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Pssst...there are 'trade magazines' in the clothing industry from which basically anyone can order lingerie items by the pound...lets say ten dollars for 8 pounds of underwear...ever try to weigh 8 pounds of underwear and see how much that actually is??? A LOT! Many of the clothing mills used to be in NC when I used to get those magazines for furniture , antique repros but I knew several people that got their clothes like that, especially for retail-discount stores...everyday of the year? No problem! Buy 25 pounds! %D


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LOL! I always called it 'longies'; hey which ever, makes sense to me..%D


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Same here; be it Mozart, Chopin, even Gregorian chants; it is relaxing and merely allows you to think if you want; the soul relaxes as is refreshed. Same with 'feelin'good; 'movin' an' groovin' listening to the Kingsmen, Chuck Berry or CCR...or as James Brown put it so well: ' 'I feel good.....just like I knew I would'...%D( I still prefer waking up to Little Richard than some damn electronic buzzer alarm!) %D


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It all seems to come down to a sometimes precarious balancing act....physical age versus 'spirit/ soul age; emotional desires vs. physical/sexual desires, fantasies; social expectations vs. social realities etc. etc. Although I hope I'm understanding the aspects from different viewpoints, I fail to comprehend let's say 83 year old Senator weds 18 year old secretary or 65 year old movie queen marries 26 year old pool cleaner.... Seems the quest for whatever does at times become rather more ludicrous than even funny; but who among us would purposely deny any two people (of legal age) their chances at 'happiness'.... perhaps the one boundary line would, could or should be is that if one is old enough to be the parent of the other, then and only then should really serious thought be given to not only their situation but to all those around them also. But even this boundary is becoming more nebulous as the ages for giving birth recedes as well as the physical development and maturity levels drop among females. It is no longer even 'newsworthy' that a 12 year old girl gives birth to a baby....giving a much more narrow age discrepancy between the child and 'an older prospective suitor'...So far, in the tens of thousands of years, no peoples, no cultures, no religions (other than in North America by a rapidly diminishing Anglo-Saxon population) have ever put limits on age to love or to search for 'love' on/ by their people...this needs to be thought about long and hard, especially as to why not. I'm sure that they all have faced these same questions also at some points.... Perhaps having no limits is the best way after all, as they seem to have had a much earlier understanding of humans and love in all aspects allowing each culture to adapt to those understandings and the human need for love.While it seem a mere platitude, it is true : 'To each their own' in affairs of the heart...


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All this information about trees and alleged anthropomorphic qualities to humans with not a single word on compatibilities; which 'trees' grow nicely beside another or must they be of the same variety. Hasn't anyone yet noticed this absence which after all the various 'traits' which may or may not fit many people, we still have no clue as to compatibility...do you plant a walnut tree next to a cedar or a willow? Will an Oak grow well next to a palm...????????
Any horticulturists around??? %D


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Hastily?? Never ever 'peel off' or undress a woman in haste; it ruins the the occasion to fully savour the moment, as it may never come again; the enjoyment for both must...should never be in haste...haste makes waste and all that.
In seeing a woman in matching lingerie, it shows that she is organized with a sense of fashion that only enhances her as a woman not only to herself but to whom ever she deigns to allow the unique privilege of intimacy with her by sharing mutual passions or if in the case of a simple business transaction, a willingness to serve her client's needs and expectations...%)
It is best for the soul,if the encounter(s) are of a romantic nature however; much, much more satisfying...for both. %)


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It's the stuff that delusional dreams are made of to keep many going. And like all things in Life, dreams all have expiry dates, just like us...


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Interesting alternative but limited, as a man's.
We grow and change and find meaning, not in a world of infinite possibility--and this relates to the whole matter of monogamy---we find meaning because there are limitations. If we actually had unlimited possibility and control, nothing in this life would ever mean anything.
Some of us, as we go through life and endure hardships, close off; we have short term ways of managing that are designed to make us feel better but not to grow. Other people are willing to feel some of the discomfort from their mistakes and experiences. Life; marriages can be a forum for learning through a kind of creative constraint, an exploration of your own self in no small part because of the kinds of choices you have to make to stay with your choices.
I don't know what memories and experiences mean as much if they are not shared. Beyond that, some of the rewards have to do with the fact that your ex-spouse or current one mirrors for you, in a very realistic way, where you are in your life. It's very common that men over 40 married or single, look for younger to 'much younger' women, and to generalize, the simplest thing men are doing is trading in mirrors. By trading in those mirrors, many men get to fool themselves.
Ultimately, 'happiness grows not from trying to have a younger woman or from trying in other ways to trying directly to be happy, but from trying to live your life really well, and then happiness comes as a by- product...not some 16 to 30 year old female 'Lolita' affecting one's loins, and libido.


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"Now imagine you have a bomb strapped to YOUR WASTE, I'm suprised they can walk at all."

