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How do I attract what I am looking for. My profile says a lot about me and so do my threads, and no one is commenting on either of them when they write me. eVEN WHEN i ASKED THEM.

I think they just want a person to listen to them or they want me to lead the relationship or they think they are so attractive themselves, that they do not need to say anything.

is there anything I can add or change in my profile so I can get someone who really notices me (not my photo when I have it visible) but the character I am.

Someone said I resemble Diane Keeton, the actress.

I would relocate for the right person but want to be sure he is not between relationships (on rebound).

I understand that many people do not like to "kiss and tell", I am just wondering how people behave on first dates. Is sex an issue on the first date? And, I mean the actual face to face meeting for the first time. Even if a person flies half way around the world or continent, does he/she expect to give themself totally to that other person? And if they don't deliver...What then becomes of the "relationship"? Perhaps a farewell to CS, and a disgruntled member leaving the forums heart-broken? What if the person did deliver, but no chemistry was present for one in the "meeting", Can we as adults just say..ok, it didn't work, had sex, and move on, without any repercussions? Or, do you think save sex for the when the chemistry is just right?

Since I have been on this site I have always wondered this question and thought a few more opinions would be great.

i just want some new tools

you know that most of the men are just looking for that noch on the headboard. Why else are they on her , stop and think and do the math are there that many single women and men out there. Do you people reallise how many dating sites thats out there it is unbeleaveable. There are some of us out there that is looking for that special person, but what is that ? We are all special in are own way.

I recieved a reply on a very recent e-mail from a beautiful CS member and I'll be damned!!!

I can't stop smiling

Ty Darlin

About a year ago we added a feature called Who’s Viewed Me. We thought it would be fun for you to know who has shown enough interest to read your profile and/or view your photo… even though they may not have taken the step to send a flower or message. It’s like going to a party and making eye contact from across the room, but not going over to talk to them yet. It’s also a kind of feedback… a tool to help you know if your profile is attracting attention. It was our goal to ‘mix things up a little’ and get things going between members that might not otherwise find each other.

For months we’ve received notes from members telling us they don’t like Who’s Viewed Me. In our never-ending-effort to make improvements to your online dating experience here, we removed the feature. Also, in terms of site performance, this is a ‘power robbing extra’ and why waste resources for something members don’t even like?

Now, however…. We are being flooded with requests to bring that feature back..

Ok.. Alright already… Which is it?? Yay or Nay??


--------------------------THIS IS AN UPDATE TO THIS THREAD----------------------:
We have brought this feature back to the site...
for more information, see the thread
'"Who's Viewed Me" feature - back by popular demand'
http://www.connectingsingles.com/Forums/dating-forum-posts-4153.htm