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I posted this because I've learned a lot being a single mother. I have seen my son do so much that I haven't taught him! I've seen & heard him do things I would never want him to do cuz he learned from watching me. He has also, in what few relationships I have had watched how he should & shouldn't treat the ladies. I love that. I never taught him to open the doors for women, how to protect women when people aren't treating them right! I never taught him those things. I'm not proud of some of the things he's seen but they have taught him how to be a loving kind boy because he's watch how others have done things & how it affects me & the ones he cares for! & watching him grow & learn has also taught me so much.


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No salary, just unconditional love! LOL


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Lol, I was really bored!


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WHEN YOU THOUGHT I WASN'T LOOKING


A message every adult should read because children
are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you hang my
first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately
wanted to paint another one.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you feed a
stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind
to animals.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make my
favorite cake for me, and I learned that the little
things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking I heard you say a
prayer, and I knew that there is a God I could always
talk to, and I learned to trust in Him.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you make a
meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I
learned that we all have to help take care of each
other.


When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of
your time and money to help people who had nothing,
and I learned that those who have something should
give to those who don't.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw you take care
of our house and everyone in it, and I learned we have
to take care of what we are given.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw how you
handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't
feel good, and I learned that I would have to be
responsible when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw tears come
from your eyes, and I learned that sometimes things
hurt, but it's all right to cry.


When you thought I wasn't looking I saw that you
cared, and I wanted to be everything that I could be.


When you thought I wasn't looking I learned most of
life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and
productive person when I grow up.


When you thought I wasn't looking I looked at you and
wanted to say, 'Thanks for all the things I saw when
you thought I wasn't looking.'

I AM SENDING THIS TO ALL OF THE PEOPLE I KNOW


WHO DO SO MUCH FOR OTHERS,
BUT THINK THAT NO ONE EVER SEES.


LITTLE EYES SEE A LOT.


Each of us (parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, teacher, friend) influences the life of a child.

How will you touch the life of someone today? Just by
sending this to someone else, you will probably make
them at least think about their influence on others.
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.


Leave the rest to God.



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We at Darling Girlfriend Enterprises (DGE) are looking to fill the position of Amazing Boyfriend (AB). The position has been filled by wonderful people in the past, but in the past year we have only employed part-time individuals, due to lack of qualified applicants. We feel that a full-time A.B. would enrich and inspire DGE in a multitude of ways.
Job Description:
The highly sought after position promises great fulfillment, intense pleasure and heaps of fun. DGE is a fully capable Girlfriend, offering many opportunities for growth, support, intimacy, conversation, entertainment and love. The job includes a balanced mix of romantic, playful, silly, mind-enhancing and vigorous physical activity. There will be a blend of both fancy and casual outings – some alone and some with DGE affiliates. There will also be a considerable amount of time relaxing and sensual activity in the home (and elsewhere) as well. Light travel is anticipated.
The position will start out on a trial basis until both parties determine that this is a good fit. Once the trial period is over – we expect that there will be many passionate interludes and a deeper connection. We foresee opportunities for advancement as well – as we plan to expand our roles of AH and AF in the future. Candidate should desire a long term commitment to DGE. Again – we are not looking to fill part-time positions at this time.

Qualifications:
• emotional and self awareness
• general happiness and friendliness
• high level of integrity
• ability to make DGE laugh uncontrollably
• very sexy & devilishly handsome (unique quirkiness a plus)
• open adoration to DGE
• desire to try new things and participate in a variety of activities (both physical, spiritual and mental)
• must be witty, clever and educated
• previous experience as an AB is preferred – though we hope that AB has left previous companies on good terms.
• physically fit (to enhance the participation in various physical activities)
• lips that are up for copious amounts of kissing
• located in or near the city of Shingle Springs - as proximity to company is important in the event that after-hours work is required.
• ability to write love letters, provide spontaneous surprises and massages is a plus
• outside interests are highly encouraged – as too much devotion to DGE is a sign of co-dependence
About DGE:
DGE is an attractive company - that any AB would be delighted to join. DGE is highly regarded by her affiliates as being passionate, sassy, loving, inspiring, creative, successful and adorable. Keeping an idealistic and optimistic attitude have attributed greatly to her success. The culture at DGE is very stylish, happy and adventurous. We have always encouraged people to be their best selves and expect the same of ourselves. DGE is based in Shingle Springs and has no immediate plans for relocation.
Do you feel you have what it takes to be an AB at DGE? Please send your "resume" and cover letter to the above e-mail address. We look forward to hearing from you!! Please note that even though DGE may be an incredible company and you may be the perfect AB, the chemistry must be very strong in order to proceed beyond initial interview.



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Oh trust & beleive I'm not letting them get away with threatening me. I've got a child & I'm also pregnant! That is the last thing I need to worrie about. I'm not going to put my son's life, my life or the one to comes life in danger!


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Well thank you sweetie! I know I deserve way better & can do way better! I've cut all ties with this man, I told him good bye & not to call me any more. I also told him KARMA IS A BITCH!

I've been tought that you should do unto others as you would want done to you!


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I think he needs more than just counseling... now he's having her call me & threaten me & he's threatening me. I'm done, he's to childish


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Thank u... even though its going to be hard... I think I may just do that! Thank u all for ur help.


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I've tried telling him I wouldn't do that to him. idk...I guess i care to deeply for him & know what pain he's going threw cuz I've been there too & wanna see him get threw this. But maybe I just got to move on. Its hard though when he's messaging me & everything.


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I've been thinking that but he's still hurt so bad & he needs to know that his worth more than what she did cuz he thinks he's worthless cuz what happened...I just don't know how to get threw to him & wanna be a good friend even though i'm hurting


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Ok, here is my problem. I met a man a few months back threw a friend. He was with this woman for 5 years, married her than a week later she told him she was cheating on him & it was over. He was & still to this day is heartbroken over this. We started seeing each other. Everything was going great! Than he started telling me how we can't be together because he feels to much for me & is can't go threw another heartbreak & he fears I will do it just like she did. He tried pushing me away, than said sorry for hurting me & how much he cared & wanted to be with me. Now he's doing it all again! Instead of breaking up with me & leaving it as that he's messaging me telling how much he cares & is sorry for doing this to me & he's not worth my tears. I've tried telling this man that I think he is wonderful & he deserves better than what she did to him. I don't know how to help him or what I should do. Any advise?


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Very true



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Why do you say that? I am only speaking from my experience.


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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he does not want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend would not mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You will be mad at yourself
A year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He did not marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh, Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
Not all men are dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he does not turn out to be Mr... Right
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your
always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Do not fully commit to a man who gives you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate
them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.


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I'm not new but it has been a while sense I've been on here so I just thought I would say hello & see how everyone is doing. Hope every one's new year is going good!


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I feel the same way sometimes... It just really depends on the guy. I have had some guys who have been great with my kids, some guys I had to let go cuz they competed with my child for my time & affection, & some guys that have ran! Don't give up... I believe there is a soul-mate for everyone!


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oh no, no, no...it was nothing even close to being violant! I would never go for anything like that...


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Its ok...I asked for others opinions, & you all are just telling me what you think or have learned from your lives. I'm not taking it personal. I've been through so much & am still learning. & I can bet I will make so many more mistakes through my life that I will learn from. That is why I ask others for their thoughts...so I can learn...LOL I may not always listen but I at least do my best...


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