Posted: Nov 4, 2008, 12:46 PM CST
BarrenPneuma wrote:I do understand the one-sided thing but I believe it is in our perceptions that we allow this to exist. Love does not expect reciprocation and if it is meant to be nothing will stop it. Likewise if it is not meant to be nothing will make it happen.
I understand that my discernment of this is not a common one nor do I expect any one else to see as I do. For some the best option is to move on to seek their heart's joy wherever it might be and to them I send my best wishes. Everyone deserves the utmost in happiness and fulfillment. In her I have found more than I have ever had and that sates any possibility for whatever my heart ever dreamed. That is enough for me. Do I want more? Of course I want it all but never without it being given wholly. I could never force, beguile, or otherwise stip a single part of her freedom for any desire no matter how much I could ever want. My Love is uncondtional and not revokeable in any way shape or form without destroying what it is completely.
Excellent post!

The highlighted points actually apply to my husband and I also...It's amazing to think of all we've been through, together and individually...to finally end up at the point where we are now...

BP, from your post here, and thinking about particular actions of
some((not all, of course!))...You're one in a million...Apparently,
some people are here, JUST to play or cause problems...or maybe just to boost their egos by see how many conquests, real or imagined, they can come up with...or whatever twisted game they're playing...
dillinger wrote:are the people who are engaged/married on this site actually engaged/married or is it a virtual um thing?
Uhmmm...well, I really doubt many would post about being
married or engaged on this public forum and
NOT actually be...
As for some that would "doubt" the validity of such announcements...((I've actually never had this happen, just read on this thread that it's happened to some)),Think about it...why...doesn't make sense....

Or it doesn't to me anyway...
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