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Single Hot Dude is on leave.......

Do you care about being popular?

I was once one of the more popular posters on this site. (Probably more due to the fact that I always seemed to be here rather than any real personality!) It was honestly nice to know that no matter how bad my day was in RL, I had somewhere to go that I could be cranky, flirty, down-right silly, serious or whatever mood I was in that day and always be greeted with welcoming open arms. It almost became an escape from reality....I left for a few months and now that I have returned, most of my forum friends are gone. The site isn't as much fun for me as it once was but I am sure by posting more frequently, new bonds will be made and it will become that again......So to answer the question......Yes, in the forums I guess I do care.

In RL --- not really.

How important is it to you? I don't really need to be liked by everybody but enjoy the feeling of having people around that are genuinely happy to see me and want to know what I have to say.

Do you tone down your comments rather than speak your mind? No. I don't tone down my comments but if I feel like my comments are going to be a moot point because whoever I am making them to seem too stubborn to care, I usually just move on.

Do you pander to social norms just to maintain being liked by the many? Simply no.

Do you make threads just to see your name on the first page? No....I do start threads because it is sometimes easier for me to talk to new people about subjects that are on my mind or dear to me rather than jumping into threads trying to talk to or make my point with people I don't know.

Would you risk your popularity to be up front with a friend or pal here? I don't tend to make many waves with too many people.....if I felt I needed to be upfront with a friend or pal here, I know where the email button is. Not everything needs to be said in a public forum.



Are you just a talking talker or a talk and walker?

It would be honest of him and would save their valuable time. In most cases it wouldn't go any farther than him stating what he is looking for. Both benefit from being honest.

Who says so???

Lots of people want to get together for sex, your just not
one of them.
Its a real world out there, people have different agendas,
Some people would be quite happy to discuss this from
the outset.
Why do some people think everybody should play by their
rules!!!

A man takes out a hooker, he "expects" to have sex. The hooker "expects" to be paid for her services. "To me", these are the only "expectations" between man and woman that are valid.

When "I" place expectations on any woman, "I" am setting "myself" up for disappointment....

hello sweetx...... how are you ?

Present! Remember me?

I know there are some of us here that have been around for quite a while. I am sure we would love to get in touch with each other

I know I would love to get to talk to others that were here around 2006 and are still making CS the great place it is.

So, come on "oldies", old gang... Come in and say hello... free Margaritas and Sangria are on the house Can't wait to see ya'll