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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:58 PM CST
Signing off UK so I'll move your thread up before I do. Why don't you just e-mail her? Good luck.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:46 PM CST
sunshine79 wrote:
oh but they would rather try to point the finger at the one who isn't wronged anyone to make them feel like they are 2inches tall and they try to be the civil one and get crapped on and get nada


Sounds like it didn't go well for you...sorry. I tell any friend going through the process to remember those three little words -- "Hide the money."


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:40 PM CST
kitty01 wrote:
Should we all get together and talk about our failed relationships and compare notes?


Lord no!!


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:34 PM CST
Sunshine....
As I'm sure you have learned, Ohio is a no-fault state. So you'd need a creative attorney to administer a little revenge.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:30 PM CST
Manolito wrote:
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when something is wrong, the number of perpetrators does not have a determining effect on how wrong it is.


Ok, I'll give you this one....but you are a dying breed friend.

Your unfailing belief in the institution of marriage is inspiring, I sure wish I could have your faith.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:23 PM CST
sunshine79 wrote:
Yet you look like the horses arze and a door mat if you know about it and let it continue. Heck you look like a idiot with no standard to live up to and yet you arent the one who is doing wrong


Not at all...you have to decide what you can and cannot live with. If you felt your relationship was worth saving and you staying in it, that was your decision to make, no one else's. If you decided to move on, that was up to you as well. Only you could make that decision.

We all have to live with the choices we make. We can only control our own reactions/our own choices.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:17 PM CST
And one more minute on the soapbox and then I'll jump down....
We in particular attack other women because it's easy to do. We've done it in every aspect of our society. Women attack each other for being too heavy or too thin. We criticize each other for being working moms or staying home. We attack for breastfeeding or using formula. We attack each other's hair styles, clothing, shoes, virtually anything we can. Then we expect loyalty or sisterhood from one another when it comes to our relationships? It's a joke.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:13 PM CST
So here is the problem.....we are raised with the notion (however outdated) that marriage is forever. We strive to find our soul mates and then have the perfect wedding -- hell, prom is the practice party. We get married and have 2.5 children, then realize maybe it's not all the Brady Bunch promised us it would be. But...marriage is forever isn't it? Divorce carries social stigma, financial consequences, loss of children, home, security, etc. An affair is easy, available....with the only consequences being emotional. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's easier. Then we're surprised when it happens! We blame the mistresses or the other men involved...everyone but ourselves. Of course it's cowardly. Of course it's immoral. But so is our society. Our marriages are only a reflection of that.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 8:05 PM CST
50% of all 1st U.S. marriages end in divorce, 75% of 2nd....the glass slipper certainly doesn't fit us all.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 7:59 PM CST
Hugz_n_Kissez wrote:
You did nothing to deserve that...there is no exscuse...if he was that bored...unhappy...sad...mad...unsatisfied...then he should have had the guts to tell you...worked on your marriage....NOT another woman or left...Only cowards turn to another woman while still in a relationship...out of nothing other than plain selfishness....


Which is selfish...to cheat? To leave a relationship that's not working? To stay in a relationship that's not working? At what point is it ok to want to be happy? If someone feels trapped, what is the honorable thing to do -- stay and force yourself to love someone when you don't? I don't believe that you are doing any favors to your partner/spouse if you stay in a relationship that isn't working. Don't they deserve better too? I don't believe that cheating is right...but sometimes it is very human.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 7:50 PM CST
jbibiza wrote:
Some women are more comforatable with a married man because you don't have to worry about commitment.

When I was a single mom starting up a new business I didn't have the time or incliniation for a serious relationship and had an affair with a married man. At the time it suited our purpose and we were happy with the situationl, but looking back I realize how badly his wife would have been hurt had she ever found out and I wouldn't want to be the cause of that... so never again.

On the other hand, I'm really tired of the "other woman" being blamed for everything and the poor married guy being a "victim". What a load of crap! She is not the one who is cheating or breaking her vows... she's single !!!!


You'll never the truth about what was going on in his relationship -- he surely wasn't the only unhappy one in his home. Maybe she was cheating too, you don't know. One thing is for certain, if his marriage wasn't broken in the first place, he wouldn't have been with you. Plain and simple.

You were in a relationship between two consenting adults -- no one has the right to judge you. Stop beating yourself up, you can't go back and change it now. You obviously got what you needed from it at that time. My only concern is that you had to share your toys -- something you probably won't want to do again.



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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 7:40 PM CST
totallytopside wrote:
You can usually tell when someone likes you when they stomp on your toes and stuff your hat full of snow. That's why I'm a little shy when it comes to dating.


Too cute!


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:39 PM CST
If you live where it's cold...you have to stay warm....
Tropical -- hot & wet baby


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:28 PM CST
[quote=charlieboy2]that sweet honey , you should kiss and make up lol[/quote


No way...he had trouble staying warm on cold nights...if you get the (snow)drift....


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:23 PM CST
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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:20 PM CST
smoky wrote:
From my experiences I dont think it is fair for children to be brought up by a single parent.

My brother and I were brought up by our Dad.... an excellent parent. We thought it was quite normal. When we got older, married and all that stuff, we found we had lost out on a "balanced" upbringing. My brother was short on understanding the Female side of life. Me too. I was always inclined to "think like a man" if that makes any sense.

Whereas, my younger sister, brought up by our Mother, seems to have a different outlook and handles her life, as a woman, more successfully. She also has very little patience with men....

Taking note of others thru life`s walk, I do notice that those brought up with a Mom and Dad in a union seem more capable of handling life`s problems..... more rational and level headed.....jmho....

I do also know, for a fact, that boys will seek a Mentor - they need one, and they may not necessarily find a "good" one - any older male who impresses them is who they will imitate.



I would respectfully disagree. I raised my daughter all by myself and she is now a college graduate (The Ohio State University -- go Bucks!). As an educator I see kids that come from disfunctional one and two-parent households. The most important factor in any household is a happy, communicative family -- not how many parents are there.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:13 PM CST
vintagerock wrote:
can't really blame her thoguh...must be hard to keep up with a guy half her age! is she still dating ashton kutcher? *sigh* bruce willis is more of a man then Ashton will ever be, am i right or am i right?


You are so right...but then I'd take either one. Hmmm...Demi Moore's leftovers, I could live with that!


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:09 PM CST
Someone I was once involved with used to come to my apartment early in the morning and clear all the snow off my car for me...in Ohio, that's dedication.


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Posted: Mar 28, 2008, 6:07 PM CST
jodi...
sorry, I wasn't trying to make light of a rough situation. It just seemed unreal that someone could actually stoop that low. What a scumbag!


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