Edit My Stuff

Use the links below to view/edit your profile and edit your account, settings, and lists.

Edit Profile

View Profile

Photos

Add a Photo...Don't get missed!
Most members search by photo-only... don't you? Add a photo to your profile and attract more attention!

My Account

  • Edit Email Address
    Keep your email address current, so that we can notify you when you get new mail or when there is a get-together in your area. We keep your email address private.
  • Change Password
    Change your password regularly

Hide/Cancel

  • Hide Profile
    Hide your profile or make it visible. If you hide your profile, it must stay hidden for 24 hours.
  • Cancel
    Cancelling your account will permanently delete all your history on the site, your incoming mail, incoming flowers, incoming ecards, friends, fans, groups, testimonials, shout-outs, photo comments.

Edit Lists

  • Edit Photo Comments
    You can delete and approve comments that members have made to your photos
  • Edit Fans List
    You can delete members from your Fans List
  • Edit Friend Requests
    You need to approve Friend requests in order for them to appear on your profile. Use this page to approve or delete the requests.
  • Edit Friends List
    You can delete members from your Friends List
  • Edit Testimonials
    You can delete and approve Testimonials that members have written about you
  • Edit Shout-Outs
    You can delete and approve Shout-Outs that members have made to you

Add to Profile

  • Add a Video
    Post a video on your profile and share your favorite videos with others.
  • Add a Blog
    Post a Blog to your profile
  • Add a Poll
    Post a Poll to your profile, and see what others think about a topic that interests you.
  • Add an eCard
    Post an eCard to your profile and let others see your creative side
  • Add Tags
    Tag your profile to help other members with similar interests to find you.
Get More Attention!
Adding the above features to your profile will bring more views and attract attention to your profile and more mail to your mailbox.

Settings

  • Edit Settings
    Turn the following features on/off: IM, Friends, Fans, Photo Comments, Testimonials, Shout-Outs.
  • Show/Hide Profile
    Hide your profile or make it visible. If you hide your profile, it must stay hidden for 24 hours.
  • Who's Viewed Me Settings
    Turn on/off Who's Viewed me. If you turn it off, others will not be able to see you viewed them, and you will not be able to see who viewed you.
  • Rate Photo Settings
    Decide who can rate your photos (men, women, or both)
  • Edit Timezone
    Edit your timezone so that times and dates on the site display correctly to you

Blocking

  • Filter Settings
    Decide who can contact you! You can filter out members from contacting you based on their location, age range, marital status, and relationship type they are seeking.
  • Blocked List
    This is a list of members you have blocked from contacting you. You can unblock them on this page.

Blog

Get More Views to Your Profile

Here are some tips on how to use this site most effectively.

  1. Get Involved

    Making use of site features is fun and will bring more views and attention to your profile.
    Why not try one or more of the following:
    1. Add a photo  click here
    2. Add a blog  click here
    3. Add a video  click here
    4. Add an eCard  click here
    5. Add a poll  click here
    6. Add tags  click here
    7. Post in the forums  click here
    8. Rate other members photos  click here (a favorable rating will put you on their lists)
    9. Send mail (it takes mail to get mail)
    10. Send flowers
    11. View other members profiles (this will put you on their Who's Viewed Me List and show interest)
    12. Become a Fan of other members
    13. Become a Friend of other members (don't have friends on this site yet? Then invite some of your own to join the site)
    14. Write photo comments on other members photos
    15. Write a Testimonial or Shout-Out on a members profile
    Using these features to get involved will get your profile listed on more pages and appearing on more lists. It will bring attention to your profile and mail to your mailbox. The more members that see your profile, the better chance your special someone will view your profile and find you.
    Your posts allow members to get to know the real-you better and members with like interests to find you. The best relationships grow slowly with people who get to know each other well. Someone on the site may find you by viewing your videos, forum or blog posts, and like what you say.

    However, the key to connections here is not to sit and wait for someone to come to you, but to use the free site features above as tools to connect. Don't be afraid to make the first move. Someone has to do it. Why not you?

  2. Add a Photo

    Consider the following:
    1. Most members search by photo-only... don't you?
    2. Photo ads are featured on many site pages giving your profile more chances to be seen.
    3. Members are more comfortable communicating with someone they can see.
    4. Remember beauty is a matter of opinion, personal taste, and background. You don't need to look like a movie star to be attractive to the person who is looking for someone just like you.
    5. There is someone for everyone - you just haven't connected yet.
    Click here to upload a photo »

  3. Proofread

    Take time to proofread, check your profile for accuracy, and make any necessary changes. Your narratives DO matter! It's your presentation to readers, and like it or not, you will be judged by your words (or lack of them). Keep it friendly, positive and upbeat. A profile with an invalid email address or incomplete or inappropriate narrative text will be deleted without notice to you.