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Don't know bout you Ralf, but mine sure doesn't look like that! Thank Gawd!!!

Re: Sex and Dating: If it feels good, hurts no one - go for it!!! After all, as you say Phae, we are all of a certain age and are consenting adults with a bit of experience and nous, hopefully!


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Hi Y'all! Hiya Kizzy! You said this guy's been back home 18months. Where was he before that? Why did he move back home?

Don't know that I'd care about his reasons for not moving - ie staying till he finds The One. Sounds like he's either been severely burned or he just wants to move from one nest to another.

When we split, many moons ago, my ex moved in with his parents, but only for a coupla months. I know I was shocked even at that!
Seems to be a guy thing though.

Chin up Kizzy, I know it's but you've gotta weed the garden to find the good ones. Sometimes even the weeds can be a bit of fun!


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Hello Jason. Wise words again from Kizzy and Ralf. I've come late into this conversation but feel I still have something to add. I am a Midwife and RN so do have some professional background to back me up.
Ralf's advice regarding counselling is wise in that you have been through is a major a traumatic event. One that seems to be somewhat ongoing, even though divorce is iminent. I commend you on your bravery to come forward with this in the forum, but feel that professional objective advice would be of more benefit. Your wife and mother of your child cannot be the same person you married after the traumatic events that she, herself, has experienced, nor can you ever see her in the same light. It will probably be quite a long time before she sees 'daylight', if ever. Pregnancy is well known to trigger hidden problems like these, unfortunately. It would be good if you are able to keep this in perspective, not only for your daughter but for yourself.
Kizzy's mention of destiny is pertinent too. Why this woman came into your life? What lessons you can learn from this experience? How you can this help you to grow and be a better father for your daughter?
As Pockets said this comorbidity is doubly difficult to deal with. It is so complicated, especially when emotions and little ones are concerned. 40 ECTs in 3yrs is a helluva lot! I have seen it work miracles with depression, though.
I so feel for you and wish you and your daughter, and her mother Light and Blessings


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Aww Kiz, I dinna mean it that way!! I love your posts! They are funny, witty, informative and warm. Keep 'em coming, girl!

I'll travel, but like you, gotta have a radius. I prefer to do the travelling - get outa the desert for one and 2/ if it's no go, I'll just drive away.
BUT if anyone wants to see the big smoke of Toowoomba, they are more than welcome!!


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Re: Any luck in Toowoomba?
Not unless you count the ones who want a "discreet" relationship! So, it's a big
Ne'er mind - still lookin' and havin' fun.
Re: "knowing you" tis a public forum, don't know you but like what you write and you DO write a lot, sooo.....

Enjoy


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"You listen for over 30 minutes. (+50)"

You listen for over 30 minutes and still don't try to 'fix' the problem. (+200)

You listen for over 30 minutes and try to fix the problem. ( -300)

You get the chocolate and red wine, and 2 glasses out while STILL listening. (+5000)

You get a scotch and a bag of chips for yourself and sit down to listen. (-5000)


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Hiya Mo! I'm not new to CS, but definitely a newbie to the forums! I''ve lurked for a while and sussed it out and it definitely looks like fun! Seems to have lots of honest compassionate friendly ppl and a heck of alot more fun than trawling the profiles

to you all and Welcome Mo!


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OOPSSSS!!! That names' on a diff site!!! But I guess the principle's still the same. My BAD!! RATFL


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Morning ppl! I realize I'm a latecomer to this thread, but better late than never! My name says it all: FemIngenue
Love the convos and to you all!
Great to see the honesty, compassion and friendship amongst you!
You surely are irreplaceable Kizzy!!! What a dulll world it would be without you!


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Just curious


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Hiya Ms Poodle - that wouldn't happen to have been toni500 would it now? Similar thing happend to me!



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Exactly right Manyfeathers! When you are strong in spirit, detrimental comments bounce back to the person who voiced them.

By the same token, though, if criticism is constructive and given in love, it should be taken on board. Sometimes others may see what we cannot.

If we stop learning and growing, we die - spiritually and often, physically.




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Hi People! My 1st post on ANY forum so pls bear with me! I'm a midwife and I find it very difficult if I'm trying to get information from a woman and her partner keeps butting in. Sometimes, I even get to the stage where I just ask him to be quiet and let me speak to the woman. It would be ideal if I could tell him to &*()off and leave us alone, so I could get he full story but that's not being "professional". If possible, I try to slip her a Domestice Violence card.
On another bent - if anyone has double crossed me, or is dishonest, they are crossed off the Xmas list - personal integrity comes 1st- always.


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