phaedellis wrote:Sorry to bail on thursday guys but my man came over and nearly caught me out....
Then i had my son call me and start harrassing me for money, he is 28yrs old, has gotten himself involved in the drug scene BIGTIME, i have in the past bailed him out so many times, and each time he promises to go on the straight and narrow, but NEVER does, and this time he is in soooo deep its breaking my heart, he does not know how to say NO, he is addicted to just about everything, and i have had to wipe my hands and we all know how difficult that is for a mother to do, i met up with him on friday, he has lost so much weight he looks like a walking skeleton, his eyes are constantly blood shot and he has these massive balck circles around them, its really killing me, but he still does not believe he does'nt have a problem???? I left it at " when you're ready for my help, and can admit to yourself you have a problem and need REHAB, i'll be here, but i can't do anymore.
Have i done the right thing? help as its truly killing me and have spent the past 4days so upset that i cant think straight.....
Jesus Christ Phae, as a mum you must be beside yourself. All you can do is be a good Mum, he is old enough to make his decisions. That's the trouble with decisions you have to pay the consequences for them. I wish you and your son all the luck in the world
My life would be rotating around my kids if this was them I'm afraid even though they are old enough.