CST
Too funny rolling on the floor laughing


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 17, 2007, 8:24 PM CST
That is almost a no-brainer..... women wink


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 17, 2007, 8:15 PM CST
Hi Biker, welcome and enjoy the ride wave


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 17, 2007, 4:58 PM CST
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yes, but i feel its unrequited at this stage!...
Same here !sad


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 17, 2007, 5:18 AM CST
Welcome and enjoy! wave


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 17, 2007, 4:40 AM CST
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I use have to sit back and watch as a child was given back to an abusive parent.This made me so sick I had to leave my job as I worked in child related cases.To see a child mistreated at nights I would go home have nightmares .Knowing it was myself as a child I was seeing.But trust me now we are fighting back.There are people who will not let a parent who is abusive get that child for a visitation.There can be steps taken,but in taking them you will be giving all you know up.But you have to decide if your child is being touched ,or even molested.Are you willing to do all it takes to make them safe?We use to be at an no exit,now we have options a way out.If we are brave enough to say no more and mean it.
I'm "lucky" it took a while but I had the court on my side. But that was only because my ex made some stupid mistakes during that time.
My son doesn't see his dad. Not until he has undergone a psych assessment and then only supervised. But of course there is nothing wrong with him so he is not going for the assessment and continues to blame the world for his missery.


I will do whatever it takes to keep my children safe.


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 11:29 PM CST
We are talking now about men and women but lets not forget the children who witness all this abuse. Doesn't matter how young they are. My baby would scream if I wasn't close by..... I witnessed some disturbing reactions from a child who was only a few months old blues


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 11:04 PM CST
They're in my prayers angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 11:00 PM CST
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If one were to look closely enough...the signs were there no matter how subtle an abuser does not just decide one day I'm going to abuse...it doesn't work that way in fact!


I agree, looking back I can now see the signs of control.


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 9:32 PM CST
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BRILLIANT!


I copied it for future reference. I think a girl-friend is going down that path.
People who are trying to leave an abusive relationship NEED all the help and support they can get. I honestly could not have done it without the support of my friends and family.....
Not only starting over alone is scary but most of the time there are the threats from the abuser if you would leave.


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 9:27 PM CST
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Love is blind in some cases, i found myself thinking its me, its my fault, i've done something to deserve this....

but no....it wasn't me!...

its very hard to pull away......

he'll catch up with you.....and if you have kids...its even worse.

but eventually he gets the message it think!

i saw the light thank god.

happier to be alone too rather than go back to that!

x
I so agree with you. Unfortunately leaving an abusive relationship doesn't end it. Sometimes makes it even worse. Statistics show that of the women killed by their abuser most of them happened after they had left. Restrainingorders and courtorders doesn't keep them away.....blues


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 8:34 PM CST
hug


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 8:06 PM CST
Congratulations and I wish you both a wonderful future!!hug


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 6:13 PM CST
Plus women don't just sit around anymore and "wait". We ask men out too...... well, at least I do wink


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 16, 2007, 6:04 PM CST
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I really dont know. Sometimes I think women do because they seem to be able to sit back and let the guys come to them and they can sift through and pick the one she thinks will suit what she is looking for, but then to think of how many jerks they might go through before they find a good guy that has to be hard as well. Not sure I know its not easy for us guys that are looking for a relationship, woman around my age are either taken, bad seeds( trying to keep it clean), or just not interested in a guy with kids. or who knows maybe its just me, lol

not trying to be offensive to anyone, I know that its not always the same for every woman and or every man and thats why I put the ? out there to find out other peoples take on the subject.
I really think it is the same for women.


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 15, 2007, 9:36 PM CST
I was gonna say google it but you probably already did...

I really don't know what else to say. My ex is 2 years behind, haven't seen a penny yet.... no use to look into costs of extra curicular activities laugh


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 15, 2007, 1:50 PM CST
Lets not forget this girl either angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 15, 2007, 1:49 PM CST
Lets not forget this little girl angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 15, 2007, 8:32 AM CST
Congratulations to you and Matt danceline Great to hear from you!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 14, 2007, 9:18 PM CST
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Bald is VERY VERY sexy
See, we can play nice and agree wink


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