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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Today, 2:31 AM CST

diogenes wrote:

That's the thing isn't it...these emotions are what give life it's zest. Love would have no meaning if we didn't love to be in love. Were there never any pain, or if it didn't hurt, there would be nothing to drive us toward something better.

Look at it this way instead....the love is worth it.

Life is all about pain. Any Mother already knows this, because life begins in pain, it is endured in pain, and if you are conscious when you die, you will probably die in some sort of pain. But love .... ....love is worth it.

On this hun we are going to have to agree to disagree, I dont think anything is worth that pain.

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 7:01 PM CST

gingerb wrote:

Not sure we can really appreciate the great feelings if we have no bad comparisons to measure it by.

But I think the saying means that we are better to have experienced love at all, know and claim that feeling for the wonderful thing it is, than never to have experienced it, even if that means we had to get hurt.

In a sense I do get that hun just dont agree with it.

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vonney
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:55 PM CST

wixomwizard wrote:

KEEP SEARCHIN' I just sent you something with no conditions, and I do it all the time with other's and I'm still single and lovin it. I guarentee you, you will never be disappointed with it!

And I thank you, it is appreciated and excepted in the spirit it is meant. As for searching..no not for me hun.

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:45 PM CST

jbibiza wrote:

I guess I look at it a bit like child birth... the pain is agony, the gain so worth the pain. But to each their own... does that mean you´re leaving me more opportunities???

Dont get me started on the childbirth thing hun lol

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vonney
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:45 PM CST

wixomwizard wrote:

If you don't, youNEVER will find it! I f you lost a $100,000 dollar diamond ring, I bet you would look for it! How much more is true unconditional love worth? you got mail

And if I dont have it I cant lose it hun

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:44 PM CST

Happy Birthday Tara

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:41 PM CST

Daniel4021 wrote:

alright Ladies, I think us studs should stand up for ourselves.. Come on guys let's show the ladies what real studs are like... in a good way of course...

Wheres the ladies thread? did I miss it?

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:38 PM CST

jbibiza wrote:

Because being in love is such an amazing and wonderful place to be... I have experienced it and that´s what makes it so frustrating for me now... I want it again.

No matter how much I fill my life with good friends, great nights out, treating myself to holidays and enjoying my life, I know life can be that bit better with love in it.

I can appreciate thats how you feel hun. I have experienced being in love, thats how I know the pain of losing it and nothing on earth would make me go through that again. I simply cant understand why anyone would want to risk it.

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:34 PM CST

Xtabentun wrote:

It's better by comparison
...just one of those sayings...of course nothing beats the ideal " better to love and be loved in return"

But if we had never loved we would never have had to feel that pain.

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vonney
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:28 PM CST

diogenes wrote:

I think not.

The expression "It is better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all" may seem cliché, but I really believe that every experience of love is worth having, regardless of the outcome. If we realize that we can consciously decide to love, then it seems obvious that there is no limit to the numbers (Okay, there is the monogamy limit, but that goes with out saying I hope).

see thats the bit that gets me...why is it better?

I dont understand how people can say that the pain of losing someone you love is worth it.

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vonney
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Posted: Yesterday, 6:21 PM CST

Maybebabe wrote:

mine 2

lol not getting drawn into this shite again

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:18 PM CST

Maybebabe wrote:

do wha?pls inform me

That was a question not a statement

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 6:14 PM CST

Maybebabe wrote:

Why do modern women wanna be the dominating partner so bad these days?

They do?

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 5:36 PM CST

mbcasey wrote:

Do you have any inclination to meet someone...not just from here, but anywhere?

I am at the point where I don't think it wiill happen for me, but I don't want to give up yet.

If you dont want to give up then dont.

As I have said for me it is simply about excepting the reality of things.

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 4:32 PM CST

Doesnt always happen

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 2:14 PM CST

hollandgirl wrote:

I am not lonely just don't enjoy doing things alone.
Need/want to share everything in life.
A book, a movie, a beautiful scenery whatever!

But surely we should be able to enjoy these things ourselves and not have to have someone else there to mke them enjoyable

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 2:06 PM CST

I dont see it as giving up/in, I see it as excepting reality. And that the whole love and relationship thing is not for everybody. I think it is a waste of life to spend it looking for someone else to complete us instead of enjoying what we have.

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 10:34 AM CST

Well folks has been fun but I have to log of for now

take care

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 10:29 AM CST

vonney wrote:

hmmmm (striking BL off my mailing list)

meant BW of course

see I am hurt can type right

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vonney
Dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Yesterday, 10:29 AM CST

beachwalker wrote:

I never met her apart from mails today and I even worked out I need help Might be a blonde but not stupid

Only joking Vonney (well kinda )

hmmmm (striking BL off my mailing list)

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