'YOUR WASTE'???? LOLLLLLLLLLL! LOVE IT!
Is this like 'blowing the shit' out of someone/ something...%D I like that....%)




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LOL!
This lurid case is an outrage to Western Civilization! This will provoke demands from Parliament to bring back the Avengers!
The DoD has just issued an order under the official secrets act for the emergency deployment of both the SAS and the SBS to the shores around your house; agent 008&3/4 has been woken up from his drunken stupor in his villa over on Tristan Da Cunha and will be boarding his row boat and the Carry On gang have also been alerted to film it all and are surreptitiously creeping upon your house as we type! Have we forgotten anybody?? (besides agent Johnny English and Mr. Bean...) %D


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Go for it! Also, if you know any psychiatrist, have a form submitted for 'traumatic psychological damage to you and your children by not only the theft, but of the negligence of the authorities not to have prevented it in the first place; seek compensation in the amount of...from the proper authorities...%D


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UPDATE: These members of this 'church' are now planning to enter Canada to 'picket' after all. Yesterday the Canadian Border services and RCMP said they would not allow them to enter Canada. Right, as if they couldn't enter singly at various cross points and meet up instead of showing up as a group and not getting in. All they would get is possible publicity for the attempt to cross the border...


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Not much difference between the two; we both 'hang around' here and there don't we...%D


BTW I wish that people would use the Black Panther Lexicon of "Black American-English"(1972) if they are going to use terms like 'mauvfukker' and get it right as the words are phonetically spelled as by their usual pronunciation. %D


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Human rectal explosions are far more dangerous to the ozone than from cows, yet cows are blamed for creating the methane levels. Clearly this is a case of blaming a minority as humans far outnumber the cows. Anal-ize dat! %D


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The Internet may be unsecured and may serve the insecure but it is still better than 'dating agencies' or escort agencies; you do not get what you pay for. They keep you paying by using bait-dates and most are linked to pimps who front for crime syndicates usually run by petty gangster wanna-Bee's, usually Russians. Many are also linked to various aspects of the porn and drugs industry. Stick with what you have some control over and surf the net. Your luck will be better and it's all your choice, not someone else's. Discretion and personal safety is the primary rule.


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"It has happened to me once....was called another name very close to mine but definitely not........Things were so hot and right at that moment that I thought.......??????.........John??? Johns a good name!, I think I'll go with it!!! So then I called her Abby, and Jessame and I both laughed!!! " quoted from jaywill


Exactly, just go along with it, and call her another name, see how long it keeps up...she may not even catch on...til her light bulb goes on.%D
Other names....yes; kinky ; a lot better than pervert...'umm.. you bastard' is much better than 'oh you failure!'...for instance, when you think of the alternatives... %D



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Having gone through this a few times and once succeeded,(marriage and children etc.) really think about reality versus practicality;
The following mathematical equation should drive home the importance of communication in a LDR...(long distance relationship)
Zero physical contact + usually substandard verbal and written communiques = an unsatisfying, short lived relationship.
The equation's as easy as 0 + 0 = 0. The first zero is the void that's left when you can't pop in to your partner's home after a terrible day at work for a relaxing drink or a reassuring hug. It's the delirium tremens(DT's) that set in in a few days after your last visit and your last spoon. By whatever means possible, you must find some way to recreate the satisfaction of all the perks that close-contact couples take for granted, and using good communication skills are the first, major step to making that second zero increase in value.
If your LDR will only say 'I love you' while gazing deeply into your eys, he'd/ she'd better learn to get over his/ her overwrought idea of romance. Fast. Because the LDR's most preferred method of delivering said intimacy is via phone---you can hear your partner's voice and his/her deep breathing, and you can listen to him burping out your name
after he downs a soda/ beer too fast.
Next in line as supplements to the phone are snail mail(including care packages, love letters, and cards), e-mails, and all the other more high-tech communication gadgets: fax machines, videophones and of course the now ubiquitous webcam...downed the beer too fast? Now watch him wipe his chin...%D This is based on the premise that you have at least met once...perhaps.
The only way to maintain any normalcy is to have short conversations but talk constantly so you feel like there's continuity...
Have frequent visits...from once a month to perhaps every few months if overseas. Here Distance and Costs rule. When you do meet up, make it for at least 3 to several days...meet at mid-way points at a local Love Motel that doesn't admit married couples...%D
Nightly phone calls and unexpected letters and gifts also! Good Luck!


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Just to note on your calenders for next year: YESTERDAY, was International Underwear Day...did anyone catch the special Victoria's Secret Underwear show in NYC...lovely news reports and lots of video....%D


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...and for a moment I thought that you were going to say your new lap-top, was some nice hot female ...%D


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Inherently, not a bad idea...it needs thinking on ,ie. if ALL singles sited contributed to a general pool and offered discount fight tickets to members to fly and meet their prospective mates...good at all airlines....oh the publicity could be priceless....like I said, needs some real serious thought ; neat idea Caayer!


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