ok here is what i went thru...
realize ppl that nobody respects a doormat. if you are too nice, ppl are going to walk all the f&*k over you. if you are too much like a a-hole, nobody will even talk to you... so where are you going to draw the line? its not as simple as it looks.
example, i usually frequent a pay-site that has free signup unless you wish to talk to someone and email them like this one can for free... it is purely ppl just looking for sex and nothing but.
what i was going to say with that site, is that i had the bio brimming with nothing but words like 'respectful, nice guy, effectionate, loving, respectful, nice, respectful' - i got no winks, emails, NOTHING. but then i tried to act like a hard a$$.
my next bio stated 'b*tch' every other word, and it went something like 'what i want in a true b**** is someone that will kiss my a**, and know her true place - as second to the MAN' - you know.... kinda like that stuff.
and what do you know? i got about 13 emails in 2 weeks from women that just wanted to be used and abused! then thrown away like trash. (i didnt go after any of them, it wouldnt be how i truly am). but whatever right? everyone talks about how 'the man should communicate more, listen more, be more effectionate... CHANGE for women', i am thinking that women dont like these kinds of changes and my last gf DIDNT KNOW ONE THING ABOUT communicating to begin with!!! so what is the deal?
she just wanted sex every day and her idea of sharing her feelings was to yell at me when i didnt automatically know what movie or dinner to take her to. her idea of that was simple - 'the man should know automatically what the woman is thinking! they should know just because they are men what women want every second of every day'
it gives me practice, true, and i am a better man for that.... but c'mon ladies. am i blowing this whole thing out of proportion???
tony
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