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If a guy can't accept that you have a male friend, then he isn't ready to accept you for who you are.

-JMO-

Thanks for the male opinion on this , I also agree that I should keep my friend but so far it has seemed to cause problems.

Just a matter of finding a man that is secure with himself and doesn't have the insecurities of a little boy.

Exactly right. No insecurities.

Do what u want. If he can not take it, then too bad for him. Or just don't tell him and date more than one guy. Who cares what people think.

A 'real' best friend would not ask you to choose between them and your partner.

It's the guys that have a problem w/ her having a guy bf...I read it wrong the first time as well.

2 of my best friends are male, and i can talk to them about anything, we can only talk on line but my partner is fine with it but no i would not stop my friendship with them.

I agree ,my best friend Andy is male (obviously ) we grew up together and have shared most of the things we have went through in life "kids being born ,new jobs ,new dogs" so if i was asked to choose -like you - i would do exactly the same

Something could have happened in the past, might be worth asking why.

Only saying that because I've said the 'Of course I trust you with him' and then paid the price for it.

I'd never drop a best friend - any woman who claimed to love me couldn't if she didn't accept my friends as an important part of my life........ I have so few friends anyway that they are VERY precious to me.

My best friend is a woman - she likes to tell me all her boyfriend problems, and occasionally tells me what a complete twat I've been in the past........ which is 'ok' when true!

She once told me (a few years back) that she refused to put up any more girlfriends of mine I'd split up with who used to come over to the UK to visit me! Oh well, that was kinda sad - but believe it'll never happen again.........

I had that problem all the time.....I have more male friends then female it is what it is I wouldnt leave it out

I believe that ANYONE who would ask you to not see your bestfriend(be it male or female)has very low self-esteem and they should get their own life, not worry about yours. I wold NOT drop my best friend for anyone........ever.

I couldn't have said it better, myself.

And of course that works visa versa..

Its all down to security, or lack of..

Yeah you need to find a secure man, but why not date your best friend you already get along together and probably make a perfect couple, good romances start out as best friends, just a thought

In a word...NO

Ditto that.

Live your life...forget the insecure wimps that "don't like it"