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I'll chime in here, although the other poster did a great job in describing what I want too.

It's not the looks, although I have to have some attraction. To me, intelligence makes a man more attractive. I just want someone who gives a damn about me, is romantic (meaning thoughtful, not buying me a ton of presents) and who I truly enjoy being with. Someone who cares what I think, and who of course I care about. Some one actually ready to - wait for it - it's coming - commit! So many guys say they want a relationship, but when it comes to that, they get scared. I like a man's man, someone who goes after what he wants in life.

Also, we are sexually compatible and he knows what he's doing. It is important; admit it ladies!


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OMG, this is too funny!


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Also, for chewing tobacco, which even though I smoke I do find nasty, if they swallow, they would throw up.


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I hate spitting, swearing, and when people I'm with blow their noses at the table while I'm eating. That's the worst!


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I'd totally move on. I wouldn't be too polite either if he actually told me to leave him alone. Then again, I wouldn't make myself annoying to where someone would ever say that to me.

Why do you ask, I wonder?


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Hey all. No, I have not met a single guy on CS. I've met guys on other sites and through the local site. That's actually been the best source. I've contacted a few from this site, but I never got a response. There's no magic I'm doing in terms of harnessing CS guys, trust me!




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Hey guys. No, it's not the guy who wants me to quit smoking. It's the other one, whose house I'm going to tonight for dinner. I think it's too soon though, but I just wanted to see what you all thought in general about this topic.


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How long do you wait after a new relationship is starting to have sex? Sorry if this has been asked before, but I can't find those threads.

I don't want to have the guy think I sleep around, which I don't, so what's the norm? I'm really looking also for guys' opinions on this; if you like a girl, and she sleeps with you right away, do you lose interest or think she's easy?


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It depends. The older you get, the less age differences matter. I'm 34, and I would date someone up to ten years older than me, but no more. When I was 20, I would never date someone who was in their thirties though.

I think that women have figured out that older men are probably more mature, which is not necessarily true, and they don't want to be with a younger guy. Especially at that age. Women in their early twenties perhaps are looking for a husband and figure a young guy won't be ready to settle down.

That's just my opinion though. Doesn't mean you can't prove them wrong! Just be respectful, and the one deserving of you will reciprocate!


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Here I am! Just kidding.

A lot of guys I have met say women are really into games, flakiness, and are materialistic. People seem jaded. But, don't give up hope. There still are some nice ones out there.

I feel the same way as you. I think I portray myself as unattractive or something, because when I meet guys, they seem surprised and some actually say they think I'm much more attractive than they would have thought. Which is nice, don't get me wrong. But, I feel like they really just are out for sex and some have tried to come on very strong. Very few seem to want more than that, and it's annoying. Just my experience lately.


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Thanks for the encouragement, guys. It's odd. I'm not sure if he's playing games or not, but he has emailed several times over the coure of the week and strongly hinted that if I'd quit smoking and dye my hair blonde (he's really attracted to blondes), he'd be into me. I'm like, thanks but no thanks. I think he's joking, but it is odd that I barely know him and he's saying that. Tonight, I emailed him back and in a casual way said something like, hey, I don't change for anyone but myself and I don't see us as anything but friends because I want someone to be crazy about me for me.

So, we'll see how it goes.

In the meantime, I met someone else. I put an ad in a local site (again) and got a huge response. I went out with one guy last night, and he's already asked me out again for tomorrow. He called me to make sure I got home safely and he called twice today to say hi. He's really sweet. So, we'll see...

It's all a learning experience, right?

Good luck to all of you who are considering quitting. I think I'm almost ready. And congrats to whoever posted who has quit for 7 weeks. That's so incredibly awesome! You're my hero!


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Thanks for the encouragement, guys!

I always meet met who aren't available for one reason or another. There's a guy at work that is flirty with me and totally my type too (I know, it seems a lot of guys are my type, but it's really not the case), but I'd never pursue that. I work in a small department, and it would be too uncomfortable if it didn't work out.

When I do quit smoking, you'll all be the first to know! You won't hear me coughing so much.


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I know, I know! I am working on psyching myself up to do so, but it would be harder if someone (especially that I barely know) is putting pressure on me in a way to do it.


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Hi everyone! Haven't posted in awhile. I've been so busy with work. How's everyone doing?

Met a guy yesterday online. We ended up emailing all day (we're both on spring break). He emailed originally to comment on my post, but said we weren't a match. I asked why, and he said he's busy with school and is not looking for anything serious right now, and he gets the impression I am. But, we chatted all day online, and we finally decided to go on a "non-date" last night as friends.

I didn't expect to be attracted to this guy, but I was! I mean, I really was, unfortunately. He basically said he was attracted to me, but he didn't care for smoking. I was very up front that I smoke from the first time we talked, and I didn't smoke in his face or anything. But hey, I do smoke. He suggested something along the lines of if I quit, he'd definitely be interested. Like I'm gonna quit for some guy! I do want to quit for myself though, but I'm just not there yet.

Anyway, as the night progressed, we were out in the parking lot of the restaurant talking, and it's like neither of us wanted to leave! We talked for over four hours in that parking lot!

So, we chatted online today, and he said he'd like to go out again. I'm just not sure I can be "friends" and go on non-dates when I'm that attracted to him! He's exactly what I look for in so many ways, and I can't get him off my mind. I've been out a lot lately, and no one has impressed me like this guy.

So, guys, what should I do? Nothing? Go out as friends? Keep the flirting going? Or just not chat with him anymore?

Thanks!



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Oh, I second hair on a man's chest. There's a guy at work... oh God! Too bad I work with him. I can tell he has a great hairy chest. Sometimes, I go make copies of anything just so I can walk by his office. I should quit so I can go out with him!


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Big, strong hands. Nice smile. Nice calves.


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It's not the Florida forums on this site. It's another site.


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Have you considered Chantix. It's the new(-ish) prescription medicine for quitting smoking. My mom, my aunt, my mom's best friend and her husband have all quit for over a year on it. They were the most die hard smokers I've known. All smoked over 40 years. They say it makes you feel like you don't even smoke, or you just had a cig and don't want another. I never thought I'd live to see the day my mom would quit, but she did!

If your attempt doesn't work cold turkey, consider this. Anyone heard anything negative about this Chantix???


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First of all, no, the emails were not from this site! Second of all, I wasn't complaining about getting no emails. I was just wondering why. Then, I remarked in this post that suddenly I put something on another forum similar to this and got many. The too-good-to-be-true guy has emailed twice more and seems pretty cool. But who knows? I'm not doing anything but writing, so it's all good.

My cat is okay, by the way.


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Thanks for brightening up my morning!


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