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It's true...but it's nuts....

I feel that if someone will not take no for an
answer and begins stalking, then they have
a mental problem and the only way may
be for the police to be involved for safeties sake.

Apparently some people like stalkers, they want someone who will chase them in the beginning, come and get me, hurt yourself doing it; so it wouldn't be odd for the stalker to continue the behavior after .. wanting to be loved and wanting to be stalked are 2 different things.

I know we joke about here, all in good fun; but in RL needing that groping, never let go, run thrut the fires of hell, keep it up until your body crumbles just isn't healthy. I think theres self esteem issues in the needer and the stalker here. I guess its possible to fall prey to it as well, as we all want to be loved, but I think it shows pretty early so... Personally I would be ok with it as long as there are signs they want change, but if not, ummm bye..

Ending .. Generally, I would try to talk it through, without giving any wrong 'hope' signals, but it has only happened to me once. Haven't normally been the 'ender' unless its early in a relationship and I just saw things that looked irreconcilable, either not compatible or stubbornly in a control rut and I just dont see any desire in them to get out of it.

Ya, not a lot of how to end it help there ...

good luck to you and gra ... I think some well thought separation is a good thing

Well, maybe he'd be there for both??....

Well, maybe he'd be there for both??....

Who would like to have a male friend for companionship, with a little on the side

The best way; emotions are basically the same just a different scenario Honesty and civility are usually the best way...%)

Just tell me straight Trish,

I can take it!!!

Yes, yes, yes Trish......

No easy way to part from someone.
But however gently you try to let them down,
if they hurt then some will get nasty,
mostly I have not had too much unpleasentness
though.

I wouldn't recomend doing by text though!

how you doing up there?

You being you, how would you handle the scenario of letting an employee go that simply has not worked out...?

Toby Keith - Get Drunk And Be Somebody

didn't catch the film...try stephen foster...

....marc bristol and the shack shakers...condom in his pocket

..jerry lee lewis...lewis boogie

I've decided to bump this thread because this is just too damn important an issue to let die and because there are a lot of new members who haven't voted in this poll.

I would also like to hear some more comments supporting your choice especially from any American who would vote to burn the constitution. If you would set a match to the constitution you must have some good reason to destroy all our rights and our freedoms that our sons and daughters have fought and died for for 100's of years.

I recently chopped off my hair really short because I could'nt be bothered to die it anymore!!!

Might let it grow again or not depending how my face looks with silver hair all round it!!

The problem is that it takes weeks to months for the bacteria to show up as symptoms.

That is the problem it is so many brands that is affected, do not know which ones are safe anymore.

I have for years grown my hair long and virgin. I used to donate it to "Locks of Love" for cancer victims. My natural color is a warm chestnut brown. Always worn to my hips or longer. Finally cut about 12 inches off, permed and colored it. First time in nearly 10 years. The cost was $250.

Hi Trish