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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 10:32 PM CST
Kinda want to bump this to the top. Think my dear friend can still use our thoughts and prayers!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 9:25 PM CST
Not always easy but we can always learn from these experiences. If it doesn't kill ya, it makes ya stronger. I truely believe that....


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 8:47 PM CST
gentlepaws wrote:
I'm in denial.


That is okay Leo! Whatever works wink I'm gonna be an old spinster and have my children look after me laugh


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 8:38 PM CST
gentlepaws wrote:
Can it be 2 years ? Wow.


Almost 3...... blushing


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 8:37 PM CST
gypsykisses wrote:
only 6 months til spring!


Luv the optimisme laugh


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 8:35 PM CST
gentlepaws wrote:
Good one. How are you ?


Pretty good, still single and happy!! How about yourself! Doesn't seem like we have been forever? teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 8:28 PM CST
Good thing I haven't had one for a while...... I would faint wink


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 18, 2008, 6:23 AM CST
Happy Birthday Urs!!! Hope you have a fantastic day!!!

teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 17, 2008, 1:51 PM CST
wikked wrote:
Hey Ange

I tried talking to my ex about it...his answer is always the same..."give it a few days..."
And he says he's honestly not understanding my frustrations with them because he doesn't have any "issues" with them....
He does not comprehend that he has them 2 weekends out of the month - of course he doesn't have any issues!!

My biggest problem right now is that they feel they should not have to do any chores around this house because they don't have to do any at their dad's unless they want to.....


I remember that part, that my ex had no problems what so ever, grrrr.
That was when he only had them in the weekends....

Stick to your rules. They are your rules and they live in your house so they should live by your rules.
M is for Mom not for Maid!!! Saw that on a t-shirt the other day, I like it!!



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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 17, 2008, 12:13 PM CST
wikked wrote:
Thanks so much for your input, I appreciate it!

You're right this is being made especially harder for me because they are girls and i am trying to be their "friend" enough that they will come to me in times of trouble, or when they need solid advice....but at the same time maintain the role of a parent....

Sometimes I feel i let my guard slip because i am guilty of not providing them a home with TWO loving parents, though both my ex and I love the dust they walk on....we do it from separate homes...

Plus i also deal with the "its so much better at daddy's house...."


Hey Urs, good to see ya again!
I think it is very important that bounderies are set. Especially in the teenage years. Right now they need us to be parents more than friends.
I have a great relationship with my 15 year old daughter. She comes with issues to me and also talks to her dad. I don't think you have to try to be their "friend" for them to come to you in times of trouble.

About the "its so much better at daddy's house...." to me that sounds more like a little "blackmail" to get from you what they want....
They just now how to push our buttons, no matter how old they are.

teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Oct 5, 2008, 10:05 AM CST
bluepoint wrote:
is love all that we need to live for?


What does money and material things mean if there is no love in your life?

Love comes in many forms!angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 29, 2008, 3:05 PM CST
Child abduction, didn't know where he was for a week.....


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 28, 2008, 11:14 PM CST
I love it!!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 28, 2008, 7:30 PM CST
Thanks girls, really appreciate it!!! hug


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 27, 2008, 9:06 AM CST
Think we all have that feeling from time to time. It kinda makes me realize how good my life actually is. Might sound crazy but when I feel like that I have to remind myself of all the things I should be greateful for. If I don't do that it definitely is gonna be a "poor me"-day....

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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 27, 2008, 8:57 AM CST
Lestat wrote:
Good morning shyatfirst, and to everyone else viewing this thread..
I'm new to this profile dating but I am intrigued by it all thus far.
Let's see what comes of it, no?

,
Jade


Hi Jade, welcome to CS! Enjoy yourself and just have fun..... teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 27, 2008, 8:57 AM CST
Morning everybody! Looks like a beatiful day outside. Yesterday was just downpour after downpour and some wicked thunderstorms. Of course around dinnertime it all cleared up......

Finished my coffee but can't get myself motivated to get ready.

Kahlil has a birthdayparty to go to this afternoon. That should be fun.

Jennifer and Daniel left again yesterday, makes for a quiet house. Believe it or not my oldest one is the loudest. Unfortunately she gets everybody going though......

Have a great day!! hug


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 7:28 PM CST
There are lots of genuine great girls out there. Just be patient and in the meantime have fun here!comfort


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 7:10 PM CST
God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice: Listen to the whisper ... or wait for the brick!


The last part is very true! angel

Love the story. Thanks!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 26, 2008, 7:02 PM CST
I saw him on Oprahs show. What an amazing man and what an inspiration.

My prayers are with his wife and children! angel


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