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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 5:30 PM CST
Justme4uok wrote:
Well they say Woman are from Venus and Men are from Mars...So I would think we were foreigners to begin with....No matter where located....


I second that!! Everytime I think I start to understand a man he throws me for a loop again.....

Although the European men seem to remember the little things smitten


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 5:20 PM CST
kidatheart wrote:
Your rights end when you step on the rights of others.


applause


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 7:49 AM CST
It took me a long time before I started to get the courage but I have asked men out.
I realized that we might not be the only ones shy, afraid etc.
And as you can see I have lived to tell tale. Is it scary? Hell yea, but I so don't like the "what ifs"


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 7:31 AM CST
Morning! Been up for an hour but the coffee is not kicking in just yet. It is again very humid here and raining. Looks like we might get some thunderstorms as well.
Haven't really thought about the day yet. Think we might just take it easy today. A little bit of cleaning here and there...... we'll see!

Have a great day everyone!

Hey Angel, where did you move from? Didn't you already live in St. Caths?

teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 7:35 PM CST
princess49503 wrote:
Tom,
Maybe because, American women don't NEED a man or a husband. Compare these foreign women to American women. We earn more money and have a better education.

Me personally? I am completely financially independent. I don't need to be saved or taken care of.

The reason I am looking for a man who is equally educated and gainfully employed is because I'm not going to support a drunken jobless slob .

If I don't find the man of my dreams, thats ok too. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than settle for a pig who will make me miserable.

If your waiting for someone to jump up and say "Oh no! don't give up hope, Tom" then you'll be waiting a llllloooooooonnnnnnggggggg time. So in the mean time start blowing your plastic doll.


I just want to respond to the better education and money of the American women then the foreign women.
Maybe you would like to educate yourself a little about the European women before you make a statement like that.
Being born and raised in Holland I can tell you that I actually would make more money there than here. And honestly I don't think you are better educated than me. I am very selfsufficient and independent.
I'm not looking for an arguement, I just want to point out to go easy on making statements like that!!!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 19, 2008, 7:44 AM CST
Morning everyone! About a year ago (maybe even longer) we had a thread people kinda dropped in before starting the day. Was fun.....
Let's see if we can do it again!

I'm just finishing off my coffeepot before getting into motion. Have a BBQ/meeting starting at 11 am this morning.
Just love the meetings were there is food involved, lol. My favorites are the breakfast meetings.

Have a great day and try to stay cool!!teddy bear


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 9:19 PM CST
Depends on the people involved. If you are insecure and jeaulous, wouldn't recommend it.
But I do think that it takes work, more so than a "normal" relationship!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 7:44 PM CST
Never been in Barcelona but I have been in other parts of Spain quite a few times. It is absolutely one of my favorite countries.
Wonder sometimes why I didn't move there!


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jul 17, 2008, 11:24 AM CST
Katine76again wrote:
Hi everyone!

I am not really new here. Have been here befor and then left. Well things did not work out unfortunatly so here I am again.

I see alot of new names here and a few familiar ones as well.

Look forward to getting to know you all!

Tracy


Hey Tracy,

I just came back myself today. Just to see a few people I have seen in a long time.
I couldn't remember my cs handle, lol. Had to mail them to send me a reminder, kinda tells you how long it has been!

hug Angela


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 21, 2007, 6:39 AM CST
I think the reason why people judge is because their own insecuritys or because they have too much time on their hands!

As long as you feel good about who you are! That is what matters.....


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 11:58 PM CST
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LOL...Hey Ange he caught my eye a long time ago!

Don't really think he is on here to really "hook up"...i think we are all his friends and he enjoys our "company"....
You got me really curious now confused

Hope you and the girls are doing okay! hug


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 9:22 PM CST
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There is no button for all that I have experienced in life. I don't believe that any of it is right or justified, but I can say for my experiences I am a better mother and a better human being!

So many victims of abuse fall prey to repeating the cycle, abusing their own children/spouses/etc. I have been lucky enough in life to have individuals show me that love should not hurt and a high pain tolerance is not justification for allowing abuse.

Thank you for putting up this thread.
Same here, because of the experience I'm a better mother/person. The father of my youngest one was/is an abuser.It took me a couple of years and times to leave him. And it took me a couple of years after that to become the strong person I am now.

I try to learn from the past and not to dwell on it too much. But unfortunately I wasn't the only victim, my children were a victim as well. And for them I still feel the pain.

I wanted to add that without support it is very hard to do all this. I have an amazing support network.
It is out of fear of money (or better said lack of), threats and no support that people are going back over and over again to the abuser.
angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 8:57 PM CST
I think it is mostly the fear of rejection why we don't say anything.

I have told people here how I felt and what I thought. Obviously it didn't get me anywhere, lol.

And I probably would tell the person first before I would say anything here.
I have learned over the time I've been here, almost two years, you have to spell it out. Hinting doesn't work.....

Wikked, who has caught your eye?


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 7:26 PM CST
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Hello Shy girl
wave


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 4:33 PM CST
I'm a sucker for a man who can and likes to cook.


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 4:31 PM CST
A lot better than 2006 and my expectations for 2008 are even better!

angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 11:38 AM CST
* I'm actually not that shy

* I'm very intuitive

* I'm really not into sports or working out

* Nobody is allowed to touch my feet

* I'm not impressed by vain people or material things

* Start my day with at least 3 coffees

That is it for now, I think......angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 19, 2007, 12:44 PM CST
Angels angel


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 7:47 AM CST
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Just curious as to whether anyone here feels that a good portion of the relationship they were/are in is out of "need" rather than love...

And when i say "need" i don't mean you needing them....but rather your wanting them to "need" you...

Relationships are founded on all different emotional aspects....need is one of them...but what i'm questioning is who here feels they have to feel "needed" by their partner to actually feel "loved"....
If you want them to need you, isn't that pretty much you need them. It is in my opinion the same kinda "needyness"

I don't want to need someone and neither do I want someone to need me. If I would be in a relationship it is because 2 people want to be together and not because we need each other.......


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shyatfirst
cobourg, Ontario Canada
Posted: Aug 27, 2007, 12:03 AM CST
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the only difference is.......I didn't scream like a girl.............
giggle well, he did that for the both of ya.......


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