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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 10, 2008, 5:25 PM CST
Better to stay away from things you can't have . . U know?

Why go sit in a hugely expensive car when you know you'll never own it?
(sorry, bad analogy)

wave


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 10, 2008, 1:19 PM CST
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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 8, 2008, 12:54 PM CST
Isn't this called 'dark humor'?




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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 8, 2008, 12:35 PM CST
Riya Asked -
"what happens if the person doesnt turn out to be exactly as per your imagined image when you meet them in person ?"

This has happened to me also.

I would most likely want to continue being friends - but would not settle.

Choosing a partner is too serious to ever settle for less than what we want or need.


Just my thoughts . .

grin


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 8, 2008, 12:05 PM CST
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hi softly...I agree I can be totally joking with someone and that isnt how its takin....if i think theres the slightest chance of bein' taken wrong..j/k always follows.

Hey BeB!

I once wrote a quick message - translated it into Italian and sent it.

The guy didn't speak to me for two weeks! Yikes! What did I say??

rolling on the floor laughing


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Jan 8, 2008, 11:53 AM CST
Sometimes its easy to offend when posting as there is no true 'tone' to the words.

People slather their posts with happy faces and grins to avoid upsets.

wave


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 22, 2007, 3:59 PM CST
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Cookies the kind my greedy computer saves? and brownies like as in nixies, pixies, and faeries...?

Or do you mean the awesome spread in Leo's fridge?

Mark
Hey Mark!

Nah not computer cookies and heaven forbid I draw pixies and such to myself . .

I was hoping there would be food. You know like when people get together and shmuzz (how is that spelled?)

Btw - I lied when I answered the poll. I couldn't find the answer I was seeking.

Happy Holidays!

Hugs to all.
reindeer


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 22, 2007, 3:52 PM CST
I'm here for the cookies and brownies . . .waving santa


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 11:55 PM CST
LoL

I saw this thread and wondered if anyone actually had the ballz to reply truthfully to the taunt, errr, question.

Nope. No one ever does.

Don't look at me.

I'm too busy being an a$$ . . I wrote a "dear john", he apologized. I apologized. He closed his account and ran away. Sigh.

Its actually quite funny. Even without a bottle of wine!

Hugs. Happy Holidays!

Softlysanta


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 11:06 PM CST
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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 20, 2007, 11:03 PM CST
Hey Shadow Lover -

You gonna lurk in the shadows -n- jump out and scare us from time to time??

Cool!

Welcome to the Wonderful Wild World of CS!

reunion


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 17, 2007, 12:51 AM CST
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Just can't be done as a female.......don't ask how I know
Yes, Curly. It can be done. You just can't read it cuz of all the foot prints!



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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 10:49 AM CST
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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 10:39 AM CST
Damn! I'm supposed to have my own people?

Sheesh. No one tells me the rules . .

If *I* had my own people they would be an eclectic mix - good, bad, beautiful, ugly and a mix of everything in between.

(scratches head) Who knew? My own people . .


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 10:33 AM CST
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Are they strangers once you've seen their privates?
Maybe they become stranger strangers?


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 10:26 AM CST
Check out this article.

Its both funny and startling.

http://vonnegutsasshole.blogspot.com/2007/01/dolphins-rapists-of-sea.html


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 10:08 AM CST
In response to:
r we born equal n have the same privilege from the god?
is body the only thing that make us different?
what if we can choose from where n whom we born?
We can!!!

Hi!
wave


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 9:55 AM CST
Okay - probably gonna get blasted here.

The only time I was 'needy' was when I was a stay at home mom and lost my identity.

I would go nuts needing to talk to another adult. My hubby would come home, eat and park in front of the tube. He was tired. Didn't want to talk.

I 'needed' talk, flirting, reaffirmation that I was still sexy & smart, that he noticed his home and family.

I had to 'ask' for money.

I hated it.

But (this is the blasting part) people who say they don't want a person who needs them - it can be a catch 22.

My feelings are if you are in a committed relationship you need to need each other - otherwise, why bother?

If I continue on, as if I am single - they guy will think he doesn't matter.

So, as the relationship progresses we learn to need hugs, kisses, their humor, support in our decisions - etc.

Am I wrong here?

santa


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Softly_Me
Seattle, Washington USA
Posted: Dec 16, 2007, 2:12 AM CST
